Did yours make the list?

Source: Womanandhome.com.

UK – While 2020 might have been a bit of a write-off, it hasn’t stopped Brits revealing their top bucket-list sexual fantasies.

In fact, with all the depressing news hitting the headlines in recent months, it’s no wonder women want something to help put a smile on their face. And, sometimes, not even one of the best vibrators will do the job! What are we talking about? Yes, you’ve guessed it – sexual fantasies. Or, more accurately, bucket list biggest sexual fantasies – which are those ones you really, really want to do, but are just a bit too shy to say out loud.

Want to know how yours rate compared to the rest of the country? In a new survey, OnBuy.com asked 2,897 Brits the top 10 activities they desperately wanted to try with their partners. Perhaps, unsurprisingly, what women wanted varied to what men desired more.

One of the biggest sexual fantasies voted by women was to be blindfolded. And one of the reasons it is so popular is because it’s so easy, yet effective. Taking away one of your senses, such as you sight, helps to make your other senses extra sensitive.

“Great sex should be a multisensory experience,” says Sammi Cole, sex and relationship expert at sexual wellness brand Lovehoney. “Use scented body lotion, go for soft lighting, pick out music that helps to get you both in the mood and swap out your usual bed sheets for something more luxurious. The more senses you can delight, the better!” Then you can try taking them away. “Withholding one of the senses, such as blindfolding a partner, will help activate the others,” she adds.

Here’s the rest of the survey results:

Biggest sexual fantasies: what women want

1 Blindfold 35%

2 Sex in a Jacuzzi 31%

3 Sex in an elevator 26%

4 Roleplay 24%

5 Sexy photoshoot 20%

6 Bondage 18%

7 Choking 16%

8 Phone sex 14%

9 Car sex 12%

10 Bringing in a third party 12%

11 Sex on beach 10%

12 Watching porn with partner 9%

13 Using flavoured lube 8%

14 Writing fan fiction for partner  7%

Biggest sexual fantasies: what men want

1 Bringing in a third party 36%

2 Video call sex 30%

3 Sex in a Jacuzzi 26%

4 Sex in a public toilet 22%

5 Roleplay 22%

6 Making a sex tape 20%

7 Sex on a balcony 19%

8 Watching porn with partner 17%

9 Bondage 16%

10 Anal sex 14%

11 Car sex 13%

12 Couple toys 12%

13 One night stand 9%

14 Sex with Food 8%

Top sex trends tried by Brits in the bedroom

And, it seems that some of us are doing a lot more than just fantasising about our sexual desires. A survey by showerstoyou.co.uk, this time with 2,381 adults involved, discovered the top sex trends tried by Brits in the bedroom.

Forget just using a vibrator to boost your health, in first place came BDSM, which stands for bondage, discipline/domination, submission/sadism, and masochism. This was made popular by the Fifty Shades of Grey books, and has around 135,000 online searches a month.

Then, next up was “sploshing”, which involves using food during sexual encounters. While, in third place, was having sex in public places. So much for lockdown! But it seems we’re making sure we’ve done the right research first as “sex in public” is searched online around 22,200 times a month.