Does your husband pee on you or want you to pee on him? This could be a fetish you’re unaware of – here’s all you need to know…
Source: Thesouthafrican.com.
SOUTG AFRICA – Trends and fetishes in the world of sex are common but some of these can be challenging. Peeing during sex or watching someone pee during sex is one such fetish.
So why does your partner want to pee on you or watch you pee during sex?
Let’s understand the who’s and why’s before moving on to what you can do about it!
THE PEE FETISH OR ‘GOLDEN SHOWER’
A pee fetish, also known as urophilia, is a REAL thing.
Urophilia combines bathroom habits and sex – two things society doesn’t really enjoy discussing.
Times of India reports that there are people who relate sexual excitement with urine.
Partners who don’t enjoy urinating on others may enjoy watching their partner urinate in front of them – it’s a type of intimacy many long for.
WHY DOES URINE TURN CERTAIN PEOPLE ON?
It’s not exactly clear why urine turns some people on but it could be related to the enjoyment of being defiled, as some reports say.
Another reason is that it is taboo, wild and uncommon but doesn’t have any serious risk factors or pain.
While many consider it gross, some believe it’s wanting more from a certain person.
IF YOU DON’T LIKE IT, HERE’S WHAT YOU CAN DO
If you’re really not keen on being peed on or having someone pee on you, seeking therapy is a great choice.
Urophilia is not considered normal and is often forbidden by many.
If you accidentally pee during sex, you can seek the assistance of a doctor who can guide you through ways of stopping this.
There are always ways to make life easier, just remember not to pressure yourself!
DO YOU PEE IN THE SHOWER? WELL, IT’S NOT AS SAFE AS YOU THINK…
In related news, it was previously reported that peeing in the shower is far more common than one would think.
Some may relieve themselves without even thinking about it and some environmentally-conscious people tend to do it on purpose.
Water conservation aside, if you pee in the shower you may think it’s safe and sanitary but this isn’t entirely true.
YOUR PEE IS NOT STERILE AND CONTAINS A NUMBER OF DIFFERENT BACTERIA
Some may relieve themselves without even thinking about it and some environmentally-conscious people tend to do it on purpose.
Water conservation aside, peeing in the shower may not be as safe or as sanitary as people believe.
A 2014 study showed that urine is in fact, NOT sterile. It contains a number of different types of bacteria.
Some of these include Streptococcus and Staphylococcus which are associated with strep throat and staph infections.
While bacteria counts tend to be lower in healthy pee, they may be higher if you are suffering from a urinary tract infection (UTI).
YOU MAY ACCIDENTALLY CONDITION YOURSELF TO PEE WHEN HEARING A CERTAIN SOUND
Another thing to note when constantly peeing in the shower is conditioning a response you may not always want.
Alicia Jeffrey-Thomas, MD, says that you may be accidentally conditioning yourself to urinate on command of the sound of the nozzle spraying, reports Best Life.
“If you pee in the shower, or turn on the faucet or turn on the shower and then sit on the toilet to pee while the shower is running, you’re creating an association in the brain between the sound of running water and having to pee,” Jeffrey-Thomas said.
DON’T FORGET TO BE CONSIDERATE IF YOU SHARE YOUR SPACE!
So if you’re the only one using your shower, you could probably be safe peeing there too – as long as it’s regularly cleaned.
If you’re sharing a shower, discuss your peeing habits before you decide to let it all out.
And if you’re using a public shower, be considerate to those who may come in after you and go straight to the loo.
