Speculation has been circulating online that the Tesla mogul was denied entry into the exclusive Berghain nightclub during the trip to Europe.
Musk marked the opening of Tesla’s new gigafactory located on the outskirts of Berlin last week.
Clubgoers reportedly spotted the billionaire in the KitKatClub on Friday before he went to other venues, Blick reported.
The fetishist club has a strict dress code and partygoers can wear latex, leather, glamour, or nothing at all.
The KitKatClub, which opened in 1994, has the motto “Do what you want but stay in communication”.
The club is decorated with ultraviolet light and extravagant paintings produced by the Berlin photographer Vigor Calma, who is known as “The Dreamer”.
But, photography is banned inside the venue.
Musk also attended the electro-inspired nightclub Sisyphos after celebrating entrepreneur Adeo Ressi’s birthday.
Partygoers can immerse themselves in a festival-like atmosphere at the club.
The Tesla CEO was spotted despite trying to disguise his identity as he wore a Zorro mask.
Speculation is circulating online that Musk was refused entry from the famous Berghain nightclub.
Berghain is one of the most exclusive nightclubs in Germany and has a notoriously strict door policy.
It’s renowned for its world-class techno music and high-end club culture.
Clubbers reportedly have stickers put over their phone cameras and photography is banned, according to the site Don’t Die Wondering.
Sven Marquardt, a guard at the club wrote in his 2014 memoirs: “I don’t mind letting in the odd lawyer in a double-breasted suit with his Gucci Prada wife.
“If they make a good impression, let them in.”
Sometimes, partygoers wait hours in line and there’s no guarantee that they will be allowed in.
Musk tweeted on Sunday: “They wrote PEACE on the wall at Berghain! I refused enter.”
MUSK ‘BARRED’
In a second post, he vented: “Peace. Peace? I hate the word. Those who do care about peace (myself aspirationally included) don’t need to hear it.
“And those who don’t care about peace? Well.”
He later tweeted: “Berlin rocks.”
Twitter users rushed to speculate that Musk had been denied entry.
One shared a meme that read: “Getting rejected from Berghain starter pack.”
A series of snaps showing Musk dancing, wearing a cowboy hat, and posing with his thumbs up were used in the meme.
Another posted: “It’s vibes bro you missed out.”
Some social media users claimed they were at Berghain when Musk was allegedly refused entry.
It’s not known if security staff denied the Tesla CEO entry.
Some Twitter users shared their experiences of getting rejected from Berghain.
One claimed security staff has denied them entry on eight occasions after waiting in lines for five hours.
Meanwhile, others branded Musk a “loser”.
Musk was in Berlin as Tesla opened its first European “gigafactory”.
It’s set to produce up to 500,000 cars when it’s at full operation.
Musk danced as the first cars rolled out of the electric car plant.
A Twitter user asked: “Would you consider building a new social media platform, @elonmusk?
“One that would consist of an open-source algorithm, one where free speech and adhering to free speech is given top priority, one where propaganda is very minimal. I think that kind of a platform is needed.”
Musk responded: “Am giving serious thought to this.”
He asked his millions of followers a question about free speech.
He said: “Free speech is essential to a functioning democracy. Do you believe Twitter rigorously adheres to this principle?.”
The answer was overwhelming as 70.4 percent of users responded”no.”
More than 2million people responded to the survey.
Musk followed up with another tweet, encouraging folks to “please vote carefully.”
He vowed: “The consequences of this poll will be important.”
Reaction tom Verhoeven (BDSMradio.EU)
Elon welcome to our world and we hope for an open Twitter 😊
CANADA – Controversial sex industry activist Terri-Jean Bedford is in Windsor this week ahead of the theatrical adaptation of her memoir “Dominatrix on Trial.”
Bedford was raised in Windsor and took her fight for sex workers rights to the Supreme Court of Canada.
“I am the Bedford in Bedford versus Canada,” said Bedford.
Bedford was one of three sex workers who successfully challenged Canada’s prostitution law on the grounds that it violated their Charter right to security of the person.
“I don’t promote, condone or condemn the sex trade,” she said. “But I do promote safety.”
The musical “Dominatrix on Trial” will run this Thursday, Friday, and Saturday night at the Kordazone Theatre. Bedford will be on hand to sign copies of her book on Thursday.
“We’re going to revisit those laws. Like I said, Trudeau promised to repeal and I’m gonna hold his feet to the fire on that one, Bedford said.
Bedford told CTV News she hasn’t ruled out a run for political office, adding she’s still advocating for sex workers’ rights.
“The only way to separate a consenting adult from a non-consenting adult is to license, decriminalize and register,” Bedford said. “That’ll put human trafficking out of business because men don’t want to be criminalized.”
“They don’t want their livelihoods, and their lifestyles and their autonomy taken away. They want to go somewhere and not all of them are married, some have social disabilities they can’t engage and this will help them to build the confidence make them more productive.”
Bedford said she hopes audiences will see the sex industry from a different perspective after watching the performance.
“I hope they understand that sex workers are respectable people and that we work hard,” she said. “We are conscientious about our community and our neighbors. I think the media has done a lot to harm, degrade and stigmatize sex trade workers. But you’ll find that we’re the most loving giving caring people in the world we just want our rights.”
USA- Hey man, I’m in a relationship and I’m happy, except, I think I have some kinks that I’m not getting a chance to explore. I don’t want my partner to think I’ve been hiding part of my desires for the duration of our relationship – but I’d like to try new things in the bedroom. What’s the best way to go about this?
Doubts around sex, potential desires and whether the grass is greener on the kinkier side or not – it’s all super common. A study by OnePoll for Thistle and Spire revealed that “most people hide their kinks because they’re afraid their partner will leave”. While researching this, a sex diary was published in The Cut from a woman speculating whether her partner is hiding his kinks or not, which is further evidence for how frequently these situations arise.
