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Suriname celebrates 50 years of independence! But what is BDSM life like in Suriname?

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Wed, November 26, 2025 16:12:04

Source: Tom Verhoeven, Google and AI.

SURINAME – HEEMSKERK – Suriname is a small, culturally rich country on the northern coast of South America, with a strong mix of indigenous, African, Javanese, Hindustani, Chinese, and European influences. In this article, I will briefly outline the main historical features and the current political and economic situation, and then discuss what is publicly known (and—importantly—not known) about a BDSM or kink community in Suriname: its existence, events, interest groups, and how this topic could be responsibly explored further.

 

There are few BDSM activities in public Surinamese life. See the Fetlife links below the article!

Brief historical sketch

Suriname developed from the 17th century onwards as a Dutch colony with plantation economies heavily dependent on slave labor. Slavery and colonial social structures left deep scars on the country’s demographics and culture; its abolition and subsequent indentured servitude (including from India and Java) further shaped its multi-ethnic character. Suriname gained independence from the Netherlands in 1975. Wikipedia

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Inside the raunchy Airbnb with its own sex swing and bondage room (UK)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Wed, November 19, 2025 01:58:34

Casa Amor’s three bedroom maisonette known as the ‘Hot Tub Suite’ has proved to be a hit with fans.

Source: Dailyrecord.co.uk

UK – Take a look inside Britain’s raunchiest Airbnb fitted with a sex swing and a bondage room which guest ‘can’t get enough of’.

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailyrecord.co.uk

Casa Amor’s three bedroom maisonette known as the ‘Hot Tub Suite’ found in Southampton, Hampshire, is a kink’s dream.

Inside you can find a ‘state of the art’ intimacy swing, a pillory bed with ropes, restraints and handcuffs, an St Andrew’s Cross, and an intimacy couch.

The sex-themed property – which is spread across three floors – also has soundproof walls and includes a ‘discrete’ private garden entrance which is also fitted with a ‘secluded’ hot tub area.

The website says the boutique apartment makes for a private and secure ‘kinky couples getaway and the ultimate romantic stay’.

One couple who visited said: “Would highly recommend for a chilled kinky break away. It never will disappoint, this is our second time and we can’t get enough. We can’t wait to come back again soon.”

Another person said: “My second time of staying for my partner’s birthday, but this time we stayed for two nights as one night wasn’t enough and will be definitely staying again next year.

One other visitor said: “It was sexy, exciting and basically amazing – we had the best time. We will be returning.”

 



A Dominatrix, Cyberstalking, And Sour Grapes: Lawsuit(s) Against Biglaw Partner By Former Firm Is Quite The Journey

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Wed, November 19, 2025 01:43:57

Partner’s lateral move revealed quite a lot.

Source: Abovethelaw.com

USA – Last week, a lawsuit against Blank Rome finance partner James Cretella was filed by his former firm, Otterbourg P.C., for breach of contract, breach of fiduciary duty, fraudulent concealment, and unjust enrichment. The allegations in the suit are a roller coaster ride that swings between the banal and sensational. For example, Otterbourg alleges Cretella didn’t disclose his impending departure until after he’d collected a seven-figure bonus and that he solicited clients to join him at his new firm. From the complaint: “He accepted [the bonus] knowing full well he was leaving and that he had perpetuated a scheme to try to hobble the Firm and bolster a competitor while conspiring with another exiting partner and concealing material facts that would have changed the Board’s decision to give him a bonus.”

Which are interesting, if somewhat expected, allegations following a partner’s lateral move. These things don’t typically come to litigation, but they’re certainly known pain points. But then there are the escort allegations.

According to the complaint, Cretella met up with an escort and other women while traveling on firm business. During a forensic examination of Cretella’s firm-issued and firm-paid phone, it was revealed that he allegedly engaged in “highly inappropriate and potentially unlawful personal conduct that Cretella engaged in during Firm-funded travel,” that included texts messages with an “upscale dominatrix” known as “Goddess Kat.”

