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Think Kink: Destigmatising Pleasure and BDSM India

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, March 13, 2024 22:47:37

When it comes to understanding sex and kink as well as therapy affirming the two – what’s our progress report like?

Source: Grazia.co.in.

INDIA – Truth time: This piece started out as a look into how open dating app users are about kink and sex positivity. However, there’s not enough data, not enough information to analyse these factors – it’s still a pretty discreet space, which means apps also don’t have a clear idea on the number of users actively looking for partners that align with their ideas of exploring. Sex educators have been urging people to take the shame away from sex and kinks, trying to normalise the conversation. And it has reached some ears, because otherwise, a show like Class that highlighted the tryst of Gen Z with exploring their sexuality and relationship dynamics could never have reached as many people as it did, bringing us to a simple question: Now that we have all the knowledge at our disposal, and many ways to break out of the taboos associated with kinks, what are we doing with it?

See more and larger photo’s on: Grazia.co.in.

SPREADING THE WORD

Sangya Project, a trauma-informed, kink affirming brand, works to destigmatise sex, pleasure, and BDSM through community-led sex ed and accessible pleasure products. Tanisha Rao, co-founder and chief of social voice at Sangya, points out that the most actively responsive and engaged group with their brand is the demographic of 25 to 40-year-olds. “They are most likely to read the content, ask us follow up questions, shop for BDSM gear and ask detailed queries about products and different forms of play. With people below the age of 25, the awareness of different acts and names is higher, so they bring more enthusiasm into the discourse,” they add. Over the years, Tanisha has observed more voices normalising conversations around anal play, embracing bondage, mutual masturbation and edging, among other kink-positive discussions.

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Operatic black metal outfit Folterkammer share new video “Leck Mich” 

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, March 13, 2024 22:38:31

Source: Metalinsider.net.

WORLD – Folterkammer have premiered their new single, “Leck Mich,” along with a scandalous video clip set in the 18th century starring their vocalist Andromeda Anarchia in a dominatrix role. The provocative and intense song is musically a journey between the sounds of classical music and the powerful tints of modern black metal. In the images accompanying the new single, you can appreciate the feminine strength in an encounter for sovereignty and power. The fast guitar riffs add the final intensity to the cruel story told with a perfect mix of beauty and brutality. Their new album, Weibermacht, will be released on April 19th via Century Media Records. The band recently announced their first US tour, starting on March 22nd.

See more and larger photo’s on: Metalinsider.net.

Anarchia explais:

 “The expression ‘Leck mich!’ has several meanings in German. The literal (Lick me!) and the more abstract, vulgar version, short for ‘Leck mich am (Arsch)!’ (lick my a$$!), which is vulgar for: ‘Leave me alone!’ or ‘Fvck off!’. The term ‘Weibermacht’ refers to an art and cultural-historical motif and describes the triumph of women (and their erotic power) and love over men. In poetry, particularly powerful, wise, strong, and beautiful men allow themselves to be seduced by the folly of love and lose their self-control, virtue, dominance or even their lives. In the song ‘Leck mich!’ the commanding tone is set; men are once again playfully commanded into the submissive and obedient role. ‘Who sets the tone here? there is a clear answer: The goddess, the mistress, the dominatrix.”

Watch the clip below and pre-order the album here:

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BDSMradio.EU on KRR (Kinky Riante Retail Market) second edition March 16 Belgium

BDSM Media News, BDSMradio.EU News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 05:30:44

Source: KRRr-info.be/en/

BELGIUM _ AARSCHOT – BDSMradio.EU (@tomVerhoeven on Fetlife.com) is present at this beautiful kinky fair for reports where there is plenty to experience. In the evening there is a Rope Jam event. For more information. Visit the KRR website.

See more photo’s and info on: KRR-info.be/en/
tom Verhoeven BDSMradio.EU/eng with the puppy from Mistress Madieanne Madieanne.com.


Ask me anything: Being a Dominatrix (Clarity Mills audio podcast)

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 05:07:09

Source: Newstalk.com.

IRELAND – A dominatrix believes Ireland has come ‘really far, really fast’ but there is still whiplash from all the recent societal changes.

Listen to the podcasts en see more larger photo’s on: Newstalk.com.

Clarity Mills was speaking to the ‘Ask Me Anything’ series on Lunchtime Live, which sees people come into studio and answer your questions every Friday.

Clarity hosts workshops and helps individuals to help them improve their sex lives.

She told the show people sometimes misunderstand about where kinks come from.

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Here’s Some Adult-Themed Rentals Around The World Because Kinks Are Universal

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 04:54:10

Source: Scoopwhoop.com.

