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IF THERE’S one person who knows everything there is to know about the sexual wants and needs of both men and women, it’s former dominatrix Nichi Hodgson.
Source: Express.co.uk.
UK – In part one of this series with Nichi, the journalist, Ooh by Je Joue brand ambassador and former dominatrix has top tips for keeping the passion in any relationship – be it two months or 62 years down the line.
Nichi got into the BCSM world when she moved to London and was working as an unpaid intern. In her own words, she said it was a way for her to fund her life.
It turns out she was interning at The Erotic Review – a sex magazine. There she met a dominatrix columnist who took her to several parties and ‘sessions’ as a vanilla girl.
Nichi hasn’t looked back since going from a non-participant to someone who openly advocates the BDSM lifestyle and no longer believes in monogamy.
The sexpert spoke exclusively to Express.co.uk about how British couples can take a slice of her dominatrix attitude and sprinkle it onto their relationships to bring back the sparkle.
Her top tips for re-igniting the flame in any struggling relationship:
Nichi said: “If familiarity breeds contempt, it also kills excitement.
“So if you’ve been together a long time, you need to start seeing your partner as a stranger again.”
She explained ‘some basic’ rules to apply to life:
If you have kids, stop calling one another Mum and Dad unless strictly necessary.
Banish pet names unless they refer to one another’s good looks or sexiness.
Start sleeping naked at least twice a week.
Don’t use the bathroom together unless it’s for a steamy joint shower.
Nichi added: “It can be hard to make your domestic space seem sexy so kick-start kinky again by taking it into a different bedroom.
“If you have credit card points for hotels or air miles, time to dig them out and consider using them for a weekend away.
“Once away, commit to intimate time. This doesn’t have to be full-blown sex; in fact it’s better if it isn’t.”
She explained: “Given that the loins generally desire what they can’t have, put a ban on penetration and enjoy a luxurious shared bath or Jacuzzi with some nice wine, and lots of touching and kissing.
“Knowing you can’t go to the next level will get you both bubbling up.”
Nichi Hodgson, Sex Expert and Brand Ambassador for Ooh by Je Joue. The Ooh by Je Joue product range is available to purchase now on oohjejoue.com.
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