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The Smell Of Kink (Dominatrix Eva Oh and others)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Wed, November 19, 2025 01:35:46

Forget vanilla: the buzziest new fragrances feature notes of sweat, leather, and hot, plasticky latex.

Source: Coveteur.com

GERMANY – BERLIN – Last year, I wore a latex top to a club in Berlin. I’d been going often, but that night, something shifted. The moment I walked in, it felt like I’d been initiated into a secret society. Strangers approached to talk about their latex fetishes. I felt sexy and powerful in the material, finding a strength in the transgressive act of “kink signaling.” I had tapped into something deeper, something that had been simmering just beneath the surface.

See more larger photo’s on: Coveteur.com

Kink [noun]: a sexual desire or practice regarded as unusual or unconventional. Ever since the 2011 release of Fifty Shades of Grey, kink has slowly made its way into the mainstream (even if the film wasn’t exactly the most realistic portrayal of a BDSM relationship). Since then, the Internet has enabled far easier access to previously underground sexual spaces, from sex workers on social media to fetish-friendly dating apps like Feeld. And now, even fragrance is starting to explore its kinky side.

Sex and scent are inextricably interlinked, but to think kink and fetish is just about sex would be reductive. “You use kinks to achieve psychological headspaces,” dominatrix Eva Oh explains. “Let’s say, bondage: you’re putting people in a vulnerable position when they normally have such freedom. They get to experience a sense of extreme vulnerability, but in a space of caring. Essentially you’re moving somebody’s mind and heart.” Kink is also very much about tapping into our hidden and (often socially taboo) desires that simmer under the surface, often stemming from deeply buried memories—just like our proclivity for certain perfumes. So, it makes sense that in an age of increasing uncertainty, loneliness and alienation from oneself, our appetites for intimacy, control and sexually-charged scents would be growing. And what better way to access a different headspace than to spritz a kinky-smelling scent?

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The choking porn (BDSM red. BDSMradio.EU) ban is not enough (UK)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Wed, November 19, 2025 01:21:05

The government announced that it will prohibit “vile and dangerous” strangulation pornography

Source: Newstatesman.com

UK – Britain is coming for hardcore BDSM (bondage, domination, sadomasochism). The government confirmed on Monday that online porn depicting “vile and dangerous” strangulation will be banned nationwide – the latest step in their mission to halve violence against women and girls within a decade. Yet in an online world flooded with misogynistic content and extreme pornography, will the ban actually make sex any safer for women? 

See larger photo on: Newstatesman.com

Sexual violence organisations think so, but others aren’t convinced, with a flurry of X posters theorising that Keir Starmer banning choking porn under the guise of defending women is “misogynistic,” and that the ban amounted to repressive kink-shaming.

These claims aren’t totally ungrounded. The UK government certainly has a puritanical track record of policing sexual norms. In 2014, several steamy acts including spanking, face-sitting and female ejaculation were banned from pornography. Protestors held a mass face-sitting protest outside parliament against what they felt was an assault on sexual freedom and female pleasure. Five years later, the bans were quietly overturned.

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What BDSM Players Can Teach All Lovers

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Wed, November 19, 2025 01:06:46

All sex experts urge communication. Those involved in BDSM show how.

Key points

  • Sex experts agree that partner communication is key to great sex. But talking about sex is difficult.
  • BDSM often involves written contracts specifying play that’s welcome and play that’s not.
  • At every erotic escalation, initiator should ask those on the receiving end, “Is this OK?”

Source: Psychologytoday.com

USA – Sex experts talk themselves hoarse urging people to discuss—and negotiate—the details of their lovemaking. The problem is that many couples find sexual details difficult, if not impossible, to discuss.

Photo special thanks: Vintagebdsmart.com

An example: One study showed that when sex causes women pain, only half (51 percent) tell their partners, and usually only if the pain is severe. If half of women don’t mention sex hurting, how likely are they to raise less urgent issues? Probably not very. There is no similar study of men, but women frequently complain that men don’t discuss their feelings, so how likely are they to discuss the details of their lovemaking?

Fortunately, for couples interested in boosting sexual communication, a marvelous model is available from people who enjoy bondage, discipline, and sado-masochism (BDSM).

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Map reveals the ‘snobby’ UK city filled with puppy play fetishists (UK CITY MAP)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Wed, November 19, 2025 00:39:52

Source: Metro.co.uk

UK – Residents of Edinburgh, a city known for its vibrant arts scene and historic castle, have at times been criticised for ‘snobbiness’.

See more larger photo’s and maps on: Metro.co.uk

But it seems they aren’t afraid to get a little down and dirty, as the Scottish hub has newly been appointed as the puppy play fetish capital of the UK.

It’s not just the odd stray getting involved here, with a new survey revealing puppy play rates in Edinburgh are nearly double the national average.

The fetish involves a form of adult role play — particularly popular in the gay community — where people dress up and embody the mannerisms of a dog.

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Interview with Vera Nevi: ‘Until Nobody Dies’ and The Power to Always Choose (Italy)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Wed, November 19, 2025 00:22:41

Source: Theitalianreve.com

ITALY – There are stories that wait ten years before being told, not out of modesty, but to find the right moment when the voice becomes clearer and distance allows looking back without filters. “Finché nessuno muore” (Until Nobody Dies) is one of these: the autobiographical account written under the pseudonym of Vera Nevi, a former professional dominatrix, who chose to put in black and white a piece of her life lived in the early 2000s in Milan.

See more larger photo’s on: Theitalianreve.com

In this conversation, Vera doesn’t sugar-coat it: she talks about power and submission, about men who hide unspeakable desires behind their facade, about a Milan that has lost its soul becoming a showcase for petty bourgeois ambitions. But above all, she tells how control, the kind she exercised in her sessions as a dominatrix, became writing, the only space where you can truly govern something: a story, with its questions and answers. Between nostalgia for a present she fears losing and hope for the future, Vera gives us a sincere and disenchanted portrait of someone who chose to always take the space she desired, with the right irreverence and profound awareness.
First of all, congratulations on the book, I loved “Finché nessuno muore” (Until Nobody Dies). It’s a glimpse into your personal story and direct experience, but when and how did the desire to put it in writing come to you?

It took me ten years before I sat down and started writing this story. Even though I knew it by heart (obviously) and had told it on various social occasions, at some dinners to get a smile, I wasn’t sure I knew how to write it. Then I finished a work project that left me with a lot of free time and I thought that was the perfect opportunity to try.

“Names have never been important to me, they’re all the same, you’re all the same and you all want the same thing” is one of the first sentences you read at the beginning: after all the experiences you’ve lived through, do you still think this? Or has your approach towards individuality, so to speak, towards others, individual people with their worlds, interests and ways of living, changed? Also thinking about how much society has changed compared to the early 2000s.

Unfortunately, that sentence is increasingly true in my opinion. Even more so today when, thanks to social media, we can express ourselves in all our nuances and gift it to others. I love romanticizing people, events and everything else, and I succeed at it for the time of an aperitif at most, but the truth is that we are boringly all the same. Only a few people surprise me with something really interesting to say; in fact, I still have a lot of trouble remembering names. I don’t want to sound harsh in saying this, but I chose the name “Vera” (Truth) promising myself to use it properly, so I won’t sugar-coat it!

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‘Sadomasochist’ who attempted to rape woman claimed biting and nipping was ‘normal’

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Wed, November 19, 2025 00:09:33

WARNING GRAPHIC CONTENT: Rapist Thomas Marechal highlighted his kinky sex preferences when he gave evidence in his own defence at the High Court in Livingston.