WORLDWIDE – When I first booked a room to be with my boyfriend, I was literally shivering because it was not a common practice back in the day. With time, hotel chains started the concept of couple-friendly rooms and it soon became pretty normal. And now, several rentals have spiced up their apartments that offer a whole range of ‘naughty experiences’.

In this article, we have listed the best ten adult-themed rentals around the world that seem to be straight out of Fifty Shades Of Grey. Sit back and take a look!

1. Amsterdam 303 – New Delhi, India

Yes, that’s correct – there’s an adult-themed apartment right in the capital city. Inspired by Fifty Shades Of Grey, this place is perfect for couples who are into bondage. The room offers different furniture and decor items to spice up your love life. And of course, the red lights perfectly go with the apartment’s unique theme.

See this article with photo’s from all locations on: Scoopwhoop.com.
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Dominatrices Are Showing People How to Have Rough Sex Safely (audio podcast)

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 04:38:48

Research shows rough sex is becoming more common. Dominatrices are helping the general public catch up.

Source: Scientificamerican.com.

USA – Kate Klein: There’s this, like, whole world underneath people’s clothing that no one talks about.

Click here for listen the podcast.

Sari van Anders: Our science, in some ways…, is sort of, like, catching up with people’s existences.

Meghan McDonough: I’m Meghan McDonough, and you’re listening to Scientific American’s Science, Quickly. This is part one of a four-part Fascination on the science of pleasure. In this series, we’re asking what we can learn from those with marginalized experiences to explore sexuality, find the female orgasm and illuminate asexuality. In this episode, we’ll take you inside the world of BDSM, which stands for “bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.” Practitioners say that, when done with proper consent and communication, rough sex can be not only pleasurable but also healing. Ect, ect. Listen to the podcast!



Former dominatrix reveals tips for dominating your job — and getting a raise (Kasia Urbaniak)

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 04:29:00

Source: NYpost.com.

USA – Kasia Urbaniak, a 45-year-old author and former dominatrix, shared her advice on how women can ask for what they want whether it be a raise or promotion — and get it.

See more and larger photo’s on: NYpost.com.

“In the workplace, women won’t ask for the resources they need to do the job well. They’ll make due,” Urbaniak, a New Yorker who spends much of her time traveling the world, told The Post. “I see women do this all the time. They don’t get enough sleep. They don’t ask for what they need.”

Urbaniak said this creates a “situation where a woman thinks she’s shining in the workplace if she makes due with little.” This is valuable to companies, she explained, “but it’s not going to be rewarded because that’s not the kind of culture we live in.”

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‘I make £8k a month controlling men – but blokes are too jealous to date me’ (Mistress Valentina)

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 04:18:05

EXCLUSIVE: Mistress Valentina is a dominatrix and doesn’t mind the world knowing it. Although, that doesn’t mean that dating and friendships are easy to manage

Source: Dailystar.co.uk.

UK – A dominatrix admitted that dating is difficult as men are ‘jealous’ of her kinky job.

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailystar.co.uk.

Mistress Valentina, who is in her 20s, took the total plunge into the sex industry after she turned to flogging naughty snaps while she was battling cancer. Now back to full health, the Brighton-based kink-enthusiast has cemented her place in the world of fetish and beyond with her unique services – like Locktober.

Despite earning an average of £8,000 a month from degrading men, Valentina doesn’t have the easiest time when it comes to relations outside of work. She finds that people only see a job, and not who she is as a person away from the whips, chains and chastity cages.

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Metro Detroit ‘Sexual Health and Wellness Sensei’ encourages people to be open-minded (Godess Opalonia)

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 04:06:11

Goddess Opalonia wants women to know they can be both dominant and sexy

Source: Metrotimes.com.

USA – DETROIT – Opal Ramsey, known by some as Goddess Opalonia, says that exploring BDSM has changed her life. Now, practicing what she calls “kink therapy,” she encourages individuals to embark on their own journeys of self-discovery within their bodies and relationships.

See more and larger photo’s on: Metrotimes.com.

“Sometimes these outlets can be therapy for many people,” she says. “Sometimes there’s hidden desires that people have repressed, due to their careers or their religions, and [this work] really gives them the safe space to let go and be free and explore different kinks they didn’t know they loved.”

Before the pandemic, Ramsey worked primarily as a masseuse at a Southfield spa called Pressure Point. But when the world closed due to the COVID-19 pandemic, her position was considered “super unessential,” she says. Her workplace was one of the first to close, and last to reopen, and when the spa did accept clients again, the work was minimal as many people did not want to get touched for fear of getting sick.

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Naked Welsh MI6 ‘spy in the bag’ theories from Russian mafia hit to ‘interest in bondage’

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 03:55:22

For more than a decade, the chilling death of 31-year-old Gareth Williams – an MI6 codebreaker found naked and decomposing inside a padlocked bag – has remained an enigma

Source: Dailystar.co.uk.

