Source: Thesun.co.uk
UK – BRISTOL – A DOMINATRIX says she HATES it when clients suck her toes but they can’t get enough.
Carmen says most of her customers have a foot fetish and pay to suck and play with her toes.
The professional domme first became involved in the sex industry when she was 18 and has also worked in strip clubs and as a cam girl.
Out of all the services she provides, foot fetishes are her least favourite.
She said: “I hate foot stuff but I get paid so much for it.
“I hate someone sucking my toes, but they do not want to get kicked all the time so you just have to suck it up.
“Feet are such a common fetish. I do not touch their feet, they are the ones worshipping me.
“Massaging and sucking them [her feet] are the things you get the most.”
Her main source of income is working in a Bristol strip club, but she’s also spent time working in the sex industry abroad – and has previously done “full service sex work”, more commonly known as prostitution.
Carmen – a woman in her 20s – said some of her clients for dominatrix work want to be insulted and others want to be beaten up, sometimes to the point where they pass out.
She has a wide range of clients and said there’s a variety of reasons why people request her services.
“Different people want different things. I just ask them straight what they want and then I can just say if this is something I can provide or not.
“You have to be direct because otherwise you can put yourself in a dangerous situation, as well as wasting everyone’s time.”
Carmen said she finds most of her clients online, advertising on adult work websites and also via social media platforms such as Twitter.
They normally go to a hotel the client has booked and she will only go to their house if she has met them a few times.
Some bookings are just for an hour or two while others can last up to seven hours if the client wants to take her out for dinner or to go to bars, adding that some like to show her off.
Everyone has got a different fetish or kink. Carmen
“I used to see more clients, but it takes a lot of time and energy,” she continued.
“It is mainly regulars that I do now. I only do it [dominatrix work] a couple of times a month now.
“If you get on with the client, you can have fun and have a lovely evening. It is like any other job.”
Carmen said 90 per cent of her clients for dominatrix work are men, but gets some clients who are non-binary or trans as they feel safe with someone who is also LGBTQ+.
She said her regular clients are the ones that are more well off and that their ages start at late 20s.
“If they are just booking you for a couple of hours, most people already know what they want to explore,” she continued.
“It is just their kink – everyone has got a different fetish or kink.
“I think it is very important for people to be able to express them [their fetish and kinks] in a consensual and safe manner.”
Carmen said she has never had any problems while working as a dominatrix, but that she takes some safety precautions such as sharing her location before a booking.
If the client is willing to give it, she will ask for ID, she continued, and she also takes a deposit of up to 50 per cent, before adding that these days she does not need to take a booking if she is not comfortable with it.
MAY AS WELL GET PAID
Carmen first became involved in the sex industry when she was 18, working in a strip club in the north of England.
However, she only did it for a few months at that point as she was not prepared for it mentally.
“It was too much,” she said. “I did not have the right tools to navigate it and I also looked very young.
“I started full-time again when I was 22 or 23. In between, I worked in hospitality. For the amount of harassment I got in bars, I thought I may as well get paid for it.”
Carmen said that initially she was just working in strip clubs, adding that she likes the performance side of the job and that getting used to the other dancers and the unwritten rules of each club are the hardest aspects.
When returning to Bristol in her mid 20s, Carmen became involved in more sides of the sex industry.
It was around this time that she started working as a dominatrix, which does not involve penetrative sex. Instead, she offers services such as ‘Goddess worshipping’, spit play and ‘water sports’.
Carmen said that the amount of money she makes is really variable so it is wise to try to save as much as she can in the good times.
She said she also performs all over the UK and Europe, with her shows including pole dancing, burlesque and cabaret.
Performing is her creative outlet, she continued, and she enjoys it best when she can do something really different. At the moment, her ‘Magic Mike’ performance is her favourite as she gets to play with gender and have fun.
Her plan is to go travelling again soon who sees herself working in the sex industry until her mid-thirties when she would like to start working as a pole-dancing teacher.
