Source:Ageplay ABDL Meeting & Parties on Fetlife.
NETHERLANDS/FLANDERS – Within BDSM, ABDL also exists. ABDL stands for Adult Baby/Diaper Lover and is a form of ageplay or fetishism in which adults feel relaxed or aroused by wearing diapers or acting like a child. It often offers a sense of safety, security, or nostalgia. Some BDSM purists don’t consider this BDSM. Personally, I, @tomVerhoeven (FL link), do, since it involves roleplay. For those who want to explore this, there are ABDL meetings and parties throughout the Netherlands and Flanders. The entire year’s schedule can be found below, courtesy of the Ageplay ABDL Meeting & Parties group on fetlife.
Sunday February 22 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
@abdlstore
Het Haagje 262
Hoogeveen, Drenthe
€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
Afterwards cash or via tikkie
Fries & snacks can be ordered
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
Diapers (loose or per pack)
Light bondage is allowed
No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers
Saturday February 28th 2:00-7:00 PM
Diapers After Dark
@ams-playground
First edition!
Sameplace
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€20-€22,- online, €23,- cash at the door
Guarded cloakroom
Locker €10,- deposit (you get it back)
Min 3 drinks, cash, pay upon departure
DL, ABDL, kink, sex
Cuddle Kingdom
Sex-positive party with sex furniture, seating areas, cage, dance floor, bar
No phones during the party
No brown diapers
Saturday February 28 2:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Little Noon @ MINK
@-MINK-
MINK Lounge
Geel, Antwerp
€25,- cash & pin
Drink card (valid on multiple events)
Littles, Ageplay, ABDL
March
Saturday March 28 2:00-7:00 PM
[Littles Disco]
@ams-playground
Sameplace
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€20-€22,- online, €23 cash at the door
Guarded wardrobe
Locker €10,- deposit (you get it back)
Min 3 drinks, cash, pay on departure
Ageplay, AB, Litttles, Middles
Cuddle Kingdom
Dance floor, bar, glowsticks, balloons, backlights, DJ
No phones during the party
No sex, no BDSM, no brown diapers
Sunday March 29 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
@abdlstore
Het Haagje 262
Hoogeveen, Drenthe
€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
Afterwards cash or via tikkie
Fries & snacks can be ordered
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
Diapers (loose or per pack)
Light bondage is allowed
No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers
April
Saturday April 4 2:00-7:00 PM
VSSM-Diapers Day
@VSSM-DiapersDay
Dance café Marcus-Antonius
Nijmegen, Gelderland
€15,- cash at the door
(free for VSSM members)
Pin or cash afterwards
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, tables, coloring pages
Phone in locker
No sex, no brown diapers
Saturday April 4th 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Corner time
@Cornertime-party
Club Eagle Amsterdam
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€16 online, €20 at the door
Min 2 drinks, cash or pin, pay on departure
Ageplay, ABDL, DL, BDSM, kink, fetish, sex
Consent is key
Bar, playrooms, porn coloring pages, BDSM toys, hosts
No phones during the party
No brown diapers
Sunday April 12 2:00 PM – 8:00 PM
Pancake pre-meet: 12:30 PM – 1:30 PM
Amsterdam ABDL Social
@ABDL-Social
Akhnaton
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€19.00 (e-ticket)
Pin, directly at the bar
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, littles playroom, tables, coloring pages
Cuddle Kingdom
Contactless payment only
No sex, no sm, no brown diapers
Sunday April 26 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
@abdlstore
Het Haagje 262
Hoogeveen, Drenthe
€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
Afterwards cash or via tikkie
Fries & snacks can be ordered
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
Diapers (loose or per pack)
Light bondage is allowed
No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers
May
Saturday May 23 2:00-7:00 PM
[Diapers After Dark]
@ams-playground
Sameplace
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€20-€22,- online, €23,- cash at the door
Guarded cloakroom
Locker €10,- deposit (you get it back)
Min 3 drinks, cash, pay upon departure
DL, ABDL, kink, sex
Cuddle Kingdom
Sex-positive party with sex furniture, seating areas, cage, dance floor, bar
No phones during the party
No brown diapers
Sunday May 31 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
@abdlstore
Het Haagje 262
Hoogeveen, Drenthe
€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
Afterwards cash or via tikkie
Fries & snacks can be ordered
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
Diapers (loose or per pack)
Light bondage is allowed
No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers
June
Saturday June 6 2:00 PM – 7:00 PM
VSSM-Diapers Day
@VSSM-DiapersDay
Dance café Marcus-Antonius
Nijmegen, Gelderland
€15 cash at the door
(free for VSSM members)
Pin or cash afterwards
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, tables, coloring pages
Phone in locker
No sex, no brown diapers
Saturday June 6 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Corner time
@Cornertime-party
Club Eagle Amsterdam
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€16 online, €20 at the door
Min 2 drinks, cash or pin, pay on departure
Ageplay, ABDL, DL, BDSM, kink, fetish, sex
Consent is key
Bar, playrooms, porn coloring pages, BDSM toys, hosts
No phones during the party
No brown diapers
Sunday June 14 2:00-8:00 PM
Pancake pre-meet: 12:30-1:30 PM
Amsterdam ABDL Social
@ABDL-Social
Akhnaton
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€19.00 (e-ticket)
Pin, directly at the bar
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, littles playroom, tables, coloring pages
Cuddle Kingdom
Contactless payment only
No sex, no sm, no brown diapers
Saturday June 27 2:00-7:00 PM
[Littles Disco]
@ams-playground
Sameplace
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€20-€22,- online, €23 cash at the door
Guarded wardrobe
Locker €10,- deposit (you get it back)
Min 3 drinks, cash, pay on departure
Ageplay, AB, Litttles, Middles
Cuddle Kingdom
Dance floor, bar, glowsticks, balloons, backlights, DJ
No phones during the party
No sex, no BDSM, no brown diapers
Sunday June 28 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
@abdlstore
Het Haagje 262
Hoogeveen, Drenthe