It’s weird how something like figuring out the ins and outs of sex in a relationship should happen every time we get with someone, yet supposed taboos get in the way and leave us all shy and unable to explore the things we want, with the people we’re attracted to.
That’s basically to say: Shyness around these issues happen all the time, so there’s no shame in feeling nervous or anxious about it at all. The good thing is, many people have been through these issues, and there’s pretty concrete ways to start changing the situation. What’s important is to start escaping the weird awkwardness around discussing sexual ideas and fantasies, and to allow honest conversation to happen.
“People can be quite skittish when talking about kink, [so] you should have these conversations away from the bedroom – away from sex and nudity,” says Gigi Engle, an author and sex educator. Obviously, it’s feels more pertinent to be discussing sex when having or looking to have sex as opposed to catching up on Countryfile, but shagging is an emotional moment. Killing the vibe by introducing a DMC (deep meaningful conversation) can sometimes leave the room feeling a little sour.
So approach these conversations at a pretty neutral time, and make a point of bringing them up delicately. You want to give your partner a chance to consent to the conversation itself. Don’t just blurt out “so how about I dress up as a baby” while your partner is midway through a mouthful of Häagen-Dazs. Consent is key in the bedroom, and when talking about it.
Engle offers a template: “Start with something like: ‘I have some interest in sexual things that we haven’t really spoken about yet – are you open to having a conversation about it?’’ Add that they’re welcome to tell you to stop the conversation at any time, and go from there.
But before you get to the talking stage though, do some research. Watch some porn (ooo difficult research, poor you). Get specific on what it is you’re thinking about. Is it bondage? Is it roleplay? What’s the sexual dynamic? The more precise you can be the better. “Go for some high quality porn from places like [indie adult cinema] Pink Label TV, not just people punish-fucking women,” Engle says.
When you know what you like, “I suggest doing a ‘yes no maybe’ list – both yourself, and perhaps with a partner. It can give you a good jumping off point,” Engle says. Here’s one example. Similarly, this list of lists shows how you can use these to talk about sex, albeit without a focus on kink. Of course, you have to be honest while doing these lists, but having it on your phone in front of you might make the conversation feel less intense. Having the right terminology in front of you might allow you to get more depth and specificity into your discussion, too.
When it comes to “doing it”, remember that you can “explore things at different levels – you don’t have to go straight into what your fantasies are,” says Ness Cooper, a clinical sexologist. Starting at a halfway point lets you trial the new dynamic, and in some instances lets you make sure it’s physically and emotionally all safe and controlled. In other words, walk before you run.
Of course, if you’ve been with someone since before coronavirus was a word anyone except science people knew, it can feel like you’ve been dishonest; that bringing this up is tantamount to admitting to having a secret life with a secret family and a secret dog, or whatever. But you owe them (and yourself) honesty. And frankly, telling them at any time should be something they appreciate. Better late than never, right?
Often though, we tend to repress these feelings until a relationship withers into nothingness. And then we may – or may not – be ready to open up about it the next time we’re with someone, or the time after. Which, given you’re in a happy relationship otherwise, is a pretty sad scene to let occur, don’t you think?
Barnaby, 42, might never have explored his kinks – which he describes as “Christian Grey but more” – had his partner not grabbed his hand and put it around her throat. “A few days later I decided to ask her about it. Why she did it, if she enjoyed it. It was early into our relationship and I figure I’m best off having an open book and getting it out of the way.”
Before that relationship, Barnaby had the same kinks but just hadn’t explored them. “Previously, it was difficult to even internally vocalise what I wanted. I couldn’t find the words for it, or the right way to approach it, but our sex was a little stagnant. It was all just a one-way track to imploding.”
Robert, 25, also held back in previous relationships. When he was with his ex, “I thought about the fact that she could kink shame me to her friends and others if the relationship went south”, he says, discussing how he is into the idea of being dominated. After the breakup, he came out as bi and is now in a relationship where he can be more open about his kinks.
“I think my orientation is coincidental, but what’s significant is I actually decided to explore the things I want, and felt comfortable enough to mention it to my new partner,” he explains. “He and I speak about sex openly and frequently. In my straight relationships, or past relationships, that never really happened.”
The common theme with Barnaby and Robert is they’ve both left relationships where their kinks were repressed, and have since found happier ones where their sex lives are comparatively thriving. But you’ve said you’re in a happy relationship outside of these kink explorations, so why not just see how a conversation your current partner goes?
If it emerges that you want different things, you can assess how important that kink is to you. If you decide it’s actually very important and your relationship isn’t exactly happy without it, then perhaps think about next steps. While you haven’t done anything bad, you are being dishonest to yourself if you’re living a chunk of the relationship feeling like you’re compromising on your needs. The frustration of this can easily build up and make you feel angry or moody, which isn’t fair on either of you. (And if they do make you feel ashamed or embarrassed of your kinks, then they perhaps need to be with someone more vanilla anyway.)
If you can live without it save the odd cheeky porn watch, then great – but it sounds like it’s on your mind enough to warrant asking. What’s the worst that’s going to happen? You might even find you want the same things, and it’d be a real shame to miss the boat on exploring your specific kinks with the person you already know you like, wouldn’t it? Give it a think, man. Before you know it, you might be in pegging city, a BDSM dungeon, or whatever your preferred destination.
UK – HOLLY Willoughby confronted Britain’s oldest dominatrix, 70, about enabling married men to ‘CHEAT’ – despite never having sex with her clients.
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The This Morning presenter blasted the “emotional and physical betrayal” caused when Sherry Lever is visited by clients looking for “punishment”.
Sherry – known as Mistress Sofia – says she’s classed as a sex worker, but insists “it’s about domination, not sex”.
She calls her clients “slaves” and once took a man out for a walk as a dog and tied him to a tree.
Holly appeared to struggle with Sherry’s job, commenting: “Some of these people who come and see you are in relationships, some of them are married.
“There will be people watching this saying ‘well, aren’t you just involved in helping them to cheat’.”