Source: Dailyrecord.co.uk

UK – LIVINGSTON – A self-confessed sadomasochist who claimed that spanking, biting and nipping a woman during sex was normal behaviour has been caged.

See larger photo on: Dailyrecord.co.uk

Rapist Thomas Marechal highlighted his kinky sex preferences when he gave evidence in his own defence at the High Court in Livingston.

The 46-year-old claimed a mum he attempted to rape and another woman he raped while she was sleeping had both consented to sexual activity with him.

Marechal said he met the woman he spanked and tried to rape after she told him on social media that she shared his interest in BDSM (Bondage, Discipline or Dominance, Sadism and Masochism).

The sexual practices, brought to the attention of the wider public by the erotic romance novel 50 Shades of Grey and related movies, involve controlling behaviour and inflicting sometimes painful punishment

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I’m an engaged mum-of-two & make £7K a month putting men into penis prison – I’ll release them as a Halloween treat (Dominatrix Queen Tricks)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Tue, November 18, 2025 23:57:51

Come Halloween all of Queen Tricks’ clients will be released – some will even visit a specially rented dungeon to have their cages removed

Source: Thesun.co.uk

UK -RIFLING through her bag for her door key Queen Tricks gives a wry smile – so far she’s pulled out three keys used for a very different purpose.

See more larger photo’s, audio and video on: Thesun.co.uk

They’re the keys she’s carrying around that will eventually undo the padlocks for men who’ve asked her to keep their genitals locked in a cage for the entire month of October.

It’s a service she offers all year round but – business booms in October.

In the fetish world they’ve renamed the month ‘Locktober’ and men challenge themselves to stay under lock and key in chastity cages for the entire 31 days.

She currently has three men in ‘penis prison’ in the UK – where she physically holds the keys, and eight in America who she imprisoned via a remote app.

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From taboo to talk of the town—how India’s kink communities are redefining curiosity, consent, and connection

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Tue, November 18, 2025 23:40:21

The whisper network of Indian kink groups might seem intimidating. But, dig a little deeper and you’ll find communities that are working to create safe spaces and inspire dialogues.

Source: Cosmopolitan.in

INDIA -David Cronrnberg’s Crash, based on the book by English author JG Ballard, was a film that shook audiences in 1996. When it hit limited screens, it was deemed controversial due to what the censor board called “perverse” content. That “perversity” was that it centred around a group of symphorophiliacs, aroused by car crashes. It was a film about kink, and the world was not ready.

See more larger photo’s on: Cosmopolitan.in

Kink, though often used synonymously with BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism), is a broader spectrum of sexuality. It encompasses any non-traditional or unconventional sexual preference or practice—and BDSM is a subset. Running the gamut from shibari, voyeurism, exhibitionism, cuckolding, ageplay, and several others, kink is an expansive universe with many active participants, and even more curious ones.

Films like Un Chien Andalou (1929), Belle de Jour (1967) and The Night Porter (1974) dared to go there while books about BDSM date back centuries. Cities like Berlin, San Francisco, and Amsterdam have had kink clubs since the 60s. Despite its omnipresence and growing appeal worldwide, kink has stayed in the shadows. And, nowhere has it been more clandestine than in India.

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Parents left worried as ‘dangerous kink groups’ promote fetishes to teenage students

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Tue, November 18, 2025 23:27:26

Teenagers have been offered workshops on ‘rope play’, erotic film nights and fetish discussion groups

Source: GBnews.com

UK -Parents who have sent their teenagers off to university have expressed concern after a growing number of sexual fetish-related societies have cropped up across British campuses.

See larger photo’s and video on: GBnews.com

Groups promoting alternative sex practices have been documented at a host of universities, including Anglia Ruskin, York, Keele, Portsmouth, Sheffield, Nottingham and Warwick.

Anglia Ruskin’s “Kinkster Society” has described itself as “a vibrant and inclusive community dedicated to exploring and celebrating the diverse world of fetish and kink”.

