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Adults Only viewers stunned as dominatrix electrocutes 72-year-old’s penis

BDSM Media News Posted on Mon, November 30, 2020 02:58:31

Adults Only star Jenny astonished viewers as she revealed she squashes men with her bottom and electrocutes their penises

Source: Mirror.co.uk.

UK – Channel 5’s Adults Only viewers were shocked as dominatrix Jenny explained what her clients ask her for in her steamy sessions.

Jenny showed her friend Mistress Sofia her array of sex toys and torture devices including a paddle, whips, and a breath play mask.

“What do you do most of?” asked Mistress Sofia.

Jenny replied: “Whipping, a lot of breath play, sitting on them, some just like to be sat on, they like to feel the weight.

“I had this one guy, 84 years old, bless his heart, he was a real frail old man, must have weighed about eight stone, I’m 19 [stone].

“His fantasy was to struggle under the weight of a big woman, but when he started to really struggle for breath I thought, “Oh I’d better roll off now!’

“A**e worship that is my biggest thing, they like to get on their knees and like me to push their faces against the wall, and squash them with my big a**e.”

She continued: “I get this 72-year-old come in for electrocution on his nipples, on his b****nd, on his b**s and one up his a**e, and I control the voltage.

“I’m usually a bit wicked and I pinch the end of his b****nd at the same time, he screams! That’d make you dance!”

One stunned viewer tweeted: “I honestly don’t know who would pay for that! #AdultsOnly “.

“What 72! dirty old git… Electrocution……” remarked another.

A third wondered: “Watching this #adultsonly programme.. anyone want to pay me to do weird stuff?”

Mistress Sofia recently appeared on This Morning, where she told hosts Holly Willoughby and Phil Schofield: “There are so many different aspects to it, some [clients] could want punishment, some want to be dressed in a beautiful little maid’s outfit, some just want to be submissive, they want to be humiliated.

Some do it because it’s a little quirk, for others it’s a need, they need to be submissive, in their home lives they are not, they have high powered jobs.

“I have got everyone from judges down to dustman, it doesn’t matter what your lifestyle is, if it’s in you it’s in you to be submissive, and not all women want a submissive partner.”

* Adults Only is available to watch now on My5

See more larger photo’s and video on: Mirror.co.uk.


Former college student faces multiple charges over ‘bondage mummification’

BDSM Media News Posted on Mon, November 30, 2020 02:48:16

Source: Thejakartapost.com.

INDONESIA-JAKARTA – A former student of Airlangga University (Unair) accused of sexually assaulting multiple victims after tricking them into helping him for academic “research” is facing multiple charges at the Surabaya District Court in East Java.

In a hearing held virtually on Wednesday, prosecutors indicted the 22-year-old defendant, identified only as Gilang, with three different charges.

Prosecutor I Gede Willy said Gilang had violated articles 27 and 45 of the 2016 Electronic Information and Transactions (ITE) Law, which prohibits individuals from sharing videos or other electronic information containing extortion or threats.

Gilang was also charged under Article 82 of the 2016 law on child protection for allegedly threatening minors into performing obscene acts and Article 289 of the Criminal Code on obscenity, which carries a maximum sentence of nine years in prison.

The defendant did not file an exception request against the charges.

His case gained nationwide attention in August after several victims took to Twitter to share their alleged accounts of being tricked by Gilang into performing an act referred to as “bondage mummification” under the pretense of academic research.

One user with the handle @m_fikris wrote that he and his friend agreed to participate in his thesis “research” about “wrapping” in July after Gilang persistently begged him, saying he was at risk of failing his studies for not finishing his thesis. The defendant was in his fifth year of university at that time.

Gilang reportedly sent instructions for @m_fikris and his friend to take turns covering each other’s bodies, including their mouths and eyes, with duct tape. He also instructed them to wrap their bodies in jarik (traditional Javanese cloth) and later asked them to record the process and to send him the footage afterward.

Another victim who spoke to The Jakarta Post said that when they were both university freshmen, the defendant had drugged him, covered his entire body with a blanket and groped him when he was sleeping at Gilang’s rooming house after a university event in 2015.

Unair expelled Gilang shortly after the case went viral.

The defendant told police investigators that he had conducted such actions since 2015, claiming that he developed the fetish as a child.(nal)



Dominatrix lifts lid on kinky work – and giving men space to explore sexualities

BDSM Media News Posted on Mon, November 30, 2020 02:34:53

Source: Dailystar.co.uk.

USA – Mistress Iris, 32, is a dominatrix from Japan who is an expert in satisfying men’s urges. She lives in LA where she educates the public about the inner workings of BDSM.

A dominatrix has lifted the lid on her kinky line of work.

Mistress Iris, 32, who is from Japan but lives in LA, US, is an expert in satisfying men’s urges.

She educates about the inner workings of BDSM as she offers men a safe place to explore their sexual power dynamics.

Speaking about the dark secrets of her trade, Mistress Iris said: “Much of sex is about power.

“But so is much of everyday life – power suffuses all our interactions and leaves its dirty paw prints all over the place.

