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Owner SM Club Clair-Obscur passed away

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sun, September 24, 2023 23:34:07

Source: Fetlife.com/users/2509934(only accessible with a profile)

FRANCE – It has just been announced that Clair-Obscur owner Michel has suddenly passed away. Michel and his club were an icon within the French BDSM world but also far beyond. Although I (Tom Verhoeven) never had the opportunity to know him personally. He was praised for his friendly personality and especially his helpfulness. The scene will miss a great person. He was just 64 years old.

Lots of strength and condolences for Denise, family and friends.

The funeral message on his Fetlife profile. Fetlife members can read this!

Website club: Club-sm-clairobscur.com.

Google Translation:

FRANCE – On vient d’annoncer le décès soudain du propriétaire de Clair-Obscur, Michel. Michel et son club étaient une icône dans le monde du BDSM français mais aussi bien au-delà. Même si moi (Tom Verhoeven) n’ai jamais eu l’occasion de le connaître personnellement. Il a été félicité pour sa personnalité amicale et surtout pour sa serviabilité. La scène manquera à un grand personnage. Il n’avait que 64 ans.

Beaucoup de force et de condoléances à Denise, à sa famille et à ses amis.



10 Best Bdsm Books Reviews In 2023

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, September 20, 2023 01:21:00

Source: Factschronicle.com.

WORLDWIDE – Have you been searching for the best bdsm books for your needs? You are at the right place. We recognize that amidst so many choices in the market, it can be perplexing and confusing to make the right pick.

The number 1 from the list.

This article will help you choose the right bdsm books with more ease. We have taken into consideration the varied needs and wants of all segments of consumers to give you the perfect guide on how to pick the right product. So that you can shop worry-free!

See the list:

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‘Amanda Holden took me to a dominatrix – I got whipped and went home’

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, September 20, 2023 01:08:06

EXCLUSIVE: Amanda Holden and TV historian Dan Jones have been working on a new show titled Sex: A Bonkers History and they certainly had fun together whilst filming

Source: Dailystar.co.uk.

UK – Amanda Holden and TV historian Dan Jones have been filming Sky HISTORY’s Sex: A Bonkers History together.

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailystar.co.uk.

But things weren’t all smooth sailing as when they paid a visit to a dominatrix, for research purposes, Dan was left hurt.

Speaking at the screening of the second episode last night at the Hamyard Hotel, the pair revealed the ins and outs of filming.

Amanda and Dan explained the story together, which left Dan rather red-faced.

The BGT judge said: “We’re both parents and there was just one afternoon where we were talking to this dominatrix and it was primarily for me the scene and we decided that we needed Dan as we needed a subject for the lady.

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I Became A Monitor At A Sex Dungeon. Here’s What I Discovered There.

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, September 20, 2023 00:57:36

Source: SG.news.yahoo.com.

UK – “There’s something I find particularly sweet and heartwarming about this role and giving back to a community that’s created safe spaces for people to express themselves without fear of judgment,” the author writes.

See larger photo on: SG.news.yahoo.com.

It’s 6 a.m. and I can’t feel my feet anymore after being on them for so long. I pull down the bottom of my shorts in the taxi as I head home, covering my thigh harness that’s now visible. The sun is slowly waking up the city; people are jogging on the streets and I’m exhausted, but my heart is as full as it can be. 

Almost without exception, this is how I feel after each shift monitoring a play party or dungeon. It’s the same feeling I have after working a mixology shift: satisfaction from knowing my hard work has created something special. I’m physically exhausted, yet filled up on love and connection from strangers, people I’ve worked with, and, in the queer and kink scene, people who often feel like a chosen family.

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Everything You Need To Know About BDSM, And Yes, Biting Is Involved.

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, September 20, 2023 00:46:55

ACCORDING TO THE SEX-POSITIVE DATING APP PURE, AMERICANS ARE BECOMING MORE COMFORTABLE WITH BDSM TECHNIQUES LIKE EDGING AND BITING.

Source: Essence.com.

USA – Don’t be shy; it’s quite alright to be curious about BDSM, and that’s why you clicked on this article. If you’re wondering what the true meaning of BDSM is outside the sensationalized images you might’ve seen in the media, keep reading. Despite people writing off BDSM as a kinky sexual fetish in someone’s dank basement, it’s an umbrella term that covers a spectrum of sexual behaviors and preferences and doesn’t have to include sex. 

See larger photo on: Essence.com.

The acronym stands for bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism. Sometimes, BDSM can be completely non-sexual, with mental acts being more of a turn-on than physical penetration. Regardless of whether the actions are sexual, some BDSM practices must be performed with consent, given that they involve varying degrees of pain, physical restraint, and servitude. Informed consent between partners is SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) or RACK (Risk-aware Consensual Kink). You can even use a word that isn’t sexually related, like orange, but the most important thing is agreeing to the safety word to stop all activity. 

