Source:Ageplay ABDL Meeting & Parties on Fetlife.

NETHERLANDS/FLANDERS – Within BDSM, ABDL also exists. ABDL stands for Adult Baby/Diaper Lover and is a form of ageplay or fetishism in which adults feel relaxed or aroused by wearing diapers or acting like a child. It often offers a sense of safety, security, or nostalgia. Some BDSM purists don’t consider this BDSM. Personally, I, @tomVerhoeven (FL link), do, since it involves roleplay. For those who want to explore this, there are ABDL meetings and parties throughout the Netherlands and Flanders. The entire year’s schedule can be found below, courtesy of the Ageplay ABDL Meeting & Parties group on fetlife.

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🗓️Sunday February 22 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
✉️ @abdlstore
🏳️‍🌈 Het Haagje 262
🇳🇱Hoogeveen, Drenthe
💵€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
🥤Afterwards cash or via tikkie
🍔Fries & snacks can be ordered
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
🛒Diapers (loose or per pack)
🪢Light bondage is allowed
🚫No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers

🗓️Saturday February 28th 2:00-7:00 PM
🔗 Diapers After Dark
✉️ @ams-playground
🎉 First edition!
🏳️‍🌈Sameplace
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€20-€22,- online, €23,- cash at the door
🧥Guarded cloakroom
🔑Locker €10,- deposit (you get it back)
🥤Min 3 drinks, cash, pay upon departure
🚼DL, ABDL, kink, sex
🛒Cuddle Kingdom
✅Sex-positive party with sex furniture, seating areas, cage, dance floor, bar
📵No phones during the party
🚫No brown diapers

🗓️Saturday February 28 2:00 PM – 6:00 PM
🔗Little Noon @ MINK
✉️ @-MINK-
🏳️‍🌈 MINK Lounge
🇧🇪Geel, Antwerp
💵€25,- cash & pin
🥤Drink card (valid on multiple events)
🚼Littles, Ageplay, ABDL

March

🗓️Saturday March 28 2:00-7:00 PM
🔗[Littles Disco]
✉️ @ams-playground
🏳️‍🌈 Sameplace
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€20-€22,- online, €23 cash at the door
🧥Guarded wardrobe
🔑Locker €10,- deposit (you get it back)
🥤Min 3 drinks, cash, pay on departure
🚼Ageplay, AB, Litttles, Middles
🛒Cuddle Kingdom
✅Dance floor, bar, glowsticks, balloons, backlights, DJ
📵No phones during the party
🚫No sex, no BDSM, no brown diapers

🗓️Sunday March 29 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
✉️ @abdlstore
🏳️‍🌈 Het Haagje 262
🇳🇱Hoogeveen, Drenthe
💵€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
🥤Afterwards cash or via tikkie
🍔Fries & snacks can be ordered
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
🛒Diapers (loose or per pack)
🪢Light bondage is allowed
🚫No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers

April

🗓️Saturday April 4 2:00-7:00 PM
🔗VSSM-Diapers Day
✉️ @VSSM-DiapersDay
🏳️‍🌈 Dance café Marcus-Antonius
🇳🇱Nijmegen, Gelderland
💵€15,- cash at the door
(free for VSSM members)
🥤Pin or cash afterwards
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, tables, coloring pages
📵Phone in locker
🚫No sex, no brown diapers

🗓️Saturday April 4th 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗 Corner time
✉️ @Cornertime-party
🏳️‍🌈 Club Eagle Amsterdam
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€16 online, €20 at the door
🥤Min 2 drinks, cash or pin, pay on departure
🚼Ageplay, ABDL, DL, BDSM, kink, fetish, sex
☝🏻Consent is key
✅Bar, playrooms, porn coloring pages, BDSM toys, hosts
📵No phones during the party
🚫No brown diapers

🗓️Sunday April 12 2:00 PM – 8:00 PM
🥞Pancake pre-meet: 12:30 PM – 1:30 PM
🔗 Amsterdam ABDL Social
✉️ @ABDL-Social
🏳️‍🌈 Akhnaton
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€19.00 (e-ticket)
🥤Pin, directly at the bar
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, littles playroom, tables, coloring pages
🛒Cuddle Kingdom
📱Contactless payment only
🚫No sex, no sm, no brown diapers

🗓️Sunday April 26 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
✉️ @abdlstore
🏳️‍🌈 Het Haagje 262
🇳🇱Hoogeveen, Drenthe
💵€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
🥤Afterwards cash or via tikkie
🍔Fries & snacks can be ordered
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
🛒Diapers (loose or per pack)
🪢Light bondage is allowed
🚫No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers

May

🗓️Saturday May 23 2:00-7:00 PM
🔗[Diapers After Dark]
✉️ @ams-playground
🏳️‍🌈 Sameplace
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€20-€22,- online, €23,- cash at the door
🧥Guarded cloakroom
🔑Locker €10,- deposit (you get it back)
🥤Min 3 drinks, cash, pay upon departure
🚼DL, ABDL, kink, sex
🛒Cuddle Kingdom
✅Sex-positive party with sex furniture, seating areas, cage, dance floor, bar
📵No phones during the party
🚫No brown diapers