“Submission and domination are ways to directly confront, acknowledge and playfully embrace the reality of these power dynamics.”

She added: “Nowadays, we’re in denial about the workings of power but we’re lots more open about sex.

“So it makes sense to draw more attention to the way power works.”

The dominatrix also enjoys educating the public about the inner workings of BDSM.

Her latest project and collaboration with Vixen Media Group’s (VMG) Deeper brand is a short film.

It explores the culture of femme dom/domme and subs called “Interview”.

Produced by director Kayden Kross, the video gives an unflinching insight to the psychological side of human sexuality.

Mistress Iris continued: “I have seen all too many times how many men are in need of a safe space to conduct that exploration.

“Men require help to access and express vulnerable feelings that they’ve been implicitly or explicitly taught to seal tightly inside them.”

And she believes that 9-5 jobs are hotbeds of suppressed kink.

She revealed: “It’s a setting for those raised to feel that one’s success is the most important factor in determining societal value.”

It also happens that workplace scenarios are very popular among clients.

She detailed: “The job interview role play is one of the most frequently requested scenarios in femdom.

“The moment in which you face a person who has the power to make your life more valuable, or make you a ‘failure’.

“For some, it’s one of the most vulnerable moments and consequently, suffused with power and ripe for sexual exploration.”

Since the coronavirus pandemic, the sex industry has been forced to find new ways of working.

See more and larger photo’s: Dailystar.co.uk.


World’s oldest dominatrix charges clients £120 an hour to do her cleaning and DIY – and doesn’t have sex with them

BDSM Media News Posted on Mon, November 30, 2020 02:24:26

Source: Metro.co.uk.

UK – A woman who declares herself to be ‘the world’s oldest dominatrix’ has baffled This Morning viewers by revealing she doesn’t sleep with clients – just humiliates them.

Sherry from Swindon – who goes by the name Mistress Sophia – has high-rising clients including surgeons and politicians who turn to her to fulfil their desire to be mistreated and relinquish control.

Charging £120 an hour, Mistress Sophia uses them to clean her house, do her DIY, before flogging them, putting them in shackles and dressing them up in embarrassing costumes.

As a result, she is left feeling empowered, and declared: ‘I’m a masochist, darling.’

Speaking to Holly Willoughby and Phillip Schofield, the 67-year-old – who has previously appeared on First Dates – said that she took on the job after a divorce from her husband.

Calling herself ‘a bit of a mouse’ before taking on the role, she was forced to get creative when money became tight and her job as a chef wasn’t paying the bills.

‘I happened to see this documentary about phone chat girls, and so I spoke to my children to make sure they were okay about it and I started doing that,’ she explained. ‘I realised that so many of the calls involved domination.

‘It was actually my daughter Amy that said you’re doing it on the phone for peanuts, why not do it for real?’

While some want punishment, others want to be humiliated and be submissive, and Mistress Sophia has a series of whips, chains, shackles and costumes to put them in – even sometimes taking them out for a walk around her area.

‘It’s great because you get stuff done around the house!’ Phillip admitted. ‘I mean there’s this one guy comes over and does your DIY, then he cane him, and then there’s another one that polishes your kitchen floor while he dances in a pink dress to the Nutcracker.’

‘I just love the adoration. I like the empowerment,’ the dominatrix added.

‘It isn’t sexual for me, it is purely the dominant part. I’m a very dominant person. I didn’t used to be but I am now. It’s kind of come out as I’ve got older, really, and made me a better person for it.’

Viewers found her hilarious – and couldn’t resist thinking she’s found a nifty life hack for those odd jobs needing to be done around the home

See more and larger photo’s: Metro.co.uk.





Ken Morley imagined Corrie co-star Julie Goodyear ‘as a dominatrix’

BDSM Media News Posted on Mon, November 30, 2020 01:43:19

Source: List.co.uk.

UK – Former soap star Ken Morley once “got a bit hot and bothered” over Barbara Knox’s outfit while filming ‘Coronation Street’, and he used to imagine his fellow cobbles co-star Julie Goodyear “as a dominatrix”

Ken Morley used to imagine his ‘Coronation Street’ co-star Julie Goodyear “as a dominatrix”.

The former soap star – who played supermarket manager Reg Holdsworth from 1989 to 1995 – admitted he had his own crushes on set, including Julie (Bet Lynch), who once gave him a slap after he kissed her toes.

He told The Sun newspaper: “She was another fantastic sex symbol and I often imagined her as a dominatrix – and she did at least slap me once.

“I remember doing this scene where she was on a bed and I was on the floor and I decided to kiss her bare toes, then run my tongue up her legs.

“As I reached her knee, Julie slapped me on the head and the whole place fell about laughing. It was then I realised we’d make a great comedy double act.”

The 77-year-old actor has also admitted he once “got a bit hot and bothered” over Barbara Knox’s (Rita Tanner) outfit on the cobbles.

He said: “For some inexplicable reason Barbara was wearing this fantastically sexy crinoline dress, and without thinking about it, I got a bit hot and bothered.

