Source: EU.usatoday.com
USA – TOPANGA, Calif. − A dominatrix in lingerie draws three circles on the board. Inside each, she writes the following words: “power,” “truth” and “pain.”

Her class of 13 − mostly young professionals − nod and jot down notes throughout her lesson. The topic? “How to find your power,” the soft-spoken sex expert known as Colette Pervette tells them.
And what better way to do that, she adds, than “through the lens of kink or BDSM“?
The class on dating, power dynamics and, yes, kinky sex served as one of several courses offered at the first-ever, weekend-long Renew Dating Bootcamp, helmed by dating coach and “Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart” author Amy Chan. During her three-hour lesson at a Spanish-Mediterranean villa just outside Los Angeles, Pervette described lessons from the world of BDSM she says everyone can apply to their dating lives, whether or not they’re into that kind of sex.
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