Ariel Anderssen, who saw the internet ‘explode’ with her pictures, grew up believing sex before marriage was forbidden
Source: Mirror.co.uk.
UK – A former Jehovah’s Witness who was taught sex was ‘shameful’ has now become a bondage star on OnlyFans – with the help of her physicist hubby.
Ariel Anderssen was born into a devoutly religious family and grew up believing sex before marriage was forbidden, along with claiming she was taught masturbation was ‘completely evil’.
The 45-year-old’s family left the church when she was in her teens, which provided the break she needed.
When Ariel heard about BDSM in her 20s, she realised everything she’d been thinking was a ‘guilty secret’ could actually be enjoyed in the open – and even become a career.
Meanwhile her husband Hywel Phillips, 54, had been a ‘respectable’ particle physicist when they first got together, working at nuclear research centre CERN and a physics lecturer.
However now the pair enjoy bondage shoots – with Hywel taking the shoots for their own BDSM website while Ariel rakes in £4,000 a month on OnlyFans.
In pictures shared on her social media channels, Ariel can be seen sporting rope restraints and mouth gags, handcuffs and a riding crop, while others show her bent over household furniture.
Ariel relishes her journey from religion to sex work so much that she is recounting the story in her own memoirs – admitting she is ‘glad’ the Jehovah’s Witnesses would be ‘absolutely horrified’.
Ariel, from Welshpool, Wales, said: “My job is a strange kind of niche but I always knew it fascinated me. Even in the Bible when someone got tied up or captured I’d always think it was an interesting bit.
“I imagine the Jehovah’s Witnesses would be absolutely horrified but I’m afraid I’m glad. They ruined the first part of my life to be honest.
“[I was taught] no sex before marriage was a very important thing. They told us that masturbation was not only wrong but completely evil.
“I remember being nine years old and this article coming out called ‘How Do I Avoid Masturbation?’.
“I didn’t even know what it was but before I knew it I was being told this was a thing you must absolutely never do.
“If you did, you had to go and tell one of the elders. How humiliating. I think all teenage boys masturbate so I imagine everyone was living in guilt.
“They also had rules about what it was okay to do in bed – even if you were married and heterosexual. We were told oral sex was wrong.
“We were basically told anything you’d want to do in bed was shameful. It was shameful and wrong and God wouldn’t like it – and he’d know.
“I don’t think we had any sense of sex being a positive thing at all. Looking back it was really horrible.”
Ariel describes finding BDSM and turning it into a career as “stepping through a door into a secret garden.”
She says it was only when she read about a political figure who may have died from autoerotic asphyxiation that she realised what she had been interested in was sadomasochism.
But wracked with guilt, Ariel claims she ‘suppressed’ her sexual interests until she became a model and was taken to a BDSM art exhibition.
Ariel said: “I was born into the Jehovah’s Witnesses. My mum had been converted when she was pregnant with my older sister.
“We had to dress modestly and my mum handmade our clothes so we wore mostly Victorian-style pinafore dresses.
“We were expected to read a bit of the Bible every day and pray every day, and we were pressurised to talk about our religion at school.
“In contrast, as an adult I like wearing whatever I like – including nothing at all when it’s appropriate to the situation.
“I think I was quite lucky that aged 13, my parents had finally had enough and decided to leave.
“It lodged in my mind that I shouldn’t pay too much attention to what people tell me the world was like and how we should behave.
“It set me up for adult life to just make up my own rules about how I was going to live.
“I think that’s what led me to pursue a career that is so strange. I didn’t really care – it was what I wanted to do.”
Ariel was soon introduced to BDSM photographers and artists who invited her to model for them all over the world.
Before long, she was being offered spanking and bondage shoots and even met her husband Hywel when he was working as a photographer alongside his lecturing work.
Ariel said: “I put some pictures up online and the internet had just exploded – I was getting so many offers I couldn’t keep up with them.
“It was like the golden age for freelance modelling and it was the first time you didn’t need an agent. You could just launch yourself.
“I realised I could do bondage modelling. Several photographers asked if I’d like to work with them and I said yes.
“I started adding in bondage shoots and realised I loved that.
“I started being offered spanking and bondage work and so I started appearing in spanking films as well. Everything I tried, I loved.
“I created a name for doing my spanking movies. I chose the name of an ex-president of the Jehovah’s Witnesses. Every time someone says the name it makes me smile – it feels like revenge.
“I built my professional network and soon I started being invited abroad. I worked in the States and Australia – I was just being tied up all over the world. It was amazing.
“I met my husband because I wrote to him about working with him when I was a new model. We got on really well, became good friends and then eventually got together.
“When we tell people about our work now, the thing people say most often is they always think I must be the dominant because I talk more and I’m taller. In real life, people have been amazingly courteous and respectful.”
Hywel said: “I used to work at CERN so I was online very early. I started making websites when there were very few places that even knew what a website was.
“I’d always had an interest in bondage since I was young. I started out trying to draw it then started doing photography as a bit of a hobby when I could afford it, when I was a lecturer in my early thirties.
“When we tell people what we do, they’re generally very positive. I’ve learnt over the years the right form of words to lead into the topic gradually.
“I usually lead with ‘fetish fashion photography’ because I’ve found if I say I’m a bondage photographer, the mental image people get is all wrong.
“But if you say fetish fashion then see some of our work, you go ‘oh yes, I see. It’s ballgowns and handcuffs’.https://get-latest.convrse.media/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.mirror.co.uk%2Fnews%2Freal-life-stories%2Fjehovahs-witness-ditches-bible-onlyfans-27549166&cre=bottom&cip=52&view=web
“With that in mind, we get a very good reaction. Our friends and family know what we do which is very fortunate and I’ve never really had a particularly bad reaction from anyone in our personal lives.
“Ariel is classically trained ballet dancer and actress. She’s very expressive, she’s a great actress and she can do it at the same time as making beautiful shapes with her body.