“As I waltzed out of camera shot, one of the floor managers came across to ask what was going on.

“When I explained something had come up, he suggested we take a few minutes’ break.”

Ken – who married his wife Susan in 1989 – also fancied Sherrie Hewson, who played his on-screen spouse Maureen, and he even had a thing for one of the ‘Corrie’ bosses.

He added: “Back then we all watched ‘Coronation Street’ in black and white, with characters like Albert Tatlock, Minnie Caldwell, Ena Sharples and Stan and Hilda Ogden.

“Leonard Swindley was a great character and Elsie Tanner, played by Pat Phoenix, we all loved her on screen.

“I must confess, decades later I fancied the executive producer Carolyn Reynolds. But we were both happily married and she was the boss.”



Starter Guide to BDSM: Rules, Core Values, and Words You Should Know

BDSM Media News Posted on Tue, November 17, 2020 23:16:54

Source: Greatist.com.

USA – It’s safe to say BDSM has entered the mainstream. But while the “Fifty Shades” craze revealed the not-terribly-surprising fact that a lot of folks (read: your mom and most of her friends) have a sexually deviant streak, the book and movie did not do a great job at educating the world about how to (safely) practice BDSM.

There’s still quite a bit of problematic misconceptions — especially regarding consent — to the wade through to get to the heart of what BDSM is all about.

But, as we all know, when battling stigma and personal bias, wading through misconceptions to find the truth is worth it. At the other end lies the potential for improved self-confidence, deeper self-knowledge, and intimacy on another level.

“Through kink I learned to own my power and found my voice. This helped me build my self-esteem and confidence in the boardroom and the bedroom,” Kenneth Play, 39, co-founder of International Sex Hacker and Educator, & Co-Founder of Hacienda Villa, an intentional sex-positive community.

You may want to jump right in, but, for the safety of everyone involved, it’s important to get some basics down first. Below we go over important rules, tips for getting started, and how to bring it up with a partner.

What is BDSM?

BDSM stands for bondage/discipline, submission/dominance, and sadism/masochism. These categories refer to a wide array of kinks and erotic practices.

Practicing BDSM is about a lot more than the act of having sex. In fact, “a scene” may not involve sex or, even touching, at all. You’ll find that many of the common themes — power dynamics, pain, humiliation, the taboo — are psychological in nature.

If you’re thinking that sounds intense, don’t worry! It’s completely up to you how deep you want to get and how far you want to go with something. In BDSM, enthusiastic consent is paramount: you and only you decide how you want things to go.

BDSM, defined

This is a very basic description of what the BDSM subcategories mean. And remember, every aspect of these types of play is consensual and talked about beforehand.

  • Bondage/discipline. Bondage refers to someone being physically restrained. Discipline refers to a set of rules and punishment, usually enforced by the dominant partner onto the submissive.
  • Submission/dominance. Sub/dom play is when one person, the sub (or bottom) permits the dom (or top) to essentially be in charge. This may be an agreement you make for one night of play or it may be a 24/7 arrangement.
  • Sadism/masochism. Sadism is the enjoyment of doling out pain. Masochism is the enjoyment of receiving pain. If you like both? Well, that’s what we call a sadomasochist.

The BDSM dictionary

With all distinctive cultures come an expansive vocabulary! This is by no means an exhaustive list but it’ll give you a start.

Aftercarea post-scene ritual intended to help the dominant and submissive wind down and check in
Breath control playrestriction of oxygen to increase pleasure (i.e. choking, asphyxiation)
Chastitydenial of a partner to have sex and/or masturbate — sometimes devices are used to ensure chastity (cock cages or chastity belts)
Collared/collaringworn to indicate someone’s status as a submissive (collaring can indicate belonging to a dominant, and to some is seen as the ultimate level of commitment)
Cuckolda man/masc person who enjoys watching their femme partner have sex with someone in front of them
Dom/domme/dominantthe partner who leads the power dynamic in a dominant/submissive scene
Edgeplaybringing a partner to the brink of orgasm, but not letting them orgasm
Fetishintense sexualization of an act, object or scenario
Golden showersthe act of a partner urinating on another
Hard limitslimits that never will be negotiable
Leathersubset of BDSM culture dictated by leather-wearing practices
Peggingrefers to a woman/femme identifying person having anal sex with a man/masc identifying person, typically with a strap-on
Playspacean area designated for a scene or BDSM play
Risk aware consensual kinkan alternative to SSC (below), as the term is disliked in the community for it’s ableist language (RACK also argues that kink isn’t ever safe, but that those that participate acknowledge the risks)
Safe, sane, consensual (SSC)a BDSM philosophy dictating the pillars of BDSM play
Safeworda word or physical cue meant to end play
Subspacea mental space submissive’s can go through in the middle of a scene; it’s often considered “dreamy” or “floaty” like a high
Switcha partner who can be dominant or submissive
Topping from the bottoma bottom/submissive telling their top/dominant what to do to them
Vanillanon-kink/BDSM activity


Erotic Hypnosis Is More of a Consensual Kink, Not a Manipulation Tool

BDSM Media News Posted on Sat, October 31, 2020 03:06:28

Diving Into Erotic Hypnosis and Its Overwhelmingly Kinky Contexts

Source: Askmen.com.