Sherry replied: “Well, if we’re going to get right down to the nitty gritty, not every partner would be happy for their husband to come and see me, but isn’t it preferable that they come to see me because they’ve got a kink, rather than go to an escort?”
Holly insisted: “I don’t know if there’s any difference.”
Trying to educate Holly, Sherry said: “There’s no sex.”
But the host was still unmoved in her argument.
“Isn’t it emotional betrayal?,” she asked.
“It’s not just physical that upsets people I don’t think.”
Sherry explained: “They don’t want to have that sort of kink with their partner.
“They want to keep the two separate and also their partner wouldn’t be happy if they saw the submissive side to them, whereas to me it’s normal.”
She told The Sun: “I’ve prevented many from being physically unfaithful.”
Sherry is a three-times divorced grandmother who embarked on a career as a dominatrix.
She now trains bored housewives in BDSM for £120 an hour.
Sherry was inundated with over a hundred requests from women keen to “learn the ropes”.
Devon councillor Colin Slade said he “could see” how the MP might have mixed up a Dominator with a dominatrix.
Farmer Parish, 65, quit after saying he was looking for “tractors” and got “into another website with sort of a very similar name”.
A Claas Dominator 76 combine harvester was spotted yesterday on Parish’s farm in Bridgwater, north Somerset.
Sceptics will point out that it is not a tractor — but Mr Slade insisted: “I believe it to be true.”
Another councillor pal Ray Radford told The Sun: “If he was googling combine harvesters and tractors and so on he might have stumbled across something by mistake, whether he pressed the wrong button or not, who knows?”
He added: “I’ve got no doubt it was a bit unfortunate.”
The Business Secretary said Parish did “the right thing” resigning his seat in Tiverton and Honiton — forcing a by-election for the Government.
But Kwasi Kwarteng rejected claims Parliament is dominated by sleaze, and instead blamed a “few bad apples”.
It comes after a Sunday Times report detailed alleged drunken behaviour, including a senior MP repeatedly licking researchers’ faces in bars.
A minister was also allegedly overheard frequently having “noisy sex” in his office, while a female Tory was reportedly sent a “d**k pic” by a colleague.
Mr Kwarteng accepted the allegations were “extraordinary and unacceptable”.
But he told Sky’s Sophy Ridge on Sunday shutting down Commons bars would be “excessively puritanical”.
He added: “I don’t think there is a culture of misogyny. The problem we have is people are working in a really intense environment. There are long hours and I think generally most people know their limits.”
He also told the BBC’s Sunday Morning show that Parliament is a safe place for women to work.
He said: “We’ve got to distinguish between some bad apples, people who behave badly, and the general environment.”
Kieran (K) and his partner, Miss Gold, work as photographers at festivals, snapping pictures of racy scenes in underground clubs.
In their private lives, they are also members of the BDSM community and have a “DS relationship.
This means that the couple enjoys allowing the female partner to be dominant, with Kieran relishing his girlfriend’s humiliation and degradation.
“None of my friends are into it,” Kieran admitted on Channel 4’s Love Against The Odds series. “It was always quite an insular thing, and I did wonder, ‘Should I be doing this?”
One of Miss Gold’s raunchy fetish videos was discovered by her father, she revealed.
Despite his reservations, Kieran stated that his family had always been supportive of his unusual interests.
“My mother hаs аlwаys known becаuse I brought in а professionаl dominаtrix to the house from the beginning.” He аdmitted, “I wаs obviously indulging in certаin things.
Miss Gold’s pаrents, on the other hаnd, hаd а less thаn cordiаl reаction аt first.
Miss Gold аnd K аre fetish photogrаphers аnd hаve а DS relаtionship.
“Unfortunаtely, а video of K sucking my toes wаs discovered by my fаther,” she explаined. And аs I wаs wаlking down the street, this vаn swerved in аnd pulled up аlongside me.
“I rаise my heаd, аs if to аsk, ‘Whаt’s going on?’” ‘Why is there а video of you on the internet getting your toes sucked by K?’ my fаther exclаims from the bаck of his white vаn. Isn’t he а proper blunderer?’
Despite this, the dominаtrix emphаsized thаt the couple’s pаrents hаd been “proud” of their hаppiness аnd hаd been overwhelmingly supportive of their work.
K clаimed thаt his pаrents hаd аlwаys encourаged him to pursue his unusuаl hobbies.
And now thаt Kierаn аnd Miss Gold аre pаrents, they’ve hаd to defend themselves аgаinst criticism аbout how they bаlаnce childcаre with their fetish photogrаphy cаreers.
“It’s gotten to the point where it’s а little bit offensive becаuse there аre plenty of vаnillа people who hаve sex.” Miss Gold explаined, “You go to bed, close the door, аnd the kids аren’t wаtching.”
“It’s not thаt there’s аnything wrong with missionаry sex; it’s just not for me.” However, I enjoy аctivities thаt push me to think outside the box. And I believe we cаn concoct these fаntаsies within the confines of BDSM.”
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USA – Whether you’re playing with bondage, spanking, punishments, or some other kinky activity, there’s a key dynamic that forms the base of BDSM play: the Dominant/submissive relationship, also known as Dom/sub or D/s.
BDSM is an umbrella term that stands for Bondage/Discipline, Domination/submission, and sadomasochism. “It describes the practice of intentionally playing with deliberately unbalanced power dynamics (who is in control) and/or giving or receiving intense sensation,” explains Dr. Celina Criss, a certified sex coach who specializes in BDSM. “Simply put, it’s fun and games with rules, roles, vibrators, and spanking.”
In the Dom/sub dynamic, the Dom is the leader and the submissive follows. It’s all about power play; even the capital “D” in Dom and lowercase “s” in sub denote this power dynamic.
These titles are explicit, meaning the Dom and sub have clearly defined their roles and have both enthusiastically consented to engage with the dynamic. In D/s relationships, “nothing occurs without open communication to create trust that, in turn, fosters explicit consent,” says professional kinkster Mistress Kye.