The rise in the number of fetish groups on British campuses has been linked to the growing number of young people participating in practices such as bondage and sadomasochism, also known as BDSM.

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Sex, guitar riffs and risqué bondage art: Japan’s erotic rebellion in photo and sound (photo’s)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Tue, November 18, 2025 23:14:36

Source: Faroutmagazine.co.uk

JAPAN -Kenji Endo is slumbering in his student room, casually listening to the sound of American rock ‘n’ roll, which has now become commonplace on Japanese radio since the days of post-World War II occupation.

See a lot more and larger photo’s on: Faroutmagazine.co.uk

Only this time, the half an ear he is lending it is suddenly perked up by the sound of Bob Dylan’s counterculture masterpiece, ‘Like a Rolling Stone’. It rudely snaps him out of his slumber, and he wonders to himself whether this tripe can even be considered music at all. He attempts to turn off the radio.

By the time of Endo’s third listen, he is rushing off to inform his friends of Dylan’s brilliance. “This guy is creating something that has never been created before,” he proclaims to his roommate, but it could’ve just as well been a stranger in the street had his college buddy not been more conveniently placed to hear of Enzo’s good tidings. You see, for so long, Japan had been a country where doing something that had never been done before was culturally out of place. Suddenly, that was changing.

Endo would go on to form bands of his own, re-interpreting Japanese through a fresh lens in the same manner that Dylan’s shocking drawl was transmuting the folk stylings of America through the Judas defilement of charged particles. Students all over the country, still reconciling the nuclear destruction of their cities, were stirred into daring cultural action. The sound of the US military’s country-wide radio broadcast was forming the crackly backbeat of a revolution.

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Alexander Skarsgard explores gay BDSM in his provocative new ‘dom-com’

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Tue, November 18, 2025 23:01:35

Source: EU.usatoday.com

USA – NEW YORK – Alexander Skarsgård has a spanking new romantic comedy.

See more larger photo’s on: EU.usatoday.com

In “Pillion,” which hits theaters early next year, the “True Blood” hunk plays a stoic, domineering biker named Ray who introduces the sheepish, submissive Colin (Harry Melling) to the kinky world of gay BDSM. Like Nora Ephron’s beloved “When Harry Met Sally…,” the film plays on the classic trope that opposites attract, only with more sex toys, penis rings and butt-baring wrestling singlets.

“We want to call it a dom-com,” Skarsgård quipped after an Oct. 5 screening at New York Film Festival, where writer-director Harry Lighton jokingly thanked the crowd for coming out to see some “hardcore pornography.”

“Pillion” is based on the 2020 novel “Box Hill” by Adam Mars-Jones. The titillating drama explores the complexities of dominant-submissive relationships and fetishes, as Ray gets aroused by making Colin lick his boots, buy his groceries and sleep at the foot of his bed. Colin finds pleasure in servicing Ray, but gradually learns that he needs real love and communication, too.

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Inside Howard Rubin’s perverted NYC penthouse with a ‘built in’ sex dungeon where he allegedly tortured dozens of women

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Tue, November 18, 2025 22:50:37

Source: NYpost.com

USA – NEW YORK – A short walk from the home where long-time Wall Street financier Howard Rubin lived with his wife and three children in Manhattan, he kept a second apartment.

See more and larger photo’s on: NYpost.com

The $18,000-a-month penthouse at Metropolitan Tower Condominium on 57th Street, just below Central Park, has excellent views — but most of his visitors never got to see them.

According to prosecutors, Rubin converted the place into a seedy “built-in” sex dungeon, where he allegedly tortured dozens of women with savage beatings, rape and even electrocutions.

Rubin and his assistant Jennifer Powers stand accused of running a $1 million bondage and masochism sex-trafficking scheme between 2009 and 2019, with much of the activity taking place in the soundproofed apartment.

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