USA – Neural Nets got into erotic hypnosis in the 90s. He was in his twenties, dating a woman deeply tranced in D/S (dominance and submission) play.

“She claimed she wanted to quiet her mind,” says the 46-year-old Baltimore resident. “I had her do ‘memory sessions.’ I wrote 100 degrading phrases for her to memorize on flashcards. She memorized them in order. In a memory session, she’d recite her mantras while naked and partially bound in front of a mirror. If she got the right answer, she’d get her clit stroked. If she got the wrong answer, she’d get the crop and start over. After one of these sessions, she kept mouthing her mantras well after we concluded and moved onto other games.”

At the time, Nets was a debate coach that had just moved to the mid-Atlantic to work for Georgetown. His experience led him down a rabbit hole where a burgeoning erotic hypnosis scene allowed him to explore the act of consensual control.

“I circulated my work only in private kink circles in the 90s,” he continues. “It later leaked, and it was used as the background for a lot of PornHub videos. It was really the equivalent of a leaked sex tape.”

After some negotiating, Nets was able to get credit for his work, leading to a successful Tumblr presence.

By now, you might be wondering: What exactly is erotic hypnosis? And even if you feel like you have a slight inclination, what you think you know about erotic hypnosis is likely wrong. Consider it to be an extension of a consensual kink as opposed to a manipulation tool.

Nets wants people to move away from the idea of erotic hypnosis as a trick.

“The public conceives of erotic hypnosis as a magic D&D spell,” he notes, “[while] actual practitioners see it as a consensual and mutual activity. Trying to hypnotize someone into exceeding their own preferences and boundaries isn’t ethical or even that possible.”

Nets is one of 50,000 members of r/EroticHypnosis, a subreddit “to discuss hypnosis used in erotic, sexy, and kinky contexts.” It’s a place where amateurs interested in the art of hypnosis can learn about the intricacies of heightened focus and concentration while indulging their own sexual interests by sharing content with one another.

For user Nathan H., erotic hypnosis is used as a means to connect with his partner and explore his own limits.

“One of the attractions to hypnosis is often the feeling of being in someone else’s control, just like with bondage play,” he explains. “That feeling of vulnerability can be very thrilling. In any sexual encounter, however, we need to keep our libido from overwhelming our good sense. As an in-person amateur hypnotist, I think the best thing you can do for yourself is to engage with people who talk about consent, limits, expectations, and rules.”

Like many subreddits, r/EroticHypnsis is extremely far from perfect.

“I think the largest problem is the view that hypnosis is, by definition, coercion,” notes Nathan. “We all need to be aware of coercive people in our lives and relationships, and take steps to protect ourselves against those influences. That includes not putting yourself in vulnerable positions with people you aren’t sure you can trust, in all areas. If we let someone we just meet handcuff us to the bed, we are not making good decisions or following the BDSM community’s rule of ‘safe, sane, consensual’ play.”

Nets, on the other hand, thinks the problem lies within the actual community as opposed to people misinterpreting erotic hypnosis as a concept.

“The erotic hypnosis community is a dumpster fire,” he states. “It’s genuinely impossible to screen out the constant influx of people pursuing the kink for the wrong reasons. Some people want to seduce and manipulate without adequate consent. Some people want hypnosis to fix them, and the community is fairly bad at maintaining the dividing line between therapy and eroticism. Some people just have overall magical expectations. Some people think that doing erotic hypnosis is a route to rapid recognition or an income boost for sex work.”

Nets believes the community needs to “attract and retain skeptics” to function normally.

“Most people outside of the community can recognize how alarming and implausible the overclaims are,” he continues. “Erotic hypnosis cannot physically kill you, create the Manson family, make you into a sexual Manchurian candidate, change your sexual orientation, or alter your physique. You wouldn’t know that by scrolling a community forum, though. There’s no check on bullshit and grifters, and it’s really ruined most of the community spaces.”

While the community is nothing short of frustrating for seasoned professionals like Nets and Nathan, r/EroticHypnosis is a wonderful spot for the curious. There are plenty of introductory posts for those who have no idea what they’re doing: how to get into a trance, suggestions for newcomers feeling frustrated by the limits of hypnosis, and no shortage of fan favorites.

“When you’ve decided to allow someone (or a video or audio file) to hypnotize you, find a relaxing place and time when things are not expected of you,” says Nathan. “Try to listen to what’s being said and how, instead of thinking about your feelings or expectations about the experience.”

Nathan believes erotic hypnosis should be treated as an exercise in mindfulness. Do and think about what you’re instructed to do and think about, without judging or waiting to see what’s going to happen. He says one should always keep in mind that erotic hypnosis is something you want to do.

