And it’s a lot wilder than merely holding off on the hanky panky — there’s still a show of sorts, just no grand finale.
While it may seem like an old-fashioned, even medieval concept — clunky metal chastity belts have been around longer than any of us — the quaint quirk has experienced a revival in recent years.
According to data shared by C4S, interest in chastity sex toys surged by 193% since 2020, with a 71% increase in 2024 alone.
UK – POWERHOUSE activist, feminist and dominatrix Chidera Eggerue joined ‘We Need To Talk’ podcast to reveal all the juiciest details of making money as ‘Goddess Gina’.
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She joined host Paul C. Brunson to explain how she’s become so successful in the sex work industry despite not bedding her clients.
Paul broached the subject candidly, admitting: “I always, ignorantly, associated being a dominatrix with sex or BDSM, but you haven’t had sex in four years.
“So can you explain, what is BDSM?”
Chidera replied: “BDSM is all about exploring power dynamics between yourself and consenting partners.
“Consent is the overarching key word in all of this, everything is entirely consensual and it’s about exploring kink in a way that feels safe.”
CANADA – TORONTO – York University says Alan Young, a lawyer and legal scholar known for leading the challenge of Canada’s prostitution laws before the country’s top court, has died at age 69.
The university’s Osgoode Hall Law School says Young’s death on Saturday is a “profound loss” for the legal profession.
Young was a central figure in a landmark Supreme Court case that struck down Canada’s prostitution laws as unconstitutional in 2013 and forced the federal government to revise the legislation
USA – A golden shower may sound like a fancy version of an everything shower—but it’s actually the rare kind of shower that often happens outside of the bathroom. And it’s also the type of shower designed to bring you pleasure, rather than deep-cleaning.
A golden shower involves “the erotic enjoyment of urine,” says Carol Queen, PhD, a sexologist and sociologist, a sex educator with Good Vibes, and co-author of The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Great Sex for Everyone. The handful of recent media depictions of golden showers have shown the act as being pretty out there. But despite what those viral You and Industry golden shower episodes may imply, it’s “a pretty common kink, and quite safe and easy to do,” according to Gigi Engle, a COSRT-certified sex and relationship psychotherapist and resident intimacy expert at dating app 3Fun.
And if you’re curious about it, you’re not alone. At least 8 percent of heterosexual women, 19 percent of heterosexual men, 20 percent of lesbian and bisexual women, and 40 percent of gay and bisexual men report having fantasized about pee play before, according to one 2020 survey of more than 4,000 Americans published in Tell Me What You Want by internationally recognized sex educator Justin Lehmiller, PhD.
USA – We are delighted to introduce you to Sex Confidential, a new podcast community for those who want to enhance their sex lives and explore the new sexual revolution.
The Sex Confidential podcast is about to launch with weekly episodes that are about to make a big impact on your listening habits.
It is hosted by Sophie Cohen, who is the creative genius behind erotic performance group House of Vixens, as well as a filmmaker, performer, educator, coach and guru of all things erotic. She will be speaking to leading names from a range of fields to hear their inspiring stories and transformative ideas.
The show will be backed up by a Sex Confidential substack to help build an interactive community.
Free subscribers an early listen to each show, behind-the-scenes stories, interviews, features, photos and clips.
Paying subscribers will also have access to ‘Sophie’s Room’, our host’s personal newsletter in which she’ll answer your questions, as well as give an intimate glimpse into her work.
Pup play is a role-playing game in which humans adopt canine characteristics and behaviours: wearing dog masks, barking, crawling on all fours, drinking from a bowl, play-fighting with other pups and engaging in other dog-like activities.
While still a niche subculture, its visibility is growing, particularly among gay, bisexual, transgender and queer (GBTQ) men. Pup play has its roots in BDSM (bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadomasochism) and particularly the leather community, but it is more a social and community-building activity than a sexual practice.
Olivier Ferlatte, a professor in the School of Public Health at Université de Montréal and a mental health researcher specializing in LGBTQ+ communities, and his colleague Phillip Joy from Mount Saint Vincent University looked at the benefits of pup play for the body image of its practitioners.
USA – The former news anchor flaunted her curvy figure in a Catwoman outfit as she posted a series of images in a “Fall photo dump” on Instagram Sunday.
UK – LONDON – London is all about adult entertainment, and at the top of all are the captivating dominatrix escorts. These exquisite women are skilled in the art of BDSM for men seeking an adventure.
Dominatrix escorts are talented women experienced in the art of domination and submission. They offer a unique service that includes activities like bondage, discipline, humiliation, submission, and domination. Beyond beauty, these girls possess an exceptional intellect. They have an in-depth understanding of the human psyche, enabling them to manipulate the minds and bodies of their clients for optimal results.
The show follows Tiff, a psychology student in New York, who is moonlighting as a dominatrix and enlists her broke gay best friend Pete from high school as her assistant.
Tiff, who has been banned from the dungeon community for not following the rules, struggles to balance work, school and her personal life as she introduces Pete to the world of sadomasochism and bonding.
While striving to keep her work under wraps, she is trying to hold off an infatuated classmate and help Pete – an aspiring comedian with crippling stage fright – deal with the new environment.
Tiff by day and Mistress May by night, she can’t seem to shake off her German house slave who is developing an uneasy interest in her. He stays in the background clad in a gimp mask and white apron, cleans her house and ends every sentence with “Yes, Mistress”.
THE NETHERLANDS - HEEMSKERK - Everyone has that phase in life when everything seems to be going wrong.
