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Dominatrix gives up whipping men for £250 an hour – to help them quit sex addiction

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, February 08, 2020 03:25:07

Source: Mirror.co.uk.

UK – EXCLUSIVE Francesca Freeman would inflict pain on doctors, bankers and lawyers earning up to £3,000 a week but having tormented more than 1,000 willing men, she has become a sex therapist

High-heeled dominatrix Francesca Freeman made a decent living out of lashing men – but now has hung up her whips to have a crack at a new job.

Francesca would charge £250 an hour to inflict excruciating pain on eager, submissive clients.

Kinky regulars included doctors, bankers and lawyers.

In tight black latex, Francesca made them plead for her to walk all over them.

She blindfolded them and beat them with ­cat-o’-nine-tails, canes, whips and paddles.

And they lapped it up. Business was good for Francesca, who earned up to £3,000 a week and made the most of it with a lavish lifestyle.

Satisfied clients, who knew her as Angelica Andrew, showered her with gifts such as £3,500 Ralph Lauren bags and Louis Vuitton boots.

One man flew her business class to St Lucia for a three-day session and paid her with a £16,000 BMW.

As well as physical punishment, Francesca would set the men strict homework –­ ­ordering them to send her raunchy pics of themselves while at work.

One client, a surgeon, sent rude snaps to her between performing operations.

But after 15 years of sadistic entertaining, Francesca decided to knock it on the head.

Having tormented more than 1,000 willing men, she has become a sex therapist.

Today she is more likely to straighten out men’s kinks rather than indulge them.

It was a painful episode in her own life that made her seek a fresh path.

Francesca had a romance with a man she met in a pub in the summer of 2017.

He was the love of her life but he split up with her and it broke her heart.

She recalled: “I was devastated and completely broken when he left me and I realised the men who came to see me were in pain too.

“I was masking their pain. I decided I wanted to really help them and help myself too. And that wasn’t hitting men with a whip.

“I look back now and think thank goodness I had this spiritual ­­awakening or I could have ended up in prison.

“The things I was doing to these men were becoming increasingly extreme and could’ve easily gone wrong.”

As a life coach, Francesca, 56, a single mum with an eight-year-old son, is helping men with kinky fetishes and submissive tendencies beat their sex addictions.

She said: “I had an ­incredible lifestyle as a high-class dominatrix and thought I was really happy.

“But after I was dumped I was heartbroken and fell into depression. I carried on working but realised I was taking out my anger and hurt on the men who came to see me. I thought ‘what am I doing? This is mad.’

“I’d always known that the men who came to see me were in emotional pain but I didn’t care about that.

“I didn’t care about the pain I was causing them either.

“At some point I began ­talking to my ­clients and ­­realised they were seeking ­escapism with me because of their ­traumatic pasts.

“It was a cycle of abuse I needed to stop.

“I wasn’t ­helping them or myself, so I ­decided to quit and re-train to help men.”

She found many of her clients were vulnerable and some were simply trying to escape the monotony of their daily lives.

She said: “I didn’t want to carry that on and vowed to help them battle their demons and sex ­­addictions.

“Men and ­women tend to think their ­masochistic tendencies are wired into their core but they’re usually a result of past trauma.

“Leaving the industry was an easy decision and I cried with disgust at the end of my last session.”

Francesca, who has not had sex with any of her ­former clients, sold all her possessions and spent a month at a retreat in South Goa, India, learning meditation, yoga and ­healthier ways to combat trauma.

Back in the UK she moved to a rented two-bed bungalow, converted a room into a ­studio and set up life coaching ­business Mind Body Men.

It aims to “empower and release men from stress” and steer them from the darker side of the sex ­industry for instant gratification.

Her one-on-one sessions for men include life coaching, guided meditation, yoga and massage.

She offers life coaching ­sessions for women – though none of her female clients are sex addicts or have masochistic tendencies. And she plans to train in hypnotherapy.

Her income has taken a hit. The rates are £80 an hour instead of £250 for S&M sessions.

Flash cars and holidays have been replaced by a ­modest Fiat Punto and gentle family breaks.

Francesca, of Milton Keynes, Bucks, says: “My life isn’t about money any more.