“I’m a content creator, so I’d be remiss if I didn’t recommend myself,” says Nets. “If you’re a first-timer, demand more from your content creators. Don’t settle for someone droning awkwardly too much bass. Don’t buy into this as if it’s religion. You don’t have to suspend disbelief and play along for days and weeks. That’s a grifty myth. If you listen and you think it’s boring garbage, it probably is. There are plenty of good actors and producers out there. You should be empowered to expect better.”

*An alias used to protect their privacy.



‘DID AS I WAS TOLD’ Epstein ‘recruiter’ admits bringing girls to him and shopping with sex slave Virginia Roberts for schoolgirl outfit

BDSMradio.EU News Posted on Sat, October 31, 2020 03:00:40

Source: Thesun.co.uk.

USA – AN alleged recruiter for Jeffrey Epstein has confessed she introduced him to three women and shopped for sexy outfits — but denies she took part in any abuse.

Rina Oh, 41, confessed in the podcast Broken: Seeking Justice that she dated Epstein and that he requested she bring him good-looking women including former model Marijke Chartouni.

However, Oh denied allegations from Chartouni and Virginia Roberts—another accuser who mentioned Oh in her memoir—that she perpetrated or or directly participated in any sexual abuse they experienced. 

“I’m just letting you know that what she accused me of doing is a complete fabricated lie,” Oh said of Roberts’ memoir.

In the podcast reported by the Daily Mail on Wednesday, Oh admitted that she participated in numerous activities involving Epstein, the American financier and convicted sex offender who died in August 2019.

Oh opened up about Epstein apparently asking her to take Roberts, then 17, on a shopping trip to find a “little school girl outfit.”

When podcast host Tara Palmeri asked Oh if she thought it was strange that Epstein wanted a 17-year-old young woman dressed like a school girl, Oh responded, “I wasn’t asking questions. I just did as I was told.” 

Oh was evasive when Palmeri followed up on why she did not find Epstein’s demands alarming. 

The mystery recruiter said, “I’ve brought three people to, to that place,” referring to Epstein’s mansion in New York, and that “when I’m, ready to talk about it, I’m gonna I talk about it.”

Oh said Chartouni, whom Epstein sexual assaulted, was one of the women she presented to him. 

But Oh insisted: “My side of the story is I did not abuse anyone, period. People that knew about him wanted to meet him. And I brought those people there, period.”

“I met her very briefly. We didn’t really know each other too well,” Oh said of Chartouni. 

“And I brought her because he kept asking me to bring your friends. So I brought her once.”

But in a subsequent interview for the podcast, Oh changed her storyline. 

“I was in the room when Marijke and I were both victimized by Epstein,” Oh said. 

Oh pushed back on claims Roberts made in her memoir and said, “I was nothing but nice to this girl.” 

“And I actually wanted to hang out with her and she declined to hang out with me,” Oh continued.

“So we actually never spent any significant amount of time together except for that one shopping adventure.”

A draft manuscript of Roberts’ memoir that was among court documents that became public last August stated that Epstein met Oh at an art gallery where he bought some of her pieces.

The memoir alleges various sexual encounters, including that Epstein asked Oh to help Roberts massage him.

Oh, at the time about 21 years old, “loved bondage, whipping, hitting and cutting her sex partner with little sharp knives until they subdued (sic) to her punishment in agonizing pain,” Roberts wrote in the memoir. 

In addition, the manuscript states that Epstein was “absurdly taken” with seeing Oh use whips and toys on Roberts, and rented an apartment for Oh. 

Epstein had Oh and Roberts go shopping for “sexy outfits, sex toys and bondage material,” it states. 

Roberts said that Oh “fit into the subservient category” that Epstein liked and that she had a “bubbly persona.”

Oh spoke on the podcast after being found in her New Jersey home by Chartouni, who has acted as a private investigator for Epstein’s victims.

See more and larger photo’s: Thesun.co.uk.


Magistrate loosens cuffs on bondage photographers

BDSM Media News Posted on Sat, October 31, 2020 02:45:34

Source: Insideimaging.com.au.

AUSTRALIA – Sydney bondage photographer, Garth Knight, has been granted bail after spending almost a month in custody following his arrest for the alleged sexual assault of two models during photo shoots.

Knight, 48, was charged with sexual intercourse without consent and aggravated sexual assault, relating to alleged incidents occurring at a Surry Hills warehouse in 2005, and a Waterloo home in 2011.

He was initially denied bail after his arrest last month, but has now been granted a conditional release in return for a $480,000 bond, along with a series of conditions including being banned from any activity involving photographing nude persons or any women, or being present during any shoot involving a woman or naked person. According to The Australian, he must report daily to Redfern police station, and must not contact any woman who has modelled for him, with the exception of his partner.

Knight primarily uses photography to showcase installations he creates using humans and rope. He describes himself as a ‘sculpturalist’, who ‘photographs rope and bodies as sculptural forms’, using a Japanese erotic bondage tradition called Shibari. Both alleged victims were tied up at the time of the alleged assaults.

Police have been investigating the photographer since May, when a woman filed a report with Police regarding the alleged incident from 2005. A second report then came from a woman who alleged she was sexually assaulted during a photo shoot at a Waterloo home in 2011 when she was 33.

