As a dom, Captain Milbourn taps into their inner bloodlust with love bites
Source: Dallasvoice.com
USA -DALLAS – Kink takes all shapes and forms. Beginners may dabble in light bondage or a sensual choke now and then, while the more experienced folks bring extreme perspectives to a broader spectrum of penetration, restriction, pain, taboo, scenarios and butt stuff.
And then there is Captain Milbourn (they/them) who is what the internet calls a vampire dom.
Yep, vampire.
“So, I play with the dynamic of pain, pleasure and a spectrum of sensations,” they said casually over a chai tea. “I’m a dom, and I work just with subs, but vampirism is a whole thing.”
But first, square one.
Milbourn, whom we’ve featured before as an actor (heck, they even played Dracula in a show), listed out a bunch of kinks that fall under their oeuvre — sexy stuff like pain play, torture, hot wax and static shibari bondage. They have an arsenal — or maybe toy chest is a better description — that includes stainless steel claws, iron pics and ropes. They will even hunt their prey or sub.
But with all their play with others (which they said have been all women), there is one underlying note that’s important above all else: “Everything is all very safe and consensual.”
They said, “I always meet with people or couples beforehand. It’s really like theater, which is perfect for me as an actor and an intimacy coordinator. But I just want to be sure we are all super safe about everything.”
The kink side of Milbourn appeals to a more primal side both in them and their subs. But as a vampire, it goes even deeper (see what I did there?).
“I feel feral and horny all the time. I don’t know if it’s because I’m trans and all these changes or what. But there is a primal call there,” they said. “But while it sounds dark, there is a beauty to it.”
For their subs, the experience is far less about just getting a bite from Milbourn, who has even been invited to bite audience members during their drag numbers at Gender Blender shows.
“A lot of it is this pleasure in me being obsessed with them so much that I am willing to take their blood,” they said. “For them, there is the feeling of being needed but also being seen as a necessity. That’s what I get from them.”
And if the neck is open or a meaty piece of flesh, Milbourn dives in.
“The erotic feeling and need for that sub’s blood is intense. There’s this feeling for both of us that I’m sucking their essence or lifeforce,” they said. “But also, for them, there is a trust in me — or the dom — in pushing the limits of that.”
The bite, though, sounds less about the blood and more about the marking. They said that when blood is involved, there’s a release, but their bite marks are a sort of memento.
“The markings are now art on the sub’s body, and they show it off. It won’t leave a permanent mark, but there are teeth marks and bruising that, in some ways, become artful,” they said while showing photos (allowed by the subs) of some of their bite work.
Looking at Milbourn, it might be easy to see how they lean into the vampire thing. They have an aura of sexual energy and power, mixed with a bevy of tattoos across their biceps and chest.
With that strong impression there is also a lot of humor and friendly, loving vibes. This isn’t a vampire lurking in the dark; Milbourn is easy-going, which probably adds to the comfort they provide their subs.
“We’ll meet and talk about what they want and my part in all that,” they said. “We talk about a pain scale and how they let me know if they need to stop or slow down.”
While Milbourn may not be on an out and loud crusade, they do want to see kink less stigmatized. Hey, we all have needs, and some of those are just a little more intense than others. In their eyes, why not explore them?
“Think of it like those rage rooms,” they said. “You get to destroy all the junk in that space, but there is a safety within that. So, with kink, you get to let go of those suppressed feelings.”
To learn more about Milbourn, they invite you to email kingcaptain.booking@gmail.com for questions and more.