Instead of weeks in the sun while staying in all-inclusive ­hotels, I’ll take my son ­camping in Wales.”

Old clients still beg her for ­dominatrix sessions but she refuses them.

She said: “I’ve helped 30 men fight sex addictions and kinks, ­including five previous clients. I’m really proud of that.

“Focusing on my son and business is so much more rewarding.

“The men I’ve helped recently thanked me so much for helping them.

“They said I’ve changed their lives for the better.”

Francesca Freeman quit sex addiction
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How Brexit and a French mother-in-law led a British dominatrix to Paris

BDSMradio.EU News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, February 08, 2020 03:11:00

Source: Thelocal.fr.

PARIS/UK – ‘British guys tend to be quite reserved – until you get them behind closed doors and then all hell breaks loose – while French guys are much more open about being into fetish and kink.’ The words of a British dominatrix who has set up shop in Paris.

Lady Bellatrix has been operating in central Paris for about 18 months since moving from the UK and has become one of the most high profile international dominatrices operating on the French scene.

And France can thank Brexit and her French mother-in-law for her arrival on these shores.

Lady Bellatrix, who was born in Canada but moved to Britain and has British citizenship, is now something of a star of the fetish scene and charges €450 for a 90 minute appointment.

Her clientele is international – she saw people from 11 different countries last year – but Brits and of course French men are heavily represented.

She said: “Being in Paris is great because of course a lot of people travel here, so I have regular clients who come here from the UK a few times a year on business and come and see me too.

“I have people who have travelled from Kuwait and Dubai to see me after finding my videos online, and of course I have a lot of French clients.”

For French men the requirements include – beside paying the hefty fee and being prepared to worship at the feet of Lady Bellatrix – speaking English.

She said: “I’m learning French and I’m getting more confident so now I do the odd session in French but I find it easier to speak English.

“I have private tutor sessions with a French man who is a male dom, so that’s handy for me learning the vocabulary I need for my work, a well as the basic French grammar.”

Despite her dual nationality, Lady Bellatrix markets herself very much as British “the stern British mistress is very popular”.

She trained in her craft with a British dominatrix and feels her style is very British.

She said: “I’m much more stern and strict than dommes in the USA or Canada and I do a lot more corporal punishment – that’s really popular with British guys, more so than any other nationality and it’s a big part of the scene in the UK.

“I find that British guys tend to be more reserved – on the surface at least – but French men are more open about what they’re in to.

“One of my British friends had her dungeon next to the Bluewater Shopping Centre in Kent and she always had a huge spike in business in December, as men told their wives they were off Christmas shopping but went to visit her instead.

“But December is usually a good month for me as well, people are in a party mood and more likely to treat themselves – we all tend to get a little treat for ourselves as well as buying presents for other people.”

Although she enjoyed her time in Britain, it was Brexit that persuaded her to make the move to France.

She said: “I was married to a French guy so visited my mother-in-law in Paris anyway.

“I used to do tours quite regularly in France – advertising in advance that I was going to be there for a month – and then I would go and visit my mother-in-law afterwards.

“I stayed close with her even after my husband and I split up and she was very accepting.

“I was spending several months of the year in Paris and I knew I wanted to carry on spending time here, so when Brexit happened I decided to make the move permanently.”

And it was a good move, as she is now a star of the fetish scene, with 48,000 followers on Twitter and hundreds of subscribers to her videos.

She divides her time roughly 50/50 between performances on camera – some pre-recorded videos and some live on webcam – and ‘real time’ visits from devoted slaves.

People who want to visit – and it is strictly by advance booking only with a non-refundable deposit – can indulge in a variety of activities including foot fetishism, bondage, humiliation, latex, corporal punishment or cleaning her apartment.

There are also some more extreme activities on offer. She said: “I think the cane is my favourite – it’s so very British.”

And being British seems to offer a distinct advantage in the industry.

“I did a performance on camera about Brexit that was really popular with French guys. And I sometimes incorporate current affairs into my performances – the other day I told a slave ‘Do not disrespect your queen – look what happened to Prince Harry!”

So, Brexit paperwork permitting, she’s here to stay and has plans to expand into a bigger dungeon.

And – in a sign that she’s truly embracing the French way of life – she’s even joined a union.