If Dom/sub relationships strike your fancy, look no further. We’ve pulled together everything you need to know about the Dom/sub dynamic, including how to engage in it safely and different types of D/s roles to explore.
The role of the Dom:
The Dom (Dominant) is the boss, so it seems only fitting to start there.
The Dom has been given the power by the submissive, meaning the submissive has surrendered to the Dom’s control. The Dom is the manager of the scene. They are often a “Top” or “Active Dom,” but not always; how a person acts as a Dom will depend on the play they’re engaging in. In a Caregiver/little scene, for instance, the Dom may take on a gentle, nurturing role.
The role of the Dom usually exists within a sexual scenario, but D/s dynamics can also be part of a full-on D/s lifestyle, depending how how immersive the Dom and sub wish to be in their roles. As far as Dom behavior goes, it “can be doing a variety of things to the sub in a sexual nature during a scene; it can be making decisions for them when [they’re] together (like what to pick at a restaurant); it can even be doling out punishment when the sub misbehaves or breaks rules previously agreed upon,” explains Javay Frye-Nekrasova, sex educator and pleasure expert at Lovehoney.
The Dom is responsible for the sub, and their job is to keep them safe throughout any kind of play. For instance, if they’re playing with rope, the Dom has the responsibility to be sure the knots are tied correctly and safely. If the scene is more of a Caregiver/little scenario, the Dom might have the responsibility of making sure the little is fed and tucked into bed. “They hold their sub in safety throughout the scene: tuning in to responses, making sure that boundaries are respected, and accepting the submission as an addition that increases their own power,” Criss says.
The role of the sub:
The sub (submissive) is the “bottom.” Again, the ways in which these roles play out is dependent on the specific type of scene the participants are exploring. The thing that is always true: The sub gives their power to the Dom, and this power is a precious gift. It is given freely and with full consent.
The sub’s role is to follow, please, or serve the Dom. This could look like “taking pain” (such as with flogging or spanking), doing tasks around the house, or being “good” and following the Dom’s various rules.
“However, the sub is not powerless,” says Dr. Justin Lehmiller, Kinsey Institute research fellow, host of the Sex and Psychology Podcast, and member of the Men’s Health Advisory Panel. “They establish their boundaries and limits at the outset and have the ability to end the scene at any time by invoking a safeword.”
How to set boundaries within the Dom/sub dynamic:
Understand your responsibilities.
When engaging with BDSM, everyone is responsible for themselves before the play begins. “It is the responsibility of all parties (Dom and sub) to communicate boundaries, hard limits, and means of communication to be used during a scene (safewords and safe signals) before play begins,” Criss says. This means having open and clear communication before play starts to establish what is and what is not on the table.
Have a safeword.
Safewords are typically non-sexual words (or gestures) that are used for partners to let each other know that a limit has been reached. When the safeword is invoked, play stops. Using “No” or “Stop” often doesn’t work in BDSM, as a sub may be saying “No” or “Stop” as a part of their consensual role. Instead, choose something random and non-sexual like “sailboat,” “flamingo,” or “umbrella.” You can also use a traffic light system: “Red” means “STOP” and “Yellow” means “PAUSE.”
“Think of using ‘Yellow’ as an opportunity to ask for a glass of water, let your partner know you can’t feel your fingertips, or whatever else is going on, without ending the scene,” Criss says. “Safewords can be used by either the Dom [or] sub when a scene gets too intense or an adjustment is needed.”
Advocate for yourself.
Before you start playing, it’s important to know exactly what you want and to be able to vocalize that. Criss suggests asking yourself the following questions: What is pleasurable to you? What do you want? What are you willing to give and/or receive? Who are you willing to be in this scene? Yes, even as a submissive. Everyone is entitled to the play they wish to engage in, no matter their role.
An example of how this might go: “I find taking pain very fun and would like to do some spanking. I would like my Dom to use their hands, a flogger, and a horsewhip. But I’m not OK with caning. I am willing to serve my Dom and be a ‘Good boy’ for them.”
Mistress Kye says that if face-to-face with your Dom is nerve-wracking, you can write a “kinky diary. “It’s an effective tool to allow submissives the space they need to organize their thoughts, knowing the Dominant will read through loving eyes to better understand them,” she explains. “Then, they plan a special time to discuss the diary entries by making a ‘connection-date.’” This is a calm, intimate time to chat openly.
Educate yourself.
Before hopping into a Dom/sub dynamic and engaging with BDSM, it’s important to know your stuff. This means actually doing some research—and no, that doesn’t include binging Fifty Shades, as that is a horrible example of healthy kink. Because you can’t get what you want out of BDSM if you don’t have a clue what you even want, you know?
Frye-Nekrasova suggests following kinky educators on IG like @TheKinkEducator, @JetSetJasmine, @TheRealKingNoir, and @MillennialSexpert.
Practice aftercare.
Aftercare is a hugely important component of BDSM. It’s a time for emotional reset and a chance to connect with your partner after the scene. Because BDSM can be so intense, it’s important to take care after it ends. “It’s a chance to make sure you and your partner are on the same page, but also to identify things that you might want to do differently next time and to adjust your rules and boundaries accordingly,” Lehmiller says.
In aftercare, “partners reassure each other that, no matter what wild experience they shared, they are still decent, civilized human beings who respect themselves and each other,” Criss adds.
Aftercare will look differently to everyone. It may be that the Dom holds or cuddles the sub, or they simply talk through what happened, or one massages the other. Whatever it is, each person needs to feel grounded and safe.
Types of D/s dynamics for your personal exploration:
All Dom/sub relationships are uniquely designed by the people in them. It’s not all whips and chains (though that can be very fun). For the Dom/sub relationship to exist, it simply needs to manifest as an exchange of power. “Bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism might be components of the play that enhance the Dominant’s power by encouraging the submissive to cooperate or endure to please their Dom, or because it is pleasurable for both,” Criss adds.
