EXCLUSIVE: Mistress Valentina has weighed in on the uptick of ‘prisoner’ romps after adult star Andy Lee posted a behind-bars collaboration with Kayla Wild
Source: Dailystar.co.uk
UK – BRIGHTON – The internet was met with a second viral video this week that appeared to show an inmate having a bonking session with a prison officer.
While one half of the internet is banging on about the Euros, the other has become engrossed with what seems like a trend in supposed behind-bars romps.
Adult star Andy Lee, who claims to have Britain’s biggest dong, took social media by storm after sharing his racy inmate-prisoner officer spoof filmed with actress Kayla Wild – and it’s now been viewed by millions of people in just 24 hours.
So, what’s this obsession with prison sex? Well, to get to the bottom of it, we’ve had a chat with dominatrix Mistress Valentina about why the kink is having a resurgence amongst participants and voyeurs.
The Brighton-based seductress told us: “So prisoner kink can go two ways – you can kind of fetishize the vulnerability and feeling of loss of control by being a prisoner or find more pleasure in ‘having’ a prisoner or finding prisoners generally attractive.
“Like most kinks this is of course another example of power exchange and can be to varying different degrees from a soft roleplay to a full 24/7 dynamic.
“I think any sort of power exchange is very accessible to anyone on any level of experience in kink.
“It’s easy to get into and relate into something commonly seen in entertainment. Power exchange is fundamental in a lot of BDSM and kink practice.”
Valentina admitted that she often sees requests from her clients to be ‘locked’ up or they pay to be ‘trapped’.
She explained that submissives (those who like to be consensually dominated during sex) find pleasure in being caged not only through physical arousal, but mental too.
The sex worker ‘loves’ locking her clients up and said it’s common within her work. So it’s not necessarily the act itself, but the control – or lack of – that provides the most pleasure to both parties involved and those who are watching on.
She now expects the ‘prisoner’ kink to become more popular after Andy and Kayla’s viral video. Already, the BDSM aficionado has seen prison-style clips floating around on NSFW sites.
Valentina continued: “I think as any kink gains traction and becomes more widely practiced it’ll get increasingly popular.
“I’ve personally seen a lot of prison videos floating about on various sites and they can be really hot…the vulnerability of prisoner mixed with the power the other party holds over them.
“What’s not to like!
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“Personally I love locking people up, watching them squirm and struggle. There’s pleasure in the agony for the other party too. A lot of my submissives enjoy the physical element of being trapped as well as my mental control I exert over them.
“It’s quite common to have subs wish to be caged and actually can be something useful for me to practice at work, as it kind of keeps them and me safe in moments where I’m a little busy and/or distracted.”
But, you don’t need to be an adult star like Dublin-born Andy, who now lives in Stevenage, to be able to role play a steamy session between ‘prisoner’ and ‘officer’.
For those who want to try out the fetish in the comfort of their own home, Valentina recommends to start small with prisoner-style handcuffs.
However, if you want to really test out the power dynamic of the tryst, it can be best enjoyed with a cage, says the dominatrix
She explained: “The easiest way to start getting into the prisoner kink at home is buying a pair of those classic metal prisoner style cuffs.
“They’re very good for newbies and it can be easy to cuff someone to a bed or restrain their hands behind their back to keep them subdued!
“Beyond that, I have a large dog cage I use to keep clients in…”