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‘I love being a financial dominatrix – men’s wages are helping me buy a home’ (MissCanada)

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, September 20, 2023 00:32:16

EXCLUSIVE: Content creator MissCanada earns cash through financial domination (findom). And it’s certainly paying off, as she’s making a whopping $10,000 (£7,800) a month and saving to buy a home

Source: Dailystar.co.uk.

CANADA – Content creator MissCanada is currently saving up to buy a home.

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailystar.co.uk.

And her subscribers are helping her do so by giving her their wages.

The brunette beauty earns cash through financial domination (findom) – a fetish or sexual preference that involves being dominated financially.

And it’s certainly paying off, as she’s making a whopping $10,000 (£7,800) a month.

The online star says she’s not squandering the money though, and instead wants to invest the cash in property.

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How speaking to a BDSM model helped to ease my chronic pain (book: Tim Atkinson)

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, September 20, 2023 00:21:21

Rather than sitting passively, we need to take back some control

Source: Inews.co.uk.

UK – I didn’t intend to write a book about chronic pain. For most of my life, I’ve been a medical ostrich despite being in constant, daily pain from inflammatory arthritis. I simply wanted somebody or something to make it go away. And for more than 20 years, that something has been drugs – specifically, opioids – in escalating doses.

See larger photo on: Inews.co.uk.

But after a chance remark, and a little research, I became fascinated by pain science, and the idea that I might be able to control my pain myself. Because pain isn’t simply the binary, on/off alarm system most people (and many medics) assume. Many amputees feel pain in limbs they haven’t got; soldiers often report feeling little or no pain despite horrific battlefield injuries; and there are those (22 per cent of men and 12 per cent of women, according to the Kinsey Institute) who actually claim to enjoy it!

That chance remark was made by award-winning BDSM (bondage, dominance, submissive, masochist) model and author Ariel Anderssen. She’s one of those people who enjoys pain. Tall, slim and blond, Anderssen looks every inch the ballet dancer and actress she was before she began earning a living doing something she loves – which is being tied up and spanked.

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How not to get into a tangle if you want to try a bit of rope play in the bedroom

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, September 20, 2023 00:09:32

Source: Metro.co.uk.

UK – To most people, the idea of tying up your partner sounds ultra kinky, and ultra scandalous.

See more and larger photo’s on: Metro.co.uk.

But there is a difference between simple rope play and Shibari, a Japanese art in the use of rope with a partner.

For a start, it’s skillful – while anyone can learn Shibari, not just anyone can pick up a rope and do it on the first try. There is method to the pleasurable practice.

Anna Kii, an expert in Shibari – both in tying and being tied up – said on this week’s episode of Metro.co.uk’s Smut Drop podcast it’s an ‘erotic consensual practice’ that’s ‘connecting’.

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Bondage-loving perv gagged and tied up woman, 22, then filmed without her knowledge

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, September 19, 2023 23:58:39

Richard Newis, from Hull, set up a hidden camera on a chest of draws to secretly film a session with a sex worker in his home, where he tied her up and gagged her

Source: Dailystar.co.uk.

UK – HULL – A seedy pervert was rumbled after using a hidden camera to secretly film a sex worker having a session with him at his flat.

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailystar.co.uk.

Richard Newis, 43, was seen in the secret footage gagging and tying up the woman, which was consensual, but she had no idea the sexual encounter was being filmed.

The 22-year-old woman was only made aware of the footage after police were investigating Newis over another matter.

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I left the Jehovah’s Witnesses and made up my own rules for life – as a BDSM model Ariel Anderssen

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, September 19, 2023 23:43:39

Giving up on eternal life made me realise I had one chance to achieve something meaningful. For me, that was a submission of a different kind

Source: Theguardian.com,

USA – Are you the people who don’t have blood transfusions?” was the first thing most people asked if any of us mentioned our religion. We weren’t supposed to say “yes”, because we weren’t meant to allow our faith to be defined by what we didn’t do. We were supposed to emphasise the positives, such as the promise of eternal life on Earth.

See larger photo on: Theguardian.com.

But the inconvenient fact was that we weren’t allowed blood transfusions. Furthermore, we were known for not celebrating Christmas, Easter or birthdays, for not being allowed into school assemblies, and for knocking on people’s doors to evangelise to them at weekends.

These characteristics were easily spotted by outside observers. From inside, we knew that was only the beginning of the rules. Dressing modestly was important. I learned that masturbation was wrong many years before I found out what it actually was. Men were the heads of our households, and women weren’t allowed to pray out loud, address the congregation, or even handle the microphones we used at our meetings.

