As this lesbian couple explained, “To build trust to engage in BDSM, you must feel comfortable around the person entirely.”
Source: GCN.ie.
IRELAND – About six months ago, following a long shift at work, I arrived at my friend’s student accommodation to find a group rallying around the TV, watching a film. It would soon open my eyes to the world of BDSM.
They are huddled on two couches pushed together, with one blanket covering all four of them. After missing the first 15 minutes or so, I appear in the room at the time of an integral scene. It’s integral because it acts as a catalyst for the storyline, even though instantly I can tell that they’re not watching this movie for the plot.
The movie is the first of a trilogy: Fifty Shades of Grey. The scene I walked in on is the one where Anastasia and Christian have their meet-cute, when she interviews him for the college newspaper.
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