When Knight was initially denied bail his solicitor, Phillip Ryan, claimed the photographer had previous sexual contact with one claimant prior to the alleged incident, and had discussed engaging in sexual contact with other model prior to the photo shoot.



Empress Delfina Is The Dominatrix Who Is Converting Trump Supporters Into Joe Biden Supporters: ‘I Was Already Doing Small Penis Humiliation With A Lot Of These Guys’

BDSMradio.EU News Posted on Sat, October 31, 2020 02:37:47

Source: Balleralert.com.

USA – There’s a dominatrix that’s helping to convert Donald Trump supporters into Joe Biden supporters.

There’s really something new every day in 2020, especially with the upcoming presidential election. Both parties are pulling out all the stops to get Trump out of office. The Daily Beast reports that groups such as the Lincoln Project and Republican Voters Against Trump are gathering all anti-Trump Republicans to help sway fellow members of their party. On the opposite end, Democratic-leaning groups like Vote Trump Out are also pushing for Biden to win.

But there’s also another force of nature that’s at work, and that’s Trump supporters who have an interesting sex kink. According to the Daily Beast, kinky, submissive male Trump supporters with humiliation fetishes are reaching out to one woman to dominate them into voting for Biden. Empress Daisy Delfina is a Las Vegas-based professional dominatrix who has created “Trump Conversion Therapy,” a treatment for pro-Trump men.

Her ad for the therapy reads as follows: “Here’s your chance to get berated for being the degenerate Trump supporter you are. I reverse the brainwash you’ve succumbed to that made you into a Simple Stupid Drone. By using lethal mind f*cking language and making you repeat dumbass chants like your Bullshitter in Chief made you do to warp you into submission, I transfer your ownership to me for my personal gain and entertainment. Embrace that you need to be saved from being a Trump-bot. Call now to begin your Trump Conversion Therapy.” The therapy costs $1.99 a minute.

Delfina says the idea for Trump Conversion Therapy was sparked from her arguments with Trump supporters on Twitter. “I was already doing webcam and film work with humiliation fetishes. Ever since Trump got elected, I saw I was arguing with his supporters on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram. I found my accounts getting banned for certain language. There was just so much rage on both sides, and I found myself in the comments humiliating the Trump supporters and just mocking their stupidity. I mocked how they’re not capable of independent and critical thinking. The fact that they can be sold anything. How easily they were manipulated and sold a bill of goods,” she said.

“I saw an article about Mike Pence talking about supporting programs targeted at gay people to get them to “change their sexual behavior”—which was widely interpreted as a dog-whistle for conversion therapy. So I tweeted out to the Trump supporters I was arguing with, ‘Hey, if you think gay conversion therapy works, let’s try Trump conversion therapy.’ Of course, the Trump supporters went ballistic over that. But they’re already on a pro Domme’s page—so I wasn’t too surprised when a few of them slid into my DMs saying they were interested in it. I was already doing small penis humiliation with a lot of these guys, so jumping to political humiliation wasn’t that much of a stretch.”

She added that the free attention she was giving Trump supporters made her want to capitalize off of it. “At one moment, I realized, “Wait a minute, I think this guy’s getting off on it.” Because here I am, a hot girl humiliating him, and he’s getting the attention for free. That’s when I decided, “I should get paid for this shit.” And also try to get them to vote for a different leader, a Democrat. So that’s when I put my ad for Trump Conversion Therapy up.”

During “Trump Conversion Therapy” a number of things can happen; Delfina says she may just argue with someone or the person may want to be punished for supporting Trump. “Maybe half the guys just want to argue. They’re not open to getting converted at all. They just call to start berating my liberal politics. And I’m like, ‘Hey if you want to pay me $1.99 a minute to argue with me, go right ahead. You’re not getting anywhere with me, and I’m happy to profit off your stupidity—just like your leader did.’”

She continued: “But the other half—the half I care about—is actually open to being persuaded. Many of them see what Trump has become, what he’s done, and regret their vote. So I tell them, ‘I can help you. You’ve been brainwashed. I can deprogram you.’ I studied cults in college, and when I saw Trump and his rallies, I thought, ‘This is just what cult leaders do.’ So his followers need to be deprogrammed, just as if they’d been in a cult—because they have.

She then described some moments from her sessions. “I had one Southern man call me and tell he was regretting his Trump vote. I asked him if he’d been to Trump rallies, and he said he had. So I asked him, “Which chant did you used to like the most at the rallies?” They like to chant—that’s part of the whole programming. With cults, do you notice that? All the chanting. Same thing with religion—chanting helps with the brainwash.

“He used to chant, ‘Lock her up! Lock her up!’ So I said, ‘Let’s make up a new one for you. Now you need to chant, “I’m Putin’s bitch!” So he starts screaming, ‘I’m Putin’s bitch!’ And then I start having him sing it—so he’s singing, ‘I’m Putin’s bitch!’ He has to sing it because music helps with the brainwash. I call it deprogramming, but in a way, I’m kind of brainwashing them myself. I started to notice that these Trump supporters were very easily influenced—they’re the kind of people who are susceptible to a cult. You can manipulate them. You can sell them anything, just like Trump did to get their votes. I’m pretty much using the same tactics that Trump used to manipulate them, except I’m manipulating and re-programming them to go the other way.”