On Thursday, November 14, I (Tom Verhoeven) delivered my 30-year-old autistic son to the psychiatric hospital in Bakkum after an anxious car ride during a very intense, terrifying psychosis.
After 4 months of struggle with small ups and many downs, things really didn't work anymore and he posed a danger to himself and those around him.
So Thursday evening my wife and I were crying like a little child.
On Wednesday my mother received bad news: cancer were found in her lymph nodes. So go to the AVL (Amsterdam Cancer Hospital) on Monday afternoon to find out what her chances are.
My 34-year-old son-in-law has esophageal cancer and it would be a miracle if he makes it to New Year's Eve. So the sadness of those two hurts us.
Finally, I am still waiting for a call from the pain clinic because of the pain in my left ball and lower back where, according to the ultrasound, there is a damaged nerve.
So in between all the hustle and bustle, take a lot of painkillers and lie down a lot.
That is why BDSM Radio is at a very low level. Well, and real BDSM is something I can only dream of or longingly watch on Fetlife in the hope that the storm will pass soon.
I console myself with the thought that there are people who have many more disasters and that I have to be strong for my family and mothers. Plus all the lovely people who help us.
So in the near future there will be an old BDSM Radio band playing again between Sundays 8-10 p.m.(CET) and Wednesdays 9-11 p.m.(CET) on https://www.mixcloud.com/live/BDSMradioEU/.
Lindy Myles, 36, from Oklahoma, volunteered in libraries as a teenager and continued to work in them for 12 years as an adult, even completing a Masters in Library Science.
But soon the bookworm realised she was ‘no longer happy’ in the public library sector and decided to take on a ‘new challenge’.
INDIA – The pomegranate is indubitably the favourite fruit in art history. A treasury of symbolism that vibrates power, passion, it has been used as a metaphor for femininity, death, desire and even cannibalism as a form of romance – to offer oneself (literally) for the sustenance of your beloved. Some have also called it the perfect fruit for horror. Throughout history food is employed in art, literature & film as reliable allegories for the human body, life & mortality. Through visual and textual surrealism, this parallel between the two has inconspicuously expanded our understanding of existence and our place in the world.
Drawing upon the same visceral connection, ‘Edibles’ is a triptych that intersects two very similar instincts of humanity: hunger and desire. The photo series by artist duo Rhea and Mayank was produced under the mentorship of Apurva Kulkarni and presented at his second series of online workshop titled ‘Everyday Objects Shriek Aloud’. Designed to honour surrealism’s centenary, Edibles transforms ordinary items into provocative symbols.
USA – This may seem odd coming from someone with this job. But I’m not particularly kinky. I don’t need the costumes or the whips and the chains in my sex life. I’m just happy to be there and hope we can both enjoy ourselves. I think that context is needed for my review of “Master of Slaves ⛓🖤” (@femdomalexxxvip), who as you can probably guess, is quite a bit more toward the whips and chains side of things than myself. Beyond that even. I do not wish to be pegged, whipped, sniff anyone’s shoes or be clamped in a cock cage (something I didn’t know existed until just recently), but I will evaluate the mistress as objectively as I can in the headspace of someone who does.
Being a Domme online seems like a difficult task. Much of the stuff she prides herself in would require her physical presence, but she navigates the virtual Domme realm expertly. It’s one thing to torture a “little fucking bitch” when you’re in the room with him, but Alexandra makes a damn convincing pitch that you should torture yourself. Every time she posts she has a new sexy outfit on, often leather, and a new degrading hypothetical for your dirty mind to explore. From licking her ass on the nice end, to being whipped or pegged on the meaner end, and licking her armpits or shoes on the downright strange end. I can imagine doing something like that to get to the sweeter parts of her body, but apparently you have to be a good little sub to even deserve an armpit licking. One of my favorite posts has her posing her ass in stilettos with the tantalizing question; “What would you suck first, my heel or my ass?”. Seems like an easy question to me, but I’m sure some would choose the heels. Her chosen pronouns seem to be queen/goddess, which I would call her without even needing to be whipped. Her content is very strap-on heavy, a great variety of size (mostly pretty big) and material for you to suck and take up your hoop. She does a great job as a Domme, but if you don’t want a giant leather cock in your ass, I might look elsewhere. But I can’t imagine a better page if all that is your speed. I’m including this screenshot with no context (does it need any) because it made me smile amongst the other posts and messages that kind of hurt my feelings. It’s criminal she only got $15 in tips for that.
CUBA – ‘Felix runs a weekly class teaching the art of Japanese bondage in Havana. It was his idea to have Katy smoking a cigar. They’re part of a subculture most foreigners don’t know exists’
Ibecame interested in Cuba 30 years ago and made numerous visits over the years, some of them photography related. I never showed any of that early work: the country has been photographed so much it was hard to find a new voice. But a few years ago, I started seeing things I’d not seen before – subcultures that most foreigners don’t even know exist.
The perception of Cuba – mostly because of the communist regime – is that it’s very normative. I remember being told that it was illegal in some Soviet countries to listen to rock’n’roll or wear jeans. Foreigners think that in Cuba there’s no personal expression and that everything is bland and uniform. And it’s not true.
USA – FLORIDA – The attack is said to have taken place in Ormond-by-the-Sea, Florida, with the victim leaving behind a trail of blood after running down a road to wave down a deputy on Wednesday night
The attack is said to have taken place in Ormond-by-the-Sea, Florida, with the victim leaving behind a trail of blood after running down a road to wave down a deputy on Wednesday night. According to an arrest affidavit from the Volusia County Sheriff’s Office the man was described as shirtless and ‘frantic’ while yelling at passing cars.
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