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Stuart Heron: Man killed in hammer attack by dominatrix girlfriend’s slave (Australia)

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, September 19, 2023 23:33:02

Acting on orders to “confront” his dominatrix’s boyfriend, a Melbourne slave spent days stalking before killing the man in a horrific parking lot attack.

Source: News.com.au.

AUSTRALIA – Rushed by a hammer-wielding man as he left his apartment building with his dog, Nicholas Cameron “fought for his life”.

See more and larger photo’s on: News.com.au.

When police arrived just six minutes later they found the 39-year-old fatally injured between two cars and arrested his attacker, Stuart Lindsay Heron, who was trying to leave the scene.

Heron claimed he had spent hours waiting to confront Mr Cameron, a man he did not know, after seeing him “dealing ice to kids”.

But two folders, one titled “target” and the other “Heide”, would identify the real reason he was murdered.

Heron, 50, returned before the Victorian Supreme Court on Monday for a presentence hearing after pleading guilty to Mr Cameron’s July 10, 2021, murder earlier this year.

Outlining the case, crown prosecutor Elizabeth Ruddle KC told the court Heron had been enlisted by his dominatrix, Heide Bos, to “confront” her boyfriend – Mr Cameron.

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Fuming parents pull daughter from nursery over book of blokes in ‘bondage gear’

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, September 19, 2023 23:21:08

Will and Maria Taylor were so disgusted by the vastly inappropriate images, depicting men allegedly in bondage gear, in a book that the nursery were giving to children, that they pulled their daughter out

Source: Dailystar.co.uk.

UK – Two parents were rendered sick after discovering their daughter had been exposed to sexually inappropriate images in a book that her nursery was giving her to read.

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailystar.co.uk.

Will and Maria Taylor, from West Hull, were so enraged with the photographs, featuring men in “bondage gear”, that they made the call to put their child’s safety first and remove her from Genesis pre-school.

Their decision came after staff gave an unsatisfactory response following the couple flagging their concerns regarding ‘Grandad’s Pride’.

Speaking to Hull Live, Will explained: “We identified two images of men who are partially naked in leather bondage gear. One has a leather cod-piece moulded tightly around his crotch, along with garters running down his thighs. He also has a studded dog collar around his neck and knee-high boots. Both have various leather straps around their bodies and studs/spikes.”

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What Is Needle Play

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, September 19, 2023 22:53:17

What Is Needle Play: Understanding the Practice

Source: Jstationx.com.

WORLDWIDE – Needle play, also known as piercing or play piercing, is a form of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) that involves the temporary insertion of needles into the skin. It is a consensual practice where the participants derive pleasure and stimulation from the sensation and aesthetics of the piercings. While needle play may seem extreme or taboo to some, it is essential to understand that it is done within a framework of trust, consent, and safety.

In needle play, the needles are typically inserted into the superficial layers of the skin, creating temporary piercings that can be arranged in various patterns or designs. These piercings can be placed anywhere on the body, depending on the preferences and limits of the individuals involved. The sensation of needle play can range from mild discomfort to intense pain, and the experience can evoke a wide range of emotions and physical responses.

FAQs about Needle Play

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21 sexual fetishes and kinks you’ve never heard of before

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, September 19, 2023 17:03:49

Source: Pulse.ng.

NIGERIA – You’ve definitely heard of foot fetishes and bondage, but, there’s basically a bottomless well of things that turn people on.

See larger photo on: Pulse.ng.

You’ll often hear people refer to these interests as sexual kinks or fetishes, but what exactly are fetishes and sexual kinks? And why do people have them?

Sex therapist, Kelifern Pomeranz, PsyD, says that all fetishes are kinks, but not all kinks are fetishes. A fetish is a sexual attraction to inanimate objects, body parts, or situations not commonly viewed as being sexual in nature, [while] a kink is a broader term that includes a variety of sexual interests, behaviours, preferences, and fantasies that are thought to be outside of the mainstream.

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Everything You Should Know About Having a Blood Kink

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, September 19, 2023 16:42:06

Source: Cosmopolitan.com.

USA – When we think of bodily fluids and sex, we usually think of semen, vaginal wetness, saliva, and…blood? Hi, yes, blood can absolutely have its place in sex. What’s more, blood can even be a kink or fetish in its own right.

See larger photo on: Cosmopolitan.com.

If blood gives you the hornies, you’re far from alone; a lot of people find it hot. According to Mistress Kye, a professional kinkster and BDSM expert, the blood play community is “a growing niche that’s being embraced more and more now that kink has become more mainstream.” And sex expert Julieta Chiara, a kink instructor and writer, tells Cosmo that she knows of plenty of people who play with blood (albeit fake blood, in her experience) during sex and kink play. “They like the look, the fantasy, the feel, but don’t want to actually exchange body fluids.”

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