Delfina shared some of her background and that her parents are from Puerto Rico. “My father is white, born on the island, and my mother is Black, born in Brooklyn. I was born in New York. I’m a Brooklyn girl. I grew up very poor, and started stripping when I was 18 just to survive. A client encouraged me to apply to college, and helped me fill out my applications. It took me eight years to graduate, as I studied part-time while I stripped to pay for it. After college, I moved to Las Vegas to continue my stripping career. I’ve been in the skin business for 24 years now. I started camming about 10 years ago and continue to this day. I do clips, phone sex, and private Skype sessions. I’m an activist with sex workers. And also I rescue dogs.”

When it comes to the racist Trump supporters, Delfina says she knows how to handle them. “One of the guys I was deprogramming—he had loved chanting ‘Build the Wall’ at Trump rallies. So I made him chant that, while he was sticking a hot pepper up his ass. I made him break it in there.”

Read the full story here. 

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How Frank Bough won the heart of the nation before one “moment of stupidity” marred a glittering career

BDSM Media News Posted on Sat, October 31, 2020 02:24:52

Source: Thesun.co.uk.

UK –

IT was a trailblazing career cut short by a “moment of stupidity”, but today Frank Bough, who has died at the age of 87, is being remembered as one of the TV greats.

As one of Britain’s top presenters for over three decades, the ex-footballer fronted BBC sports programme Grandstand and launching the Breakfast TV show in 1983.

But in 1988, it all came crashing down amid lurid allegations of cocaine parties with prostitutes and four years later, he was pictured leaving a “dungeon party” at the flat of a dominatrix prostitute.

The star – who passed away in a care home last week – ducked out of the limelight after the revelations, but remained married to wife Nesta, the mother of his three sons.

He later revealed he regretted the lapse, but hoped to be remembered for the unflappable, reassuring style of presenting that endeared him to millions of TV viewers.

“It was a brief but appalling period in my life,” he said. “Don’t condemn my entire career for a brief episode I regret.”

Two years of pestering for BBC role

The son of an upholsterer from Stoke On Trent, Frank was born in 1933 and raised in Shropshire, where he went to a local grammar school before winning a scholarship to Oxford.

Frank met Nesta Howells while he was doing National Service and the couple married as soon as he left the army, going on to have three sons – David, Stephen and Andrew.

Despite landing a good job at ICI, Frank was so determined to become a broadcaster he pestered the BBC for two years before landing a slot on regional news programme, Home at Six, in Newcastle, which later became Look North.

His sports knowledge soon saw him taking over as presenter of Sportsview in 1964 and fronting BBC’s Sports Review of the Year, now Sports Personality of the Year, for 18 years.

He was also part of the commentating team for the 1966 World Cup, witnessing England’s legendary victory over West Germany to win the tournament.

But Frank’s most famous stint was as the face of the BBC’s flagship sports show Grandstand, from 1968 to 1982, covering everything from the Olympic Games and FA Cup finals to the Grand National.

His fellow presenters praised his ability to remain calm, whatever went wrong on the live show.

Michael Parkinson once remarked: “If my life depended on the smooth handling of a TV show he’d be the one I’d want in charge”.

But he later admitted he was under strain at times.

“There was a lot of bloodshed on the programme, I can tell you,” he said.

“The language and shouting I could hear in my earpiece was, at times, horrific! After four-and-a-half hours of that I would totter away absolutely knackered. It was hard but we were trying to make the best programme we could.”

In 1972 he began presenting Nationwide, the BBC’s early evening news programme and in the same year, he covered the Munich Olympics, which saw 11 members of the Israeli team murdered by the Palestinian terrorist group Black September.

“It was a bizarre situation,” he later said. “The athletics continued while people were getting killed.”

In a lighter moment, he famously appeared in a sketch on the Morecambe and Wise Christmas Show, singing There Ain’t Nothing Like A Dame, alongside Eddie Waring and Barry Norman.

The comedy show attracted a record-breaking 21 million viewers.

Scandal that ruined clean cut image

When the BBC decided to launch the first live breakfast show in 1983, Frank was a natural choice.

His laid-back style and love of cosy jumpers were an instant hit with Breakfast Time viewers and co-presenter Nick Ross praised the “sense of serenity and reassurance” he brought to the show.

But his image as a clean-cut family man was shattered in 1988 after revelations that he wore women’s lingerie at cocaine parties with prostitutes and he was sacked by the BBC.

He soon landed a job covering the Rugby World Cup on rival channel, ITV, but four years later he was snapped leaving a prostitute’s flat in London.

The dominatrix reportedly ran S&M parties in a “dungeon”, involving a cage and school canes.

After the scandal hit the headlines, he told the press: “I have been exceedingly stupid and I accept that.