Brexit Lady Bellatrix
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Bondage courses, pleasure rooms and tantric massages: Inside Australia’s top nudist retreat and its answer to the Playboy Mansion dubbed ‘The Cave’

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, February 08, 2020 02:47:45
  •  Noosa nudist retreat touted as Australia’s answer to the Playboy Mansion
  •  The venue is run by a 70-year-old man and features bondage courses
  •  He also offers tantric massages and pleasure rooms, including ‘The Cave’
  • The Cave features a spa, massage beds and can be rented by multiple couples

Source: Dailymail.co.uk.

AUSTRALIA – A nudist retreat primarily used by couples over the age of 50 has been touted as Australia’s answer to the Playboy Mansion.

Rainer Mueckenberger runs the Noosa Edge Paradise facility, which is hidden in plain sight in holiday haven of Noosa, on the Sunshine Coast.

The 70-year-old naturist offers bondage courses, tantric massages and pleasure rooms for his guests, as well as an onsite gym.

Romantic rock cave spa treatments for couples can also be purchased separately in ‘The Cave’ where people have the option of nestling into ceiling-high bubbles.

The Cave shares similarities with the original Playboy Mansion cave spa, which lit up at night and was often used for Hugh Hefner’s infamous parties. 

Mr Mueckenberger believes he has created an oasis where people, particularly couples who are later in life, can reconnect with their sensual sides and explore their sexual curiosities.  

‘Here you can be free of your restrictions,’ he told Sunshine Coast Daily. 

He said plenty of his clients are working professionals who feel they can come inside and drop their inhibitions.

‘They want to drop their police uniform or their building uniform,’ he said. ‘You drop all your clothes and we are all the same.’

Mr Mueckenberger previously told StartsAt60 the general assumption when he discusses his facility is that it hosts swingers events.

‘I have a naturist retreat, I don’t promote swingers parties but if you ring up and explain you want to rent The Cave for the night, I will book that,’ he said.

In some cases, The Cave has been hired by more than one couple in a night.

‘People want to come here to explore and play,’ he said. ‘If they’ve been married for a certain amount of years, they might become too shy to actually talk about their fantasies and fetishes. 

Room prices start at about $280 per night and go up to $400 per night, but services come at an extra cost.

A specially designed BDSM room stocked with chains, gags, ropes, a suspension cross, whipping benches and floggers are also available for an additional cost.

With enough notice, the venue can also make experienced dominatrix’s available.  

The experiences are open to anybody over the age of 18, but Mr Mueckenberger previously said most of his clients were in their 50s or 60s. 

Nosa Edge Paradise BDSM
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Bow down! The No. 1 money secret dominatrixes know — and you should too

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, February 08, 2020 01:59:18

Plus, what the world of BDSM can teach you about getting ahead at work

Source: Marketwatch.com.

Whip your finances into shape.

When money writer Lindsay Goldwert began interviewing dominatrixes for her new book, “Bow Down: Lessons From Dominatrixes on How to Get Everything You Want,” she “thought it would be a fun idea, ‘dominatrixes whip me into shape,’” she tells MarketWatch.

(A professional dominatrix, according to the book, is someone “educated in BDSM technique (bondage, discipline, sadomasochism) who safely, ethically and skillfully manifests her client’s kinky fantasies. A “true dominatrix deeply enjoys the feeling of exerting power and control.”)

But, Goldwert adds, the book “ended up being a much more nuanced examination of what it means to ask for what you want and how to ask for it in the workplace and also from ourselves.” Indeed, these professional dominatrixes taught Goldwert a ton about power — of her words, mind, body, desire — as well as key money and career lessons. Here are four lessons from dominatrixes that could change the way you approach your finances and career.

Make your money “serve you”

When I asked Goldwert the No. 1 money lesson she learned from these dominatrix interviews, she told me this: Your purchases and lifestyle should be “serving you.”

“Outside of our bills, our discretionary income is a tool to get us to our goals. And yet, we spend our money to please other people’s expectations of how we should live our lives. This can mean going out for friends’ fancy birthday dinners, attending destination weddings, or buying or leasing a fancier model car. I started to think about all my purchases and the purpose they serve. And if they don’t serve a purpose that will make my life better, I try my hardest to avoid making them. Who is this purchase for? How will it help me? There needs to be an answer,” Goldwert explains.