Here are five common D/s dynamics to consider trying.
Master/servant
The Dom is the Master and has the sub do “tasks” for them. The sub carries out these tasks in order to please the Dom. This could mean cleaning, laying out their clothes for a date, giving them a foot rub, etc. There may also be punishments, such as spanking or flogging, if the submissive doesn’t perform their tasks correctly.
D/s Bondage
This is where the ropes come in, folx. A Dom uses rope (or other forms of restraints) to tie the sub up in various ways. There is a lot of trust involved in this kind of play and it’s best to take a class and learn how to tie knots before going right in. You may not use ropes at all, choosing instead to use collars, restraints, or handcuffs.
Caregiver/little
This dynamic entails a Dom taking on a caregiver (or parental) role. The sub is their “little girl/boy/baby” and is cared for and treated like a little human. Also known as “Ageplay,” the activities involved can include brushing hair, spanking when the little is “naughty,” being fed with a spoon, etc.
24/7 D/s
This is when the Dom and sub are in their roles 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The sub may wear a collar or other form of “mark” to show that they are the “property” of their Dom. This one may sound like “a lot,” but it works really well for those who enjoy it.
Female-Led Relationships (FLR)
The female Dom makes the lion’s share of decisions in her relationship with her sub. She chooses where they eat, when they have sex, and what the sub wears. The sub does the household tasks, such as cooking and cleaning, and waits on his Dom hand and foot.
Whatever dynamic you choose, it’s all normal and great, as long as everyone is getting what they want out of it. Kink can be a very sexy way to play with power dynamics in sex (and even in life). If you’re interested in bringing kink into the bedroom and exploring these roles further, check out our 30 day guide to kink.
USA – NEW YORK – A model left her Instagram followers sweating after sharing her hot and heavy workout — but it wasn’t the exercises that sent hearts racing.
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“I love to sweat and I love to drive men crazy,” Yotta told Jam Press matter-of-factly.
The OnlyFans model and dominatrix is seen using several exercise machines at Gold’s Gym in Hollywood to strengthen her glutes as the camera zooms in to her
The video clearly excited many of her 638,000 followers: In a week, the video had accumulated more than 24,000 likes and hundreds of thirsty — and sometimes critical — comments.
“Hell, yes, people stared,” Yotta proclaimed to Jam Press. “I got five cell phone numbers and two clients for my dungeon.”
The brunette bombshell joined OnlyFans in September 2020 and has since turned her five — yes, five — OnlyFans pages into her full-time job.
“Men love me, women hate me — they think I just want the attention and they are right,” she said. “I am a slut and I love it.”
Yotta’s fans also seemed to love it. Her comments are filled with men drooling over the videos, leaving peach, fire and heart-eyed emojis along with her viewers lusting after her.
“I have never seen anyone workout in latex, this is so awesome!” one fan commented on the racy video, while another admitted, “Holy s – – t. I could not imagine this in front of me in a gym. I would stare and have zero shame about it.”
“I’m glad you don’t go to my gym because I’d never be able to concentrate on working out,” one more dazzled devotee declared.
One apparently jealous commenter suggested that her husband “is a very lucky man.”
Yotta’s hubby, German multi-millionaire Bastian Yotta, is actually the reason she first joined OnlyFans and has remained her biggest fan.
“It was a competition between my now-husband and I. We were like, ‘Okay, why don’t we try it and see who gets the most fans and who makes the most money in the first month?’ Okay, game on,” she told the Daily Star.
“We started with just our main accounts — his main account, my main account. We currently have five accounts,” she explained. Yotta now manages three for herself, her husband’s main one and the couple’s joint account, while her husband records — and encourages — all of her content.
And who knows where all of the popular content could lead?
“If I were the owner of that gym I would give you the membership for free,” one fan even suggested.
AUSTRALIA – Liberal candidate Katherine Deves believes there’s a link between cross-dressing men and trans women being “sexual predators, even serial killers”.
The candidate that Prime Minister Scott Morrison insists “should not be silenced” also believes that gay men who have surrogate babies are engaged in “human rights violations”.
In the latest unearthed tweets from her now deleted Twitter account, Ms Deves also suggests the “transabled” – people pretending to be disabled – “is a thing”.
“Didn’t (serial killer) Ted Bundy pretend to be injured to garner sympathy,’’ the Liberal hopeful wrote on September 4, 2021.
Just 24 hours after that post, she then suggested a link between cross-dressing and being a serial killer.
“Transvestism is very common amongst sexual predators, even serial killers,” she said.
“So how are we women supposed to tell the difference between the ones who are a threat and the ones who aren’t? Easier for women to exclude all males from spaces where we are vulnerable.”
Nominations close for political candidates on Thursday – the last date for the Liberal Party to remove her name from the ballot paper.
While transgender serial killers have been a popular trope in horror movies including Alfred Hitchcock’s Psycho (1960), Brian De Palma’s Dressed to Kill (1980), and Jonathan Demme’s Silence of the Lambs (1991), there is no known link with transvestism and being a murderer.
The mother of three also slammed surrogacy as a “human rights violation” in a social media post attacking the birth of twins to a gay politician in the United States.
“Surrogacy is a human rights violation,’’ she wrote.
“Women’s bodies are not vehicles for a vanity project.”
The men in the image that Ms Deves responded to were Pete Buttigieg, the first openly gay presidential candidate in the history of the Democratic Party, and his partner.
The transport secretary is a member of Joe Biden’s cabinet and was recently ranked by The Washington Post as the second favourite to be the next democratic nominee for president at the 2024 election.
The tweet that she responded to was by Mr Buttigieg on September 5, 2021, announcing the happy news that he and his husband Chasten, 32, had welcomed twins Penelope Rose and Joseph August.
“It’s been wonderful. It’s everything people tell you to expect and more. I think the biggest thing that’s surprised me is just how much joy there is even sometimes in the hard parts,’’ he said.
“It’s just amazing.”
