Suspended in air, we explore the line between pleasure and therapy in this ancient Japanese technique
Source: Sandiegomagazine.com.
USA – “I really don’t feel like getting tied up today,” I message my co-workers. I’m tired. I have split-up my hair and I’m balancing my laptop on my c-section bulge. I had a baby six months ago, am recently back at work, and do not feel like getting into knots—figuratively, mentally, or physically.
But for the first time in years, I’ve got an appointment to practice shibari—a Japanese bondage practice using thin jute rope. Considered more artistic than other types of bondage and kink, it places a special emphasis on visual aesthetics, in addition to the connection between the person tying (called the “rigger”) and the person being tied.
Like many forms of kink, rope tying is used as a healing modality as well as a sexual outlet. It’s mixing the two that draws people in—what’s the line between pleasure and therapy? Marvin Gaye wondered correctly—and it’s what piqued my own curiosity after I watched it in a performance years ago.
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