“Only we know what we need; we can’t let others dictate it for us,” she adds

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Create a “personal code of conduct” to find out if your job is “serving you”

“I was very inspired by the idea of having a personal code of conduct. Your company does, why shouldn’t you? This can help you figure out if your job is serving you or if you’re serving your job,” she explains, laying out these examples:

  • I deserve to be paid on time
  • I deserve to be spoken to with respect
  • I deserve to know what’s expected of me
  • I need to be able to take my vacation days

“If your workplace or boss continually violates your code of conduct, you may want to think about whether or not you want to work there,” Goldwert adds.

Find your “position of power” when asking for a raise

“Dommes taught me a lot about power dynamics. No one is in a position of power when they’re asking for a raise. However, if you’re doing a good job (and you have the data to back it up), you’re in more of a position of power than you realize. After all, if you leave, your boss will have to find a replacement, train that person, and it will likely be a huge inconvenience for her. So you should go in there not from a position hoping you get a raise but from the stance of raising yourself in her eyes so that it becomes a conversation about keeping you rather than can they keep you happy for a job well done,” Goldwert explains.

Make a “safe space” to talk about money with your partner

“Dominatrixes are communication ninjas. Every aspect of what they do in a session is negotiated beforehand. Every aspect is consensual. Everyone needs to know what will and can happen in a session so no one gets emotionally or physically hurt and everyone will have fun. There’s no room for mixed signals, passive aggression, or not being sure what the other person wants or can handle. How can this be sexy? Well, there’s freedom and joy when you understand how much you can do within boundaries,” says Goldwert.

This is a lesson, she says, that you can apply to how you talk to your partner about money. “Couples cannot be afraid to talk about their finances in detail. Yes, it may feel like torture, there may be shame and fear … A lack of financial communication between couples is just as damaging as a lack of sexual communication. Put your cards on the table early, tell the other that they’re in a safe space to share their financial truths and fears, and then you both can make plans for a future that you can live, love, and grow with,” Goldwert explains.

When money writer Lindsay Goldwert began interviewing dominatrixes for her new book, “Bow Down: Lessons From Dominatrixes on How to Get Everything You Want,”


Unique experiment sees Belgian researchers going to BDSM club to break taboo

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, February 08, 2020 01:45:22

Source: Brusselstimes.com.

BELGIUM – The University of Antwerp wants to break the taboo on BDSM, and conducted a unique experiment in a fetish club in Flanders, where researchers measured the biological processes of participants.

As a part of the study, researchers of the university went to a fetish club over the course of 12 evenings, to measure and analyse the pain and pleasure that are associated with BDSM, which in full stands for Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), and Sadism and Masochism (SM).

In 2017, a survey, also by the University of Antwerp, among 1028 Flemish respondents revealed that almost half (46.8%) of them had engaged in a BDSM activity at least once before.

For this study, the researchers mapped out the biological mechanisms at play during the BDSM sessions of 35 experienced couples who volunteered to be studied, using questionnaires, blood samples, algometers (to measure the pain threshold), GSR sensors (to monitor stress) and heart rate monitors. Several observers also methodically kept track of the interactions during the sessions.

“This really is the first study of its kind in the world. For our research, we worked closely with Club 78, a BDSM association in the municipality of Ham in the province of Limburg,” said Professor Manuel Morrens, who carried out the research together with Elise Wuyts, a psychiatric assistant who supervised the research, according to the university.

“We see a significant increase in both stress and pleasure hormones for the submissive BDSM partners,” said Wuyts, reports VRT. “The pleasure reaction can even be linked to the stress reaction,” she added.

The positive stress responses can be compared to what is known as the ‘runner’s high’, the rush of happiness due to the release of a flood of endorphins that runners can experience during prolonged exertion.

“In both cases, the body produces endocannabinoids,” said Wuyts. She compares the responses to watching horror movies or riding a rollercoaster. However, for practitioners of BDSM, the pleasure of intimacy or sexuality increases that feeling even more.