In another social media post she says that reports of trans women inducing lactation to simulate breastfeeding were sick.
“In any other context this would be child sexual abuse and exploitation,‘’ she wrote.
In another new reference to the Holocaust, Ms Deves suggested those that fail to fight the move towards gender fluidity are no different to those that watched the trains go past with Jews to concentration camps.
“I have no doubt these people would imagine themselves to be part of the French Resistance in WWII – but no, they are the villagers who watched the trains go by, ignored the clouds of soot and smoke and joined the Party to get good jobs. They are complicit,’’ she wrote.
“But what I won’t allow, what I won’t allow, is for those who are seeking to cancel Katherine simply because she has a different view to them on the issue of women and girls in sport,’’ he said.
“I think Australians are getting pretty fed-up with having to walk on egg shells everyday because they may or may not say something one day that’s going to upset someone.”
GERMANY – Sarah Keller, 32, from Germany, claims sex work and being a police woman are similar and the only difference ‘is the uniform’. She was inspired after meeting prostitutes on the job
A former policewoman has revealed she spent seven years moonlighting as a dominatrix after being inspired by sex workers she met on the job.
Former police commissioner, Sarah Keller, 32, from Germany, is now a full time dominatrix and says the only difference in the jobs is the uniform.
Sarah, who goes by Calea Toxic when doing sex work rose to the senior ranks of the police while in her 20s.
But, after visiting a fetish party in 2011 a friend persuaded her to hang up her handcuffs and pick up the latex.
Having always been fascinated by BDSM, bondage and domination, Sarah lead a double life for seven years.
She investigated sex crimes and regularly spoke with prostitutes who would tell her about their lives.
But, Sarah’s desire to be a dominatrix was only furthered by their testimony.
And, while she was on her way to the top of the police force, the 32-year-old found images of her donning a long leather suit circulating at the station via WhatsApp.
And, her decision to get a boob job to increase her D-cup breasts to a 34F made her tenure difficult.
After 11 years in the police, Sarah left her job to be a full time sex worker.
She said: “I felt at home with the police and it certainly was a great job. But something was missing.
“I wanted to do the things in life that really give me joy. In my private life, I’ve always had a passion for BDSM. It gives me a satisfying feeling to lead people and exercise power.
“I had my breasts enlarged, put on flashy make-up and posted seductive pictures as well.
“I noticed that my lifestyle was becoming more and more different from that of most colleagues.
“Values such as owning your own home or saving for retirement were much less important to me than the aspect of feeling good in your own body and enjoying freedom.”
She added: “In some ways the jobs are pretty similar.
“You have a lot of responsibility. You have to guide and direct people.
“I guess the main difference is the uniform.”
Sarah has had recurring guest appearances in the best dominatrix studios in Europe, but also takes part in exclusive photoshoots.
Plus, the ex-policewoman provides a “bizarre escort service” for the “more solvent gentleman”.
And, she’ll help couples to push the boundaries of their sexual enjoyment.
With a growing Instagram following of over 26K, cover appearances on the fetish magazines Bedeseme, Darkside and Massad as well as being featured in a television documentary Sarah says she’s earning more than ever.
And, that’s saying something as a police commissioner in Germany can make upwards of £100,000 a year.
Sarah allows clients to try out their deepest desires and try humiliation role-play such as wearing a dog lead.
Sarah added: “Playing games with latex, whips and bondage allows me to disappear into a completely different place.
“On Facebook, Instagram and Twitter I can only give very limited insights into my life, so my OnlyFans is really important to me.
“For me, money is not the most important part of why I do what I do. I want to pursue my job independently and out of my own motivation.
“I work as professionally as a dominatrix as I did as a police officer.
“My guests enjoy letting go, giving up control and simply having a good time.
And Stacey Dooley, 35, does not disappoint in the new season of Stacey Dooley Sleeps Over with an elderly dominatrix and the woman classed as ‘Britain’s most hated woman’
In episode two of the third season Stacey finds herself sleeping over with a proud and successful 70-year-old dominatrix.
Sherry Lever, from Swindon, decided to take up ‘domming’ after her daughter encouraged her to pursue the career as she would make more money compared to her previous job, a phone sex worker.
The grandmother who goes by the stage name Mistress Sofia, runs her business from home and has her play room set up for customers in the family conservatory.
As it is a rather unique way to grow old gracefully Stacey didn’t hesitate when given the opportunity to discover more about the family.
Back in 2020 Sherry appeared on This Morning and explained how everyone of her customers are different, she said: ‘They all have their own agenda.’
She continued: ‘Some just do it because it’s a little quirk, others it’s a need, they need to be submissive’.
Stacey explored the family relationships and how Sherry’s career impacts their life.
During an interview with Stylist the Strictly winner shut down rumours that she doesn’t actually sleep over, she said: ‘People always ask if we actually stay over, but I promise you, it’s legit.
‘We get there on Friday and we don’t leave until Monday, we completely immerse ourselves in these families’ lives.’
Stacey also spent her weekends with Harnaam Kaur, a body positive advocate, and Clara Belluci who owns the title ‘Britain’s most hated woman’.
CANADA – QUEBEC – Quebec Public Health put their foot in their mouth on Thursday afternoon when the daily COVID-19 update on Twitter linked to a Pornhub fetish video, instead of the usual breakdown of pandemic case counts and infection rates.
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When visitors clicked the link in the original tweet, they were taken to an amateur porn video titled “Femdom feet worship.” The 10-minute film features a lot of heavy sighing while someone in a mask kisses and sucks on toes.
The link stayed up for around half an hour before it was finally taken down. Public Health then tweeted an apology that claimed the link was posted due to “a situation outside of their control.”
The Health Ministry said it is looking into the reason why the inappropriate link was posted.
Right now, the Pornhub video in question has just over six thousand views and a 91% approval. It remains to be seen if those numbers will shoot up like some expect the province’s COVID-19 numbers to do over the long weekend.