🗓️Sunday May 31 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
✉️ @abdlstore
🏳️‍🌈 Het Haagje 262
🇳🇱Hoogeveen, Drenthe
💵€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
🥤Afterwards cash or via tikkie
🍔Fries & snacks can be ordered
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
🛒Diapers (loose or per pack)
🪢Light bondage is allowed
🚫No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers

June

🗓️Saturday June 6 2:00 PM – 7:00 PM
🔗VSSM-Diapers Day
✉️ @VSSM-DiapersDay
🏳️‍🌈 Dance café Marcus-Antonius
🇳🇱Nijmegen, Gelderland
💵€15 cash at the door
(free for VSSM members)
🥤Pin or cash afterwards
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, tables, coloring pages
📵Phone in locker
🚫No sex, no brown diapers

🗓️Saturday June 6 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗 Corner time
✉️ @Cornertime-party
🏳️‍🌈 Club Eagle Amsterdam
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€16 online, €20 at the door
🥤Min 2 drinks, cash or pin, pay on departure
🚼Ageplay, ABDL, DL, BDSM, kink, fetish, sex
☝🏻Consent is key
✅Bar, playrooms, porn coloring pages, BDSM toys, hosts
📵No phones during the party
🚫No brown diapers

🗓️Sunday June 14 2:00-8:00 PM
🥞Pancake pre-meet: 12:30-1:30 PM
🔗 Amsterdam ABDL Social
✉️ @ABDL-Social
🏳️‍🌈 Akhnaton
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€19.00 (e-ticket)
🥤Pin, directly at the bar
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, littles playroom, tables, coloring pages
🛒Cuddle Kingdom
📱Contactless payment only
🚫No sex, no sm, no brown diapers

🗓️Saturday June 27 2:00-7:00 PM
🔗[Littles Disco]
✉️ @ams-playground
🏳️‍🌈 Sameplace
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€20-€22,- online, €23 cash at the door
🧥Guarded wardrobe
🔑Locker €10,- deposit (you get it back)
🥤Min 3 drinks, cash, pay on departure
🚼Ageplay, AB, Litttles, Middles
🛒Cuddle Kingdom
✅Dance floor, bar, glowsticks, balloons, backlights, DJ
📵No phones during the party
🚫No sex, no BDSM, no brown diapers

🗓️Sunday June 28 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
✉️ @abdlstore
🏳️‍🌈 Het Haagje 262
🇳🇱Hoogeveen, Drenthe
💵€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
🥤Afterwards cash or via tikkie
🍔Fries & snacks can be ordered
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
🛒Diapers (loose or per pack)
🪢Light bondage is allowed
🚫No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers

July

🗓️Sunday July 26 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
✉️ @abdlstore
🏳️‍🌈 Het Haagje 262
🇳🇱Hoogeveen, Drenthe
💵€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
🥤Afterwards cash or via tikkie
🍔Fries & snacks can be ordered
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
🛒Diapers (loose or per pack)
🪢Light bondage is allowed
🚫No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers

Augustus

🗓️Saturday August 1st 2:00-7:00 PM
🔗VSSM-Diapers Day
✉️ @VSSM-DiapersDay
🏳️‍🌈 Dance café Marcus-Antonius
🇳🇱Nijmegen, Gelderland
💵€15,- cash at the door
(free for VSSM members)
🥤Pin or cash afterwards
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, tables, coloring pages
📵Phone in locker
🚫No sex, no brown diapers

🗓️Sunday August 9 2:00-8:00 PM
🥞Pancake pre-meet: 12:30-1:30 PM
🔗 Amsterdam ABDL Social
✉️ @ABDL-Social
🏳️‍🌈 Akhnaton
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€19.00 (e-ticket)
🥤Pin, directly at the bar
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, littles playroom, tables, coloring pages
🛒Cuddle Kingdom
📱Contactless payment only
🚫No sex, no sm, no brown diapers

🗓️Saturday August 22 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗 Corner time
✉️ @Cornertime-party
🏳️‍🌈 Club Eagle Amsterdam
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€16 online, €20 at the door
🥤Min 2 drinks, cash or pin, pay on departure
🚼Ageplay, ABDL, DL, BDSM, kink, fetish, sex
☝🏻Consent is key
✅Bar, playrooms, porn coloring pages, BDSM toys, hosts
📵No phones during the party
🚫No brown diapers

🗓️Sunday August 30 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
✉️ @abdlstore
🏳️‍🌈 Het Haagje 262
🇳🇱Hoogeveen, Drenthe
💵€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
🥤Afterwards cash or via tikkie
🍔Fries & snacks can be ordered
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
🛒Diapers (loose or per pack)
🪢Light bondage is allowed
🚫No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers

September

🗓️Saturday September 19th 2:00-7:00 PM
🔗[Diapers After Dark]
✉️ @ams-playground
🏳️‍🌈 Sameplace
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€20-€22,- online, €23,- cash at the door
🧥Guarded cloakroom
🔑Locker €10,- deposit (you get it back)
🥤Min 3 drinks, cash, pay upon departure
🚼DL, ABDL, kink, sex
🛒Cuddle Kingdom
✅Sex-positive party with sex furniture, seating areas, cage, dance floor, bar
📵No phones during the party
🚫No brown diapers

🗓️Saturday September 26 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗 Corner time
✉️ @Cornertime-party
🏳️‍🌈 Club Eagle Amsterdam
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€16 online, €20 at the door
🥤Min 2 drinks, cash or pin, pay on departure
🚼Ageplay, ABDL, DL, BDSM, kink, fetish, sex
☝🏻Consent is key
✅Bar, playrooms, porn coloring pages, BDSM toys, hosts
📵No phones during the party
🚫No brown diapers

🗓️Sunday September 27 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
✉️ @abdlstore
🏳️‍🌈 Het Haagje 262
🇳🇱Hoogeveen, Drenthe
💵€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
🥤Afterwards cash or via tikkie
🍔Fries & snacks can be ordered
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
🛒Diapers (loose or per pack)
🪢Light bondage is allowed
🚫No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers

October

🗓️Saturday October 3 2:00-7:00 PM
🔗VSSM-Diapers Day
✉️ @VSSM-DiapersDay
🏳️‍🌈 Dance café Marcus-Antonius
🇳🇱Nijmegen, Gelderland
💵€15,- cash at the door
(free for VSSM members)
🥤Pin or cash afterwards
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, tables, coloring pages
📵Phone in locker
🚫No sex, no brown diapers

🗓️Sunday October 11 2:00-8:00 PM
🥞Pancake pre-meet: 12:30-1:30 PM
🔗 Amsterdam ABDL Social
✉️ @ABDL-Social
🏳️‍🌈 Akhnaton
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€19.00 (e-ticket)
🥤Pin, directly at the bar
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, littles playroom, tables, coloring pages
🛒Cuddle Kingdom
📱Contactless payment only
🚫No sex, no sm, no brown diapers

🗓️Sunday October 25 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
✉️ @abdlstore
🏳️‍🌈 Het Haagje 262
🇳🇱Hoogeveen, Drenthe
💵€15,-
🥤Afterwards cash or via tikkie
🍔Fries & snacks can be ordered
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
🛒Diapers (loose or per pack)
🪢Light bondage is allowed
🚫No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers

🗓️Saturday October 31st 2:00-7:00 PM
🔗[Littles Disco]
🎃Theme: Halloween
✉️ @ams-playground
🏳️‍🌈 Sameplace
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€20-€22,- online, €23 cash at the door
🧥Guarded wardrobe
🔑Locker €10,- deposit (you get it back)
🥤Min 3 drinks, cash, pay on departure
🚼Ageplay, AB, Littles, Middles
🛒Cuddle Kingdom
✅Dance floor, bar, glowsticks, balloons, backlights, DJ
📵No phones during the party
🚫No sex, no BDSM, no brown diapers

November

🗓️Sunday November 29 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
✉️ @abdlstore
🏳️‍🌈 Het Haagje 262
🇳🇱Hoogeveen, Drenthe
💵€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
🥤Afterwards cash or via tikkie
🍔Fries & snacks can be ordered
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
🛒Diapers (loose or per pack)
🪢Light bondage is allowed
🚫No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers

December

🗓️Saturday December 5 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗 Corner time
✉️ @Cornertime-party
🏳️‍🌈 Club Eagle Amsterdam
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€16 online, €20 at the door
🥤Min 2 drinks, cash or pin, pay on departure
🚼Ageplay, ABDL, DL, BDSM, kink, fetish, sex
☝🏻Consent is key
✅Bar, playrooms, porn coloring pages, BDSM toys, hosts
📵No phones during the party
🚫No brown diapers

🗓️Sunday December 13 2:00-8:00 PM
🥞Pancake pre-meet: 12:30-1:30 PM
🔗 Amsterdam ABDL Social
✉️ @ABDL-Social
🏳️‍🌈 Akhnaton
🇳🇱Amsterdam, Noord-Holland
💵€19.00 (e-ticket)
🥤Pin, directly at the bar
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, littles playroom, tables, coloring pages
🛒Cuddle Kingdom
📱Contactless payment only
🚫No sex, no sm, no brown diapers

🗓️Sunday December 27 3:00 PM – 10:00 PM
🔗ABDL Meeting Hoogeveen
✉️ @abdlstore
🏳️‍🌈 Het Haagje 262
🇳🇱Hoogeveen, Drenthe
💵€15,- cash or via tikkie at the door
🥤Afterwards cash or via tikkie
🍔Fries & snacks can be ordered
🚼AB, DL, Ageplay
✅Bar, play corner with toys, ball pit, coloring pages, craft corner
🛒Diapers (loose or per pack)
🪢Light bondage is allowed
🚫No sex, no hard SM, no brown diapers