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Inside Seoul’s BDSM Party ​​Where Kinky Fantasies Come Alive

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, October 11, 2023 02:27:34

Spanking, bondage, and wax pouring are just some of the sights you’ll see.

Source: Vice.com.

SOUTH KOREA – SEOUL – Awoman with a bullwhip spanking the exposed backside of a man clad in bondage. The man sitting on his bare knees, held on a leash by the woman wearing a black leather miniskirt, fishnet stockings, and ankle boots. The man and woman surrounded by partygoers with glittering eyes in a dark space. Sex toys like handcuffs and butt plugs hanging from the ceiling of the DJ booth. These are just some tableaus from a BDSM (bondage, dominance, submission, and masochism—a type of sexual behavior) party held in Seoul, South Korea last June.

See more larger photo’s and audio transcript on: Vice.com.

The Sins party known for its BDSM shows has been a staple event since it was launched by party organizer Shade Seoul in 2018. The “inclusive DJ and party label” according to its X account, hosts a range of parties—from its mother party Shade, it also has Glow, Femme, and Sins, each with a different musical genre and theme. The Sins party is the much darker version, featuring harder beats and sexually explicit performances. Held almost every other month, it invites people to explore BDSM and release their sexual energy.

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Kim Kardashian models for Balenciaga for first time since BDSM ad controversy

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, October 11, 2023 02:12:28

Source: Pagesix.com.

USA – The reality star and businesswoman was featured in a lookbook shot for the luxury brand’s summer 2024 collection Sunday, less than one year after the brand found itself in hot water over an ad that seemingly featured children modeling bondage-themed accessories.

See more and larger photo’s on: Pagesix.com.

Kardashian’s latest curve-hugging outfit by Balenciaga included its 3D Molded Wet Dress, a damp-looking midi dress that featured a corseted bodice and an asymmetric hemline.

She donned a matching pair of black, skin-tight stiletto boots underneath that didn’t let any skin show.

The “Kardashians” star, 42, styled her black hair in a wet style, parted in the middle and flowed behind her back in loose waves as she posed in front of a red curtain background.

Kardashian finished her look with natural-looking makeup and accessorized with a sparkling high heel she carried in her right hand.

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Locktober: How Giving Up Control of Your Penis Can Set You Free

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Mon, October 02, 2023 00:52:55

A rising subset of men are choosing to lock their penises in chastity cages and do away with control—something that can feel like heaven for some and hell for others.

Source: Thedailybeast.com.

USA – NEW YORK – Around 10 years ago, not long after he moved to New York City, CJ broke up with his penis. Cold turkey. The relationship remained mostly cordial, briefly seeing each other during showers and other cleanings. But for the bulk of CJ’s day, as he made breakfast, walked the dog, shopped for frozen foods at Trader Joes, and had sex with men he met on Grindr—CJ’s member was locked in a chastity cage and controlled by a keyholder.

See more and larger photo’s on: Thedailybeast.com.

“I was constantly aroused,” CJ told The Daily Beast. Ravenous, he explained, “Seeking dicks.”

If you don’t know CJ by his OnlyFans handle, CagedJock, seeing a cage bulge through his underwear can spark a queer curiosity. “People are always wanting to ask me about it and touch it,” he said. “And then they want to know how I do it.” But if you’re one of CJ’s more than 300,000 followers, and a fellow chastity enthusiast, spotting a “locked boy” in the streets can be a special kind of thrill, like finding the rarest of Pokemon.

“It’s a growing, very erotic kink,” said CJ, and men of all sexualities are joining the club to relinquish control.

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ask jake

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Mon, October 02, 2023 00:40:44

I have a sex fantasy where I’m kidnapped & held captive by masked men. Do I need help?

Source: Queerty.com.

USA – Hi Jake,

I have a secret and very, very specific sexual fantasy and I’m hoping you can help me discern if there’s something seriously pathologically wrong with me, or if it is more common than I think.

I want to be kidnapped. There! I said it.

See larger photo on: Queerty.com.

I want to be sleeping in my bed, and be suddenly awoken in the middle of a random night to a group of athletic, masked men swarming my bedroom.

I’m picturing about four or five guys, all wearing black face masks, black t-shirts, and black pants. I want them to say very little, but just rip me out of the bed and put a hood over my head, so that I can’t even see what’s happening to me.

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Exploring BDSM Live Cam Shows: A Safe and Liberating Experience

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Mon, October 02, 2023 00:33:08

Source: Rumorfix.com.

USA – BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism) has long been a taboo subject, shrouded in secrecy and misconception.

See more and larger photo’s on: Rumorfix.com.

However, with the advent of the internet and the rise of camming platforms — like SkyPrivate, for example — BDSM enthusiasts have found a safe and liberating space to explore their most secret fantasies and fetishes: BDSM live cam shows.