USA – Spanking therapy uses spanking as a form of release. People may choose to take part in spanking therapy to release stress and responsibility, explore power roles, or work through negative emotions or trauma. However, there is limited scientific research on spanking therapy and its effectiveness.
Spanking therapy has no exact definition, but people may class it as any form of consensual spanking under BDSM, which stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism (SM).
Individuals may also class it as any consensual BDSM spanking to release certain emotions or work through issues, such as trauma.
People may use it for relaxation or the release of power, responsibility, negative emotions, or trauma.
According to an article in The Journal of Sex Research, people may engage in spanking therapy for a range of reasons, such as :
Power play: People may find it sexually arousing to play with power roles, such as becoming dominant or submissive. Others may also find it freeing to release responsibility and power in a controlled environment.
Spiritual experience: Some people report that SM practices alter their state of consciousness, providing them with a sense of connection, wholeness, and mind expansion.
Stress release: Individuals may find similar benefits from spanking therapy as those from mindful activities, such as meditation.
Escapism or sense of adventure: People may find spanking therapy a way to change their routine and elevate their experience from mundane or everyday matters.
The authors also note that some scientific theories suggest that SM practices, such as spanking, may help some people heal from trauma.
Reclaiming or relinquishing power through the act of spanking may help some people regain psychological control over past traumatic events.
However, a person may wish to consult a mental health professional before engaging in spanking therapy to help heal from trauma.
According to a 2020 article, BDSM, particularly SM practices, may offer therapeutic and soothing effects for some people.
The research also suggests that SM practices may also provide similar psychological benefits as meditation. These benefits may include increased concentration levels, reduced mental activity, and relaxation.
Anecdotal sources also report that spanking therapy may help:
Clear communication is important, so the practitioner understands what people are hoping to get out of the session and the acts with which they can remain comfortable.
A spanking therapy session may involve the following:
a warmup session to get the body prepared
discussing any injuries or physical concerns
what the person hopes to get out of the session, and at what point it will end
agreeing on safe words or actions to stop the session at any time
whether people will keep their bottom clothed or not
During the spanking therapy, a practitioner may use a hand or paddle to offer different sensations.
After the session, the practitioner will check in with how people are feeling and allow time for them to process the emotions that may have come up.
Spanking therapy requires skill, and people without training may not be able to carry it out safely. However, if individuals wish to try spanking therapy with a partner, they may want to speak with a trained spanking therapist first for advice or training.
People could also learn from sex parties, classes at sex shops, online tutorials, or books.
Discussing consent
Before engaging in spanking therapy or any sexual activity, it is important that individuals discuss consent, boundaries, and expectations with their partner.
Consent is an ongoing process, and a person can change their mind and withdraw their consent at any time.
To ensure those involved are comfortable, people should:
The following are answers to common questions about spanking therapy.
Is spanking therapy always sexual?
Spanking therapy is not necessarily sexual, and some people may see it in a similar way to other forms of physical therapy. Others may see it as a more ritualistic experience.
According to a 2015 article, people may take part in BDSM activities such as spanking for nonsexual reasons.
Individuals may find it provides a new experience and a release from their everyday selves and responsibilities.
Why might people like being spanked?
People may enjoy spanking for several reasons, such as:
the release of power and responsibility
relaxation
stress relief
the release of trauma or negative emotions
altering their state of mind
A 2019 study looked at how Canadian university students thought about BDSM practices, with 60% of male participants and 31% of female participants having positive thoughts about whipping or spanking.
Where can a person learn more about spanking therapy?
If people want to learn more about spanking therapy, they may wish to:
read articles or books on the subject
talk with a sex worker trained in spanking therapy
Instead, the 47-year-old will be getting her rope, feathers and vibrators ready as a number of curious men swing by to experience a steamy session with a dominatrix.
Sandy, who spoke about her unique line of work on this week’s episode of Metro.co.uk’s Smut Drop podcast, found herself focusing on fetish and sex work quite by chance – and is now looking to empower women entering the industry with her own mentoring scheme.
Here, she tells Metro.co.uk how she turned part-time webcam work into a six-figure dominatrix business…
‘I’d been a personal trainer for nearly 18 years, but when I came back to the UK three years ago following a stint living abroad, I couldn’t really find a job. A friend of mine suggested I could do some webcamming – performing sex acts on video and internet live streams.
To begin with, I genuinely didn’t even know what that was. I did some research and found Adult Work, a platform I’m on now.
While I was scared to be starting from scratch at 44-years-old, I had no money and no job so I knew I had to go for it. Just one month later, I was bringing in a really decent wage just camming part time.
Within months people were asking whether I did dominatrix work, so I began thinking about whether I’d want to see clients face to face, and decided to invest in proper lessons so I could learn how to be a dominatrix safely.
I went to the London Dominatrix School in Marylebone. Taking place in an immaculate apartment, the course was taught by someone who was really experienced and had been in the business for many years.
I paid £200 an hour for three or four lessons, which included corporate punishment and impact play, where you learn how to hit the body safely while still causing discomfort. I also learned shibari, which is the art of bondage tying, and then I learned some cock and ball torture. It was best to learn in a safe, controlled environment and be taught by a professional.
Transitioning from webcam to face-to-face bookings was one of the scariest things I’ve ever done.
One reason was because the fetish industry gets such a bad rap – people who don’t understand think it’s weird and disgusting. And there was definitely fear going from just sitting on my bed, doing webcam here and there and then being in front of someone in a new setting surrounded by equipment, offering a service they pay a lot of money for. But I was lucky that the people I learned from were industry gurus in their own right, and I picked things up quite quickly.
I charge £170 for an hour, or £250 for 90 minutes. The most common thing that clients ask for is ‘tie and tease’ – that’s usually restraining and blindfolding with some sensual play. I’m not considered an extreme dominatrix – a lot of people who come to me just want to try it out. I often combine the more traditional domme services with more sensual routines because a lot of clients are still uncertain and want to try it out.