€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
Afterwards cash or via tikkie
Fries & snacks can be ordered
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
Diapers (loose or per pack)
Light bondage is allowed
No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers
July
Sunday July 26 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
@abdlstore
Het Haagje 262
Hoogeveen, Drenthe
€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
Afterwards cash or via tikkie
Fries & snacks can be ordered
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
Diapers (loose or per pack)
Light bondage is allowed
No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers
Augustus
Saturday August 1st 2:00-7:00 PM
VSSM-Diapers Day
@VSSM-DiapersDay
Dance café Marcus-Antonius
Nijmegen, Gelderland
€15,- cash at the door
(free for VSSM members)
Pin or cash afterwards
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, tables, coloring pages
Phone in locker
No sex, no brown diapers
Sunday August 9 2:00-8:00 PM
Pancake pre-meet: 12:30-1:30 PM
Amsterdam ABDL Social
@ABDL-Social
Akhnaton
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€19.00 (e-ticket)
Pin, directly at the bar
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, littles playroom, tables, coloring pages
Cuddle Kingdom
Contactless payment only
No sex, no sm, no brown diapers
Saturday August 22 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Corner time
@Cornertime-party
Club Eagle Amsterdam
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€16 online, €20 at the door
Min 2 drinks, cash or pin, pay on departure
Ageplay, ABDL, DL, BDSM, kink, fetish, sex
Consent is key
Bar, playrooms, porn coloring pages, BDSM toys, hosts
No phones during the party
No brown diapers
Sunday August 30 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
@abdlstore
Het Haagje 262
Hoogeveen, Drenthe
€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
Afterwards cash or via tikkie
Fries & snacks can be ordered
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
Diapers (loose or per pack)
Light bondage is allowed
No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers
September
Saturday September 19th 2:00-7:00 PM
[Diapers After Dark]
@ams-playground
Sameplace
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€20-€22,- online, €23,- cash at the door
Guarded cloakroom
Locker €10,- deposit (you get it back)
Min 3 drinks, cash, pay upon departure
DL, ABDL, kink, sex
Cuddle Kingdom
Sex-positive party with sex furniture, seating areas, cage, dance floor, bar
No phones during the party
No brown diapers
Saturday September 26 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Corner time
@Cornertime-party
Club Eagle Amsterdam
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€16 online, €20 at the door
Min 2 drinks, cash or pin, pay on departure
Ageplay, ABDL, DL, BDSM, kink, fetish, sex
Consent is key
Bar, playrooms, porn coloring pages, BDSM toys, hosts
No phones during the party
No brown diapers
Sunday September 27 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
@abdlstore
Het Haagje 262
Hoogeveen, Drenthe
€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
Afterwards cash or via tikkie
Fries & snacks can be ordered
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
Diapers (loose or per pack)
Light bondage is allowed
No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers
October
Saturday October 3 2:00-7:00 PM
VSSM-Diapers Day
@VSSM-DiapersDay
Dance café Marcus-Antonius
Nijmegen, Gelderland
€15,- cash at the door
(free for VSSM members)
Pin or cash afterwards
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, tables, coloring pages
Phone in locker
No sex, no brown diapers
Sunday October 11 2:00-8:00 PM
Pancake pre-meet: 12:30-1:30 PM
Amsterdam ABDL Social
@ABDL-Social
Akhnaton
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€19.00 (e-ticket)
Pin, directly at the bar
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, littles playroom, tables, coloring pages
Cuddle Kingdom
Contactless payment only
No sex, no sm, no brown diapers
Sunday October 25 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
@abdlstore
Het Haagje 262
Hoogeveen, Drenthe
€15,-
Afterwards cash or via tikkie
Fries & snacks can be ordered
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
Diapers (loose or per pack)
Light bondage is allowed
No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers
Saturday October 31st 2:00-7:00 PM
[Littles Disco]
Theme: Halloween
@ams-playground
Sameplace
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€20-€22,- online, €23 cash at the door
Guarded wardrobe
Locker €10,- deposit (you get it back)
Min 3 drinks, cash, pay on departure
Ageplay, AB, Littles, Middles
Cuddle Kingdom
Dance floor, bar, glowsticks, balloons, backlights, DJ
No phones during the party
No sex, no BDSM, no brown diapers
November
Sunday November 29 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
@abdlstore
Het Haagje 262
Hoogeveen, Drenthe
€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
Afterwards cash or via tikkie
Fries & snacks can be ordered
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
Diapers (loose or per pack)
Light bondage is allowed
No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers
December
Saturday December 5 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Corner time
@Cornertime-party
Club Eagle Amsterdam
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€16 online, €20 at the door
Min 2 drinks, cash or pin, pay on departure
Ageplay, ABDL, DL, BDSM, kink, fetish, sex
Consent is key
Bar, playrooms, porn coloring pages, BDSM toys, hosts
No phones during the party
No brown diapers
Sunday December 13 2:00-8:00 PM
Pancake pre-meet: 12:30-1:30 PM
Amsterdam ABDL Social
@ABDL-Social
Akhnaton
Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
€19.00 (e-ticket)
Pin, directly at the bar
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, littles playroom, tables, coloring pages
Cuddle Kingdom
Contactless payment only
No sex, no sm, no brown diapers
Sunday December 27 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
@abdlstore
Het Haagje 262
Hoogeveen, Drenthe
€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
Afterwards cash or via tikkie
Fries & snacks can be ordered
AB, DL, Ageplay
Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
Diapers (loose or per pack)
Light bondage is allowed
No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers
