UK – Channel 5’s Adults Only viewers were shocked as dominatrix Jenny explained what her clients ask her for in her steamy sessions.
Jenny showed her friend Mistress Sofia her array of sex toys and torture devices including a paddle, whips, and a breath play mask.
“What do you do most of?” asked Mistress Sofia.
Jenny replied: “Whipping, a lot of breath play, sitting on them, some just like to be sat on, they like to feel the weight.
“I had this one guy, 84 years old, bless his heart, he was a real frail old man, must have weighed about eight stone, I’m 19 [stone].
“His fantasy was to struggle under the weight of a big woman, but when he started to really struggle for breath I thought, “Oh I’d better roll off now!’
“A**e worship that is my biggest thing, they like to get on their knees and like me to push their faces against the wall, and squash them with my big a**e.”
She continued: “I get this 72-year-old come in for electrocution on his nipples, on his b****nd, on his b**s and one up his a**e, and I control the voltage.
“I’m usually a bit wicked and I pinch the end of his b****nd at the same time, he screams! That’d make you dance!”
One stunned viewer tweeted: “I honestly don’t know who would pay for that! #AdultsOnly “.
“What 72! dirty old git… Electrocution……” remarked another.
A third wondered: “Watching this #adultsonly programme.. anyone want to pay me to do weird stuff?”
Mistress Sofia recently appeared on This Morning, where she told hosts Holly Willoughby and Phil Schofield: “There are so many different aspects to it, some [clients] could want punishment, some want to be dressed in a beautiful little maid’s outfit, some just want to be submissive, they want to be humiliated.
Some do it because it’s a little quirk, for others it’s a need, they need to be submissive, in their home lives they are not, they have high powered jobs.
“I have got everyone from judges down to dustman, it doesn’t matter what your lifestyle is, if it’s in you it’s in you to be submissive, and not all women want a submissive partner.”
* Adults Only is available to watch now on My5
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UK – GLASGOW – Lady Voluptua is a Scottish dominatrix who you might have seen on the new Channel 5 show Plus Sized Porn.
The dominatrix, whose real name is Lisa, caters to a specialised sector of the sex market – for those that like super-sized big women or BBW (Big Beautiful Women) as the sector is widely know as.
Lisa, who is from Glasgow, revealed that she knew quite early on in her life that she was into ‘kink’.
She said: “I discovered my kink very early on. I think I’ve always been kinky, I was eleven and my twelve-year-old friend told me about bondage and I thought ‘Ohhh, what’s this?’ and I kind of knew I was kinky and then when I met my husband we explored it more and we were quite switchy and would take the different roles and that’s how we explored it.
She added: “I never joined the scene at all until my marriage was over – that was when I was like right, that’s it, I’m going to out and I’m going to have great fun and go to the kink clubs.
“I went from being a sub to a slave, and I just thought it wasn’t fulfilling me. I think the submissive in me just disappeared and when I found that I was being more dominant, I actually got more out of it sexually and it’s the sense of power, the power exchange and the energy that you exchange with them.”
As well as enjoying what she was doing, Lisa realised there was a gap in the market for this and decided to turn it into a source of income.
She said: “It’s a really good rush and that’s when I thought, ‘oh, I could really do this and earn money from it’ because there were a lot of submissive guys, but not a lot of dominant women.
On the Channel 5 programme, Lisa can be seen demonstrating a technique of BDSM called ‘Breath play’, where she restricts a clients breathing by placing her stomach over their face.
Breath play is a very dangerous act which should only be attempted by experienced ‘practitioners’.
Lisa decided to rebrand herself as Lady Voluptua in a bid to fully embrace her size and place in the market.
She said: “I really don’t care what other people think. I’m up for a bit of badness. I actually really want to f**k s**t up in terms of how fat people are perceived.”
Lisa said that the BBW market for sex workers is quite crowded so she needs to be extra creative to be able to stand out from the rest.
She also caters for men who are often embarrassed about their desires to be dominated by BBWs.
She said: “At the end of the day all we are really doing is catering to people’s fantasies and fetishes and fulfilling a need where they maybe can’t get it at home or they are worried that perhaps if they are married their wife or family will reject them, they can come to a safe place.
“It can also be a form of therapy, although we would never say that we are therapists because obviously we are not qualified, but f**k it, it’s whatever floats your boat.”
On her website Lisa has included a lengthy description of what clients can expect if they book her.
She writes: “My body is super-sized, which makes me a Big Beautiful Woman, blessed with luscious lips, large bosoms and voluptuous curves. My deep brown eyes can see right down into your soul.
“I possess a calm and warm demeanour, which will help you to feel safe and secure, so that you can drop your guard and submit openly. There is nowhere to hide from Me.
“I will invade your mind and inspire you to your knees. I am the safe space you have always dreamed of – here to set your spirit free in your submission to Me. And you can get your rocks off while you’re at it.”
Lisa has a fee section on her website which say she offers sessions from her ‘brand new two chambered dungeon’ in Pollokshields, which start from £60 and can go up to £560.
Lisa, who is 5 foot 2, said she is happy with her life and what she does and her girlfriend Vixen, who is also a dominatrix, always celebrates her body.
She said: “It’s never really going to be small but in general I’m happy. I love my body and I love the fact that my girlfriend loves my body and she celebrates it and that gives me confidence when after all of these years in my life I’ve been told ‘no your fat body is wrong you would be so much happier if you were thin’.”
“We just have a normal life together but we also just happen to have a dungeon and were both dominatrix’s so yeah it’s really cool dating a sex worker.”
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