Another popular service with clients is strap-on sex. Some men like anal sex and anal play, and may be scared to ask their wives. There’s that element of shame around it: men don’t ask because they don’t want to be seen as gay. But they’re not gay – they don’t want anal sex from a man, they want it from a hot woman. They want to see my boobs and my face and my body.
Some men just feel like they couldn’t ask their wife to put a strap-on on, because she’s the mother of their kids and they just don’t see her in that way.
As someone who has had kids, I do understand that your child becomes a priority. Men are needier than we think they are, and they feel a bit neglected. Women can also lose confidence after having a baby, and that can be another turn off.
I’d say 80% of my clients are married or in relationships. I think some women would be horrified if they knew what some of their husbands are doing. Some wouldn’t he able to handle their other half dressing up in another women’s underwear and receiving anal pleasure. It’s alien to vanilla relationships. It’s hugely frowned upon and unaccepted, and it’s something that stays under the radar a lot of the time.
Some clients have told me that seeing me is keeping their marriage going. I don’t know if their wives would quite see it that way. Some also say their wives know that they come to me.
As a general rule, I don’t ask about their personal life, and I don’t tell them about mine. I keep the boundaries quite clear.
The age of my clients range from quite young to men in their mid seventies. As I’ve got an adult son myself, I don’t feel it’s right for me to go below a certain age. I draw the line at 28, but I have had boys as young as 21 try and book me.
I would say I’ve probably got five semi regular clients between the age of 65 and 75. I find elderly gentlemen tend to be a lot more respectful and polite. They’re my preferred client, if I’m honest.
You absolutely need friends in the industry when you’re doing this, as some days can get weird pretty quickly. I had an extreme submissive once that said he wanted me to put a plastic bag over his head and be suffocated.
I’ve had muscle worship sessions, where people really like muscly women and they like to be dominated in a headlock or I might arm wrestle them.
Once I did it to a client and he suddenly went limp. It was quite a hot day and he just fainted, so I snapped my fingers in his face and he quickly came round, saying he didn’t really realise what had happened. There’s definitely occasions where things don’t go to plan and it can completely throw you off your script.
I do want to start a mentoring women in this industry so I can help them have the same positive experience I’ve had.
My advice for anyone considering it is to not be frightened to say no. If you’re not comfortable doing something, don’t do it. And just enjoy it. The last three years have been crazy: I’ve built a six figure industry from being a dominatrix, and I want more women to feel empowered while doing it.’
Dr. Olivia Snow, an adjunct college professor in New York City and tech researcher at UCLA and NYU, is virally blasting the food delivery behemoth — claiming it arbitrarily discontinued servicing her due to her part-time gig as a leather corset-donning dungeon domme.
“It’s dehumanizing,” lamented Snow, 33, to The Post. “Sex workers bend over backwards to conceal our identities in order to [be treated fairly by mainstream society],” she continued. “And these big tech companies use special software and AI (artificial intelligence) to sniff us out and block us from their services.”
For eight hours, three times a week, the Ph.D.-holder straps herself into silky fishnet stockings and skin-tight lingerie and sexually dominates revelers with a penchant for corporal punishment.
But when it comes to enjoying contactless services like DoorDash and PayPal, she says major tech imprints have unjustly tied her hands.
In a trending Twitter post, Snow — who’s sporadically moonlighted in erotica for 15 years — castigated DoorDash for apparently banning her patronage due to a detection of unspecified “abnormal behavior” from her account, which allegedly violates the brand’s Terms of Service. But she told The Post that she’s never confronted a DoorDash delivery person in her dominatrix garb, nor has she shared the details of her profession with any of the company’s drivers.
However, her tweet, shared Tuesday, featured a screenshot of DoorDash’s vague dismissal email. And she spiced the post up with a sarcastic caption, saying: “love too be a wh0re” — written with a zero rather than an “O.”
And Snow said that the misspelling was no mistake.
“Social media sites and tech companies use various AI to monitor keywords that people type on their platform and into other apps,” she explained. “So I have to strategically misspell words pertaining to sex work in order to avoid getting my accounts shadow-banned or deactivated.”
When contacted by The Post, a spokesperson for DoorDash said: “While we have not been able to verify the posting online, we have reached out to this individual for more information and are actively investigating.
“Users are welcome on the DoorDash platform, regardless of a person’s profession or choice of work, and are required to follow our terms of service,” the representative added.
Nonetheless, Snow further claimed that cyber giants like Venmo, CashApp, PayPal, Airbnb and a slew of popular dating apps have also banned her and other sex workers from utilizing their services.
“Airbnb is uniquely creepy when it comes to surveilling sex workers,” she asserted. “I believe they use software to spy on sex workers and they cross-platform surveillance software to monitor what keywords sex workers are typing into other sites. They go above and beyond to find us out and block us.”
Snow, who’s purportedly done extensive research on the technological mistreatment of sex workers, went on to claim that Airbnb and the like use location data and text-tracking hacks in order to pinpoint sex world staffers and ban them.
However, in a statement to The Post, an Airbnb rep denied that company’s alleged prejudice, saying: “This is false. Sex workers are not prohibited from using Airbnb on the sole basis of their occupation.”
Snow, however, predicted the brand’s rebuttal.
“These tech companies will never admit to what they’re doing,” she said. “And even though Airbnb has specifically said that they don’t target sex workers, they do.”
But more frustrating than the organization’s denial of any bigotry, according to Snow, is the fact that the general public refuses to believe that these major online platforms are specifically targeting sex workers.
“It’s very difficult to get people to believe the qualitative data that proves sex workers are being [marginalized],” the saucy scholar said. “People always ask me, ‘Are you sure it’s cross-platform surveillance?’ And I’m like, ‘I am sure because I do this for a living,’ ” she added, noting her work in higher education and research.
And as a shame-on-you to the tech companies, Snow added, “When companies non-consensually out us [sex workers], and block us from enjoying basic human necessities, it feels really violating. There’s no justification.”
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