For the dominant BDSM-practitioners, the pleasure response was mainly linked to power play, which revolves around a power imbalance, and less so to pain play, in which pain is inflicted on the submissive participant, according to the research.

The result of the study will be published in the academic Journal of Sexual Medicine, but the researchers aim to share the results of the study with as many people as possible to break the taboo that still surrounds BDSM.

“For a long time, engaging in BDSM was classified as a sexual deviation, and even a disorder,” said Morrens. “In fact, the psychiatric diagnostic manual (DSM-5) still describes BDSM as a ‘diagnosis’, which means practitioners often still face prejudice,” he added.

“Based on biological factors, we have now been able to demonstrate that there is no reason to make BDSM a pathology that needs to be treated. It is not a psychological abnormality, but a normal expression of intimacy or sexuality,” said Wuyts.

Maïthé Chini
The Brussels Times

Unique experiment sees Belgian researchers going to BDSM club to break taboo
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Relationship expert reveals five of the biggest sexual taboos we should be embracing today – including bondage and reading erotica

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, November 20, 2019 03:57:48

*Annabelle Knight has shared her advice when it comes to sexual taboos *Among the list are bondage, erotica, sex toys, role swapping and adult shopping *Sex expert added having a caring and considerate conversation was important

Source: Dailymail.co.uk

UK – A sexpert has revealed the sexual trends that are no longer taboos today and how best to embrace them.

The British relationship expert Annabelle Knight, from Lovehoney,  has shone a light on how bondage, erotica, sex toys, anal play, role swapping and adult shopping can all have a valuable place in a healthy relationship.

As the on-going conversation around sex continues, Annabelle also added that having a caring and considerate conversation about the sexual experience was also advisable.

Here she reveals to FEMAIL the five biggest taboos we should be welcoming….

BDSM (the act of using Bondage-Discipline, Dominance-Submission and Sadomasochism in sexual encounters), used to be the stuff of underground clubs or fetish societies and was hidden away from mainstream sex. 

Nowadays including bondage in your sexual repertoire is, for lots of people, part and parcel of a healthy and happy sex life.

From light bondage, such as using masks for sensory deprivation to spanking, and restraint play. Whatever your level of experience there’s always a way you can dabble in BDSM fun. 

Using a necktie or scarf to limit your partner’s sight can work wonders, as doing this can heighten their other senses, and make them more sensitive to sensual touch. This results in a more intense, and more often, satisfying sexual experience. 

There are specialised bondage kits out there for every experience level such as this red hot bondage kit, which includes a little bit of everything to get you started. 

However, when incorporating bondage into your life make sure you have agreed your boundaries and decided on a safe word, to ensure that play is both safe and consensual. 

2. Erotica

In days gone by erotic literature was often met with raised eyebrows. When Lady Chatterley’s Lover was published, it was the subject of a watershed obscenity trial against the publisher Penguin Books. 

But now, thanks to authors like Jilly Cooper, Sylvia Day, and E.L James, erotic fiction has become so mainstream that you can easily find these books on the shop floor of most bookstores. 

Erotic fiction allows people to live out their fantasies through fiction, as well as garnering new ideas for the bedroom. Women that read erotic fiction report enjoying seventy-four percent more sex than women who do not. 

As a couple, reading erotic fiction together can be a huge turn on, and, in a way can act as foreplay in itself. There are tonnes of great stuff out there; literotica.com offers a plethora of free erotic fiction with authors uploading new stories daily. 

For something that bridges the gap between erotic fiction and women’s literature try The Endless Autumn, cited as being a mix of Fifty Shades of Grey and Bridget Jones’s Diary, it has a great blend of story and sex. 

3. Couples sex toys

According to Lovehoney’s sexual Happiness Survey over two-thirds of us believe that sex plays an important role in our overall happiness, which is why more and more people are expanding their sexual repertoire with sex toys. 

For many, sex toys are seen as something to be enjoyed during solo sex, but increasingly couples are turning to sex toys to enhance their sex lives. 

Vibrating love rings are my most recommended couples toys as they have erection-enhancing properties and a plethora of benefits including additional external clitoral stimulation, which is extremely important for female pleasure and orgasm. 

4. Anal play

In some circles the act of anal play is still very much taboo, however it’s becoming a more widely accepted sexual practice. 