UK – The death of an MI6 spy whose naked body was found inside a holdall with the zips padlocked and the key inside has sparked a frenzy of lurid speculation for over a decade.

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailystar.co.uk.

But it seems likely that noone will ever know what really happened to junior analyst, Gareth Williams – a Welsh maths whizz who had been seconded to the secret service to investigate financial corruption involving Russia. The 31-year-old was discovered inside a North Face bag inside the bath of his London flat a week after he was last seen alive in 2010.

A coroner ruled he had been the victim of an unlawful killing amid growing suspicions from his family that he’d been murdered, after DNA belonging to two people was found on the bag but never identified. It sparked calls for a forensic review into what became known as the “spy in the bag” case.

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I was a Australian dominatrix who used to spank men with Bibles – Now I’m a celibate Sunday school teacher (Contessa Doll)

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 03:43:28

Source: NYpost.com.

AUSTRALIA – Just a few years ago, Tessa Williams would regularly dress up in her ‘sexy nun’ outfit, ask men to take off their pants and proceed to spank them on their behind with a large bible.

See more and larger photo’s on: NYpost.com.

For 15 years, she was known as one of Australia’s most successful ‘dominatrix’ sex workers, specializing in all things BDSM – a term used for a variety of sexual practices that include bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, and sadism.

The now 45-year-old worked under her kinky alter ego name ‘Contessa Doll’ and would often book out for months in advance from men seeking to pay $500-an-hour to be “tortured” and “dominated” in the bedroom.

But she has now swapped her chains and whips for sermons and bible readings after she says she “found God” during the lowest point of her life in 2021.

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Indiana college cancels bondage class teaching ‘safe rope tying’ and ‘handcuff skills’ over parental backlash

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 03:30:58

Source: NYpost.com.

USA – INDIANAPOLIS – A public Indiana college was forced to axe a student class on bondage techniques after astonished parents objected to the sexually-explicit seminar en masse.

See more and larger photo’s on: NYpost.com.

Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis abruptly yanked the offering that planned to teach students “safe rope tying techniques” and other fine points of eroticism which was set to take place next Tuesday.

The Hoosier handcuff symposium was slated to be led by a “national rope presenter” named Fynch, whose bio boasts of PhD level mastery of “basic negotiation, the anatomy of the arm, as well as the anatomy of the hip, groin, and upper leg

Open to all students, the class promised to move past theory “to give you hands-on experience with safe rope tying techniques.”

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Sex boundaries challenged at SubSpace Bermuda

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 03:18:03

Source: Royalgazette.com.

BERMUDA – Kinks and fetishes; bondage, submission, sadomasochism and dominance: from the outset, Jason Jones and his wife Miranda realised SubSpace was a bold move on a tiny island.

See larger photo on: Royalgazette.com.

They opened the doors in 2021 in what had been a basement apartment in their home in Paget.

Since then there’s been steady interest in their monthly socials and biweekly rope nights and “a growing sense of community”.

As a rental, SubSpace has also proven popular – for private date nights, hen nights, birthday parties and other adult events.

“On the surface, Bermuda’s very conservative. We knew there would be many misconceptions about the space and our motivation for creating it,” said Jason, who asked that we don’t use his and his wife’s real names.

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NOISY NEIGHBOUR 

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 03:00:35

We live next to sex toy factory specialising in bondage – the noises at 4am are horrendous… so we’re taking action

The sound has been measured as 16 decibels louder than background noise

Source: Thesun.co.uk.

UK – BATH – FUMING residents who live next to a sex toy factory are taking action after complaining of horrendous noises at 4am in the morning.

See more and larger photo’s on: Thesun.co.uk.

Lovehoney in Bath, has been forced to apply for restrospective planning permission for four heat pumps it has installed at its warehouse.

The company, which specialises in sex toys, lingerie, bondage kits and condoms, was founded in Bath in 2002.

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I Did Work Experience with a Dominatrix for a Day (Countess Diamond)

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, February 27, 2024 02:50:48

Everyone claims to be into kink these days, but how do the professionals do it? I shadowed Countess Diamond to find out.

Source: Vice.com.

USA – A man lies on his back on a black bondage table. He’s completely naked, apart from the cloth covering his face and the cuffs locking his neck, wrists and ankles to the table’s base. Oh, and the two clamps on his nipples, which are linked by a silver chain.

See more and larger photo’s on: Vice.com.

Countess Diamond – a dominatrix dressed in thigh-high stiletto boots – kneels between his legs. She takes the man’s dick in her left hand. In her right hand is a thin wooden palette. She brings it down sharply on the head of the man’s penis. “Do you love me,” Countess Diamond asks, a grin playing around the corners of her lips. “Yes,” the man whispers from underneath his face covering.

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