In this text, we will delve into:

  • What BDSM live cams are
  • How they work
  • Why they can be a fulfilling and empowering experience for you
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Philly’s financial dominatrixes make thousands of dollars ignoring their clients (Goddess Reyo)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Mon, October 02, 2023 00:24:33

In this corner of the BDSM world, ‘finsubs’ relinquish control by opening their wallets.

Source: Inquirer.com.

USA – PHILADELPHIA – Goddess Reyo shows no mercy for missed appointments.

See more and larger photo’s on: Inquirer.com.

When her high-powered client failed to show up for a recent FaceTime call, she sent him a short video in which she pretendedto dial his father’s phone number, and then his secretary’s. Within five minutes, Reyo said, her client sent along his bank account and routing number.

Goddess Reyo is a financial dominatrix. (The Inquirer is referring to all dominatrixes in this story by their professional names for safety reasons.) She makes thousands of dollars each year from a rotating cast of “finsubs,” (mostly) men with powerful careers who long to relinquish control by sending money, and sometimes full financial access, to “findommes” like her.

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“Disgusting and wrong on so many levels”: Knotts Scary Farm comes under fire over Satanic show controversy 

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Mon, October 02, 2023 00:12:22

Source: Sportskeeda.com.

USA – CALIFORNIA – Knotts Berry Farm, a California theme park, has become the latest target for conservative criticism over an alleged Satanic show. On September 26, notorious anti-LGBTQ and far-right group Libs of TikTok shared a video clip from a stage show held at the park called “Knott’s Scary Farm.”

See more and larger photo’s on: Sportskeeda.com.

The group claimed that children are also allowed to watch the show. However, in the video, Libs of TikTok claimed that the dancers appeared on stage dressed in bondage gear and Satanic costumes while dancing provocatively. Libs of TikTok further indicated that the theme park aimed to corrupt and defile children’s minds.

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Navigating The Delicate Yet Dynamic Universe Of BDSM And Kink With Trauma

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, September 27, 2023 00:02:58
  • – Where kink and trauma connect

Source: Elle.in.

INDIA – From face masks and scented candles to solo date nights, gym memberships, long walks and massages, the self-care movement comes with something for every occasion. Whether it’s the highs of a long-awaited promotion or the lows of a failed relationship, self-care is an admirable choice to make for yourself. An absolute essential, if online mental health movements are anything to go by. But what if we lived in a world where self-care looked more like blindfolds, leather cuffs, mouth gags, ten minutes of spanking or half an hour of bondage? The words kink and self-care may not typically be found together in mainstream dialogues around BDSM or even vanilla sex, but the word ‘trauma’ often pops up.

See more and larger photo’s on: Elle.in.

Perhaps that is exactly why the idea of categorising BDSM as a form of self-care feels increasingly important. You may have heard of the stereotype– only the traumatised choose BDSM. Vanilla sex is supposed to be for well-adjusted people in happy relationships while the assumption remains that only the dissatisfied and damaged would choose rougher forms of sex.

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Nightclub boss is jailed for four years for paying bribes to corrupt Met Police officer ‘Sheriff of Soho’ who turned a blind eye to crime by accepting free holidays, nights with call girls and whipping sessions with a dominatrix

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, September 26, 2023 23:52:30

Source: Dailymail.co.uk.

USA – A nightclub boss who described a corrupt cop as ‘his ace’ and lavished him with bribes including free holidays, whipping sessions with a dominatrix and nights with call girls has been jailed for four years.

See more larger photo’s and video on: Dailymail.co.uk.

In June, corrupt cop Frank Partridge was jailed for seven and a half years after turning a blind eye to fights and allegations of sexual assault at the Soho club in return for fine dining, tailored suits, call girls, hotel stays and house renovation.

Ex-sergeant Partridge, 50, dubbed the ‘The Sheriff of Soho’ was caught out by a video showing him cavorting with a dominatrix at the Cirque Le Soir, owned by Ryan Bishti. 

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Folsom Street Fair celebrates 40 years of bondage, leather and kinky fun (SAN FRANCISCO)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, September 26, 2023 23:38:37

Source: KTVU.com.

USA – SAN FRANCISCO – Angel Adeyoha likes to have a job to do when he’s at the Folsom Street Fair. 

See moro larger photo’s and video on: KTVU.com.

“I really like to have a job at the event.” He says it helps him feel grounded. Now in its 40th year, the world-famous BDSM, kink, leather and fetish gear event has always allowed for the open expression of sexual freedom. 

Adeyoha found this scene in the early nineties, having come up with the leather dyke scene back then. This was pre-internet and pre-smartphone. He says he would find out about kink and fetish parties by looking at the back of alt-weekly newspapers and that’s how he found his community of “hot people.” 

Now he’s the executive director of Folsom Street, which produces the South of Market Folsom Street Fair, and also runs the fetish gear-adjacent ‘Up Your Alley’ held annually in July. 