In the nineties around twenty-five percent of people had tried anal, but that figure had shot up to around forty percent by 2009. 

The benefits of anal play are vast, not only could you achieve an entirely different type of orgasm, anal sex is also pregnancy risk free and, for those with medical problems such as Vaginismus, (where the vaginal canal closes through muscle spasms), anal play allows for intimate penetration, without discomfort or pain.

Proper anal play is extremely important – make sure to bathe beforehand and ensure you apply a good quality anal lubricant often during play. 

It’s very important to take things slowly – I’d recommend using a finger or a slimline sex toy to prepare your anus before penetration.

5. Role swapping

Nowadays we are far more accepting of straying away from traditional gender roles in the bedroom. 

Pegging is increasing in popularity among heterosexual couples; breaking the taboo is seen as incredibly sexy and can increase intimacy levels both sexually and emotionally. 

Pegging, or strap on play is where the male partner is penetrated by the female partner, through the use of a harness and strap on. 

A couple of years ago almost half of couples asked had no idea what pegging was, however, since then sales of strap ons and pegging sets have risen by almost 200 per cent according to Lovehoney. 

Reversing roles can be hugely empowering and as a result an even bigger turn on. For anyone wishing to try it I’d recommend using plenty of anal lubricant and a strap on set with graduating dildos that allow for progression play.  

One taboo that should never be broken…consent 

Reluctance play is something that lots of couples enjoy- however it should always be consensual. 

Sex is an on-going conversation with whoever is involved. If at any point someone changes their mind, then play should cease. 

Having a caring and considerate conversation about the experience after is also advisable as proper sexual aftercare is very important for a happy and healthy sex life.

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Christina Aguilera displays her curves in a bondage inspired bodysuit and thigh high boots as she takes her world tour to Wembley Arena

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, November 20, 2019 03:13:40

Source: Dailymail.co.uk.

UK – She’s in the midst of a world tour in support of her eighth studio album, Liberation.

And Christina Aguilera brought The X Tour to Wembley Arena in London on Saturday night, delivering a show-stopping performance for her fans in the capital.

The singer, 38, displayed her curves in a bondage inspired bodysuit and thigh high boots as she belted out her tunes both new and old.

Christina’s daring stage costume comprised a long sleeve red and black leotard adorned with leather straps and silver chains hooked up to a choker necklace.

For the duration of her performance, the singer’s platinum locks were secured up high in a slicked-back ponytail, which had been crimped for maximum volume.

Elsewhere, Christina donned a glittering black and gold leotard and coordinating chaps. 

The singing sensation later switched into a shimmering black mac and wet look thigh high boots.

Elsewhere, she commanded attention in a daring metallic bodysuit, which featured nude paneling on the right hand side of the bodice.

The quirky number was set off with a pair of lace up thigh-high boots and the look also included a gravity defying collar.

Diamante embellishment on the bodice drew attention to her cleavage, giving the attire some added glamour.

Platinum singer-songwriter Christina a has added a second London date to her first U.K. tour in thirteen years.

The vocal powerhouse is bringing The X Tour to Glasgow, London, Manchester and Birmingham this November. Tickets are available now at LiveNation.co.uk.

Last month, Christina became emotional when she accepted an award from a domestic violence shelter last week.

The star was honored with the Community Hero award from Nevada’s The Shade Tree, and tearfully recounted her own past with domestic violence during her speech.

The superstar has opened up in the past about the abuse she, her mother and her sister endured at the hands of her father, becoming a role model for domestic violence survivors. 

‘It’s just disgusting and it happens far too much to people that we do love,’ said the Beautiful hitmaker during her moving speech.

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The End from The BDSMradio.EU 24/7 Music Stream

BDSMradio.EU News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sun, November 10, 2019 02:20:17

Source: BDSMradio.EU 

HEEMSKERK - The end of the 24/7 radiostream is coming fast. Currently only the emergency stream is running before the candle really goes out.

A bag full of reasons that I have to put an end to the 24/7 stream.

In particular, the costs.. Only the authorrights costs 84 euros per month and then the costs for websites, stream and equipment. That while my income collapsed with more than 700 euros a month due to my illnesses. Plus that additional income is rather difficult at the social unsurance company and even donations that do not get me out of the costs.

Come to health! My energy bucket is empty much faster than in the time that I worked. Even now that I have been rejected I have relatively less time for the radio hobby than in my working life unfortunately!

Updating tracks for the 24/7 music stream also took quite a lot of time, so the other radio tasks were left behind.

Now that more time and money is released, BDSM Radio is going back to the early days. So that i presented programs and info!

Once the equipment has been repaired, it can take place again. As soon as the time comes? I scream it from the rooftops !!

For music lovers, I will continue to add music via Spotify and YouTube so that you can still listen to nonstop music for many days!

Reactions and tips are always welcome!

Greetings and a lot of BDSM fun!

Tom Verhoeven bdsmradioeu@hotmail.com


He ran a sex fetish club in Miami. Now, he’s going to prison for murder

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, November 09, 2019 01:44:43

Source: Miamiherald.com

USA – MIAMI – Three years ago, Luis Moya was opening Hammer & Nails, a Miami sex fetish club that featured a dungeon, cages and electric-shock equipment.

On Friday, he sat handcuffed in a different setting — in a courtroom, wearing an orange jumpsuit, facing the family of Ana Rosa Moreno, his ex-roommate whom he strangled to death.

“The simple fact that I can no longer call her or text her to tell her I love her hurts me so much,” Wendy Moreno, her sister, told the court.

She called him “a monster who decided to end her life for selfish reasons.”

Moya, 52, offered no apology, and said nothing as a Miami-Dade judge sentenced him to 45 years in prison for second-degree murder.

“At your age, Mr. Moya, 45 years is going to be a life sentence,” Circuit Judge Marisa Tinkler Mendez told him.

Jurors convicted Moya in June. Miami-Dade prosecutors Suzanne Von Paulus and Stewart Hedrick argued for a life sentence, saying the 21-year-old Moreno died in one of the “most horrific ways a human being can die.”

Moya’s defense lawyers said he was a father of one who had a string of businesses over the years, including a tilapia farming venture and a boat tour company. He could still contribute to society, lawyers Lauren Dawson and Alex Saiz said.

“To give Mr. Moya a life sentence is putting a huge burden on the taxpayers,” Dawson said.

Moya’s lifestyle and work were not shared with jurors.

In 2016, Moya opened the fetish club in Wynwood, which he touted as a safe space for people who enjoy “BDSM,” an acronym for bondage and sadomasochism.

“People think BDSM has to give someone pain all the time, but it has nothing to do with that,” Moya told the Miami New Times in 2016. “The majority of BDSM is about having control over someone’s feelings and beliefs and making them feel awesome. We’re humans; sex is a part of every human’s lifestyle.”

At trial, jurors heard that he strangled Moreno, who worked at a car dealership and lived for a time with him in his Kendall home. Moya had lied to her, saying he was only 37 and a wealthy Brazilian businessman.

Prosecutors said Moya became enraged with Moreno after she moved out.

Police discovered her body on the 2900 block of Southwest First Avenue early in the morning on Dec. 15, 2018. Investigators initially believed she was an overdose victim, until an autopsy revealed she had been strangled.

Moya admitted to Miami homicide detectives that she returned to his home that night. He claimed she demanded money, then asked him to drop her off in The Roads, a Miami neighborhood. At first, he admitted he drove her there, but claimed she got out, got into someone else’s car and he drove away.

But jurors saw a surveillance video that depicted him dumping her body, and him driving away in her Honda Accord. When shown the video by police, Moya changed his story and denied the car on the footage was the one he was driving.

The state also presented toll records showing him driving from Kendall to Miami, text messages outlining their angry exchanges and his Google searches that led him to disable the GPS in her car before discarding the body.

The murder devastated the Moreno family. She had planned to attend Miami Dade College, and eventually join the military. Her sister said she even hoped of becoming a police officer or a lawyer, and described her as a free spirit.

“She had the most contagious laugh you could ever imagine,” Wendy Moreno said.

The family was happy with the 45-year prison sentence.

“She saw the good in everybody, even when they didn’t deserve it,” Wendy Moreno said. “It’s just tragic that somebody she trusted did something like this to her.”

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