He says at his first Folsom Street Fair in 1993, he gravitated to the strong sense of volunteerism. “You don’t see that kind of support from larger society.”

 

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‘Trolls say I’ll burn in hell over kinky job – but I’m just trying to make a living'(Dominatrix Kaz B)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, September 26, 2023 23:21:39

WARNING, DISTRESSING CONTENT: EXCLUSIVE: Tired of being attacked by evangelists on social media, Dominatrix Kaz B spoke out after receiving some vile messages seen by this publication

Source: Dailystar.co.uk.

UK – A British dominatrix simply trying to keep afloat during the cost of living crisis is being harassed by religious zealots.

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailystar.co.uk.

Kaz B, who has been in the BDSM world since 2017, has been sent a splurge of rancid hate on social media.

Some anonymous trolls have threatened to rape her while preaching evangelists say she will burn in the eternal “lake of fire”.

She has been targeted in this way for years – but recently she took to Instagram to unleash her frustration.

Writing to her followers, she said: “Unless you are going to pay my bills please do not send me unsolicited messages about ‘Sin.’

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CHET LO SS24 SPARKS A SEXUAL AWAKENING — WITH BDSM

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Tue, September 26, 2023 23:09:06

Tapping the underground’s most coveted erotic art forms: Shunga and Shibari.

Source: Hypebae.com.

UK – LONDON – Chinese-American designer Chet Lo presents his sex-infused Spring Summer 2024 collection at London Fashion Week.

See more and larger photo’s on: Hypebae.com.

Inciting his very own sexual liberation, Lo’s presentation is a love letter to the most repressed aspect of himself. Similar to most people raised in restrictive societies, Lo’s environment was purely sex-negative, with Western ideals of beauty furthering the cognitive dissonance.

“At the time, Western media inundated our culture with a narrow, white, heteronormative ideal of beauty and sexuality, making those who didn’t fit into this minuscule box to feel othered. Simultaneously, Lo was indoctrinated to believe sexual desires were ‘dirty,’ ‘impure’ and a ‘taboo,’ leading him to feel a sense of shame in his natural sexual urges. These factors left Lo feeling desexualised, struggling to feel at home in himself. While representation in the media has since dramatically improved, its impact left Lo with a painful residue.”

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Owner SM Club Clair-Obscur passed away

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sun, September 24, 2023 23:34:07

Source: Fetlife.com/users/2509934(only accessible with a profile)

FRANCE – It has just been announced that Clair-Obscur owner Michel has suddenly passed away. Michel and his club were an icon within the French BDSM world but also far beyond. Although I (Tom Verhoeven) never had the opportunity to know him personally. He was praised for his friendly personality and especially his helpfulness. The scene will miss a great person. He was just 64 years old.

Lots of strength and condolences for Denise, family and friends.

The funeral message on his Fetlife profile. Fetlife members can read this!

Website club: Club-sm-clairobscur.com.

Google Translation:

FRANCE – On vient d’annoncer le décès soudain du propriétaire de Clair-Obscur, Michel. Michel et son club étaient une icône dans le monde du BDSM français mais aussi bien au-delà. Même si moi (Tom Verhoeven) n’ai jamais eu l’occasion de le connaître personnellement. Il a été félicité pour sa personnalité amicale et surtout pour sa serviabilité. La scène manquera à un grand personnage. Il n’avait que 64 ans.

Beaucoup de force et de condoléances à Denise, à sa famille et à ses amis.



10 Best Bdsm Books Reviews In 2023

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, September 20, 2023 01:21:00

Source: Factschronicle.com.

WORLDWIDE – Have you been searching for the best bdsm books for your needs? You are at the right place. We recognize that amidst so many choices in the market, it can be perplexing and confusing to make the right pick.

The number 1 from the list.

This article will help you choose the right bdsm books with more ease. We have taken into consideration the varied needs and wants of all segments of consumers to give you the perfect guide on how to pick the right product. So that you can shop worry-free!

See the list:

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‘Amanda Holden took me to a dominatrix – I got whipped and went home’

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, September 20, 2023 01:08:06

EXCLUSIVE: Amanda Holden and TV historian Dan Jones have been working on a new show titled Sex: A Bonkers History and they certainly had fun together whilst filming

Source: Dailystar.co.uk.

UK – Amanda Holden and TV historian Dan Jones have been filming Sky HISTORY’s Sex: A Bonkers History together.

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailystar.co.uk.

But things weren’t all smooth sailing as when they paid a visit to a dominatrix, for research purposes, Dan was left hurt.

Speaking at the screening of the second episode last night at the Hamyard Hotel, the pair revealed the ins and outs of filming.

Amanda and Dan explained the story together, which left Dan rather red-faced.

The BGT judge said: “We’re both parents and there was just one afternoon where we were talking to this dominatrix and it was primarily for me the scene and we decided that we needed Dan as we needed a subject for the lady.

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