“I caused a lot of pain to my wife and my family and I bitterly regret all these things – but I have to say that I believe that everybody, when they have difficulties with their marriage or sexuality, surely has the right to sort these things out in the privacy of their own home.”

Loyal Nesta stood by her husband but later admitted she had been angry and had considered leaving him.

Speaking on a Sky News programme, she said: “Obviously I have thought, ‘Do I stay or do I go?’.

“We have been together a long time. We have brought up a family.

“We have still got a lot going for us. I do feel betrayed by it, but I do not feel that it is anything personal to do with me.”

Tributes to “inspirational” broadcaster

Sadly, despite some stints on LBC and Sky, Frank’s career never fully recovered from the blow.

But today he is being remembered as one of the UK’s best broadcasters – and one of the nicest men in the business.

Jeff Stelling added: “I met Frank Bough when I was a young reporter. He was kind, helpful and generous with his time. His brilliant career was blighted by scandal but I hope people will remember how fine a broadcaster he was. One of the very best in the business.”

Presenter Nick Owen tweeted: “RIP Frank Bough. I regarded him as the ultimate broadcaster who combined news and sport brilliantly. Whatever the scandals that broke around him, he was an inspiration to me when I started in tv more than 40 years ago.”

Piers Morgan tweeted: “RIP Frank Bough, 87. Star of Grandstand, Nationwide and Breakfast Time. His career was ruined by scandal, but he was one of the great live TV presenters. Sad news.

See more and larger photo’s on: Thesun.co.uk.


Love Island’s Belle Hassan puts on a busty display in a bondage-inspired bralet with racy leather trousers as she enjoys a girls’ night out

BDSM Media News Posted on Sat, October 31, 2020 02:12:33

Source: Dailymail.co.uk.

UK – She made a name for herself on the 2019 series of Love Island 

And Belle Hassan remained the centre of attention on Saturday evening as she sported a sizzling crossover bralet and leather-look trousers. 

The reality star, 25, set pulses racing as she emphasised her ample assets and slender curves in her revealing ensemble while arriving at Jaks in Chelsea, London.

Belle added a golden touch with her Gucci belt, a collection of delicate necklaces and hoop earrings.

The blonde beauty added height to her frame with classic black heels, and clutched a snakeskin handbag as she made her grand entrance. 

She styled her luscious locks in a straight hairstyle, and wore a full coverage make-up look. 

Her pal turned heads in a cut-out bralet, complete with gold belt buckles. 

She completed the ensemble with flared black trousers adorned with gold buttons, and a pair of gold crucifix earrings. 

The outing comes after Belle had a candid discussion about her mental health earlier this month with her dad, Tamer Hassan, on his podcast, Family Business.   

Revealing how difficult things were for her when she was younger, a clearly emotional Belle said during the discussion with her father: ‘It’s not something that’s easy for me to talk about. I don’t mind talking about it but it’s not easy.

‘As you know dad, when I was a kid I did go through a stage of self harming. For me that was something I really struggled with, and again it all came from a thing of…’

Belle could then be heard struggling to compose herself, as her dad told the audience: ‘We’re all welling up here. Take your time.’

Expressing sympathy for those in similar situations, Belle continued: ‘Mental health has been something that has been close to me, and I think when I’ve worked with young girls, I’ve seen that in so many of them.

‘It’s normal to hate yourself, it’s normal to feel like you’re not enough, you’re worthless, you’re this, you’re that. Being young and feeling like that about yourself is horrible.’

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailymail.co.uk.



THE MISADVENTURES OF MISTRESS MANEATER

BDSM Media News Posted on Sat, October 31, 2020 01:49:49

Source: Filmthreat.com.

USA – Arguably, a single actor or personality can turnaround or elevate a less-than-spectacular movie. It’s the reason most movie studios want to know who’s attached to a particular project. C.J. and Lorrisa Julianus’ The Misadventures of Mistress Maneater is a classic example of that on an indie level.

Ava Moriarity (Lorrisa Julianus) is a highly-skilled, coveted, and misunderstood dominatrix. Once a Ph.D. art student—who got herself into trouble with a mob boss—she has only thirty days to repay an insurmountable debt. Her only hope is compromising her integrity as she is hired by the town’s nefarious mayor to seduce a small-town Episcopal priest, Father Markovic (Mickey O’Sullivan).

Arguably, a single actor or personality can turnaround or elevate a less-than-spectacular movie. It’s the reason most movie studios want to know who’s attached to a particular project. C.J. and Lorrisa Julianus’ The Misadventures of Mistress Maneater is a classic example of that on an indie level.

Ava Moriarity (Lorrisa Julianus) is a highly-skilled, coveted, and misunderstood dominatrix. Once a Ph.D. art student—who got herself into trouble with a mob boss—she has only thirty days to repay an insurmountable debt. Her only hope is compromising her integrity as she is hired by the town’s nefarious mayor to seduce a small-town Episcopal priest, Father Markovic (Mickey O’Sullivan).

“…got herself into trouble with a mob boss—she has only thirty days to repay an insurmountable debt.”

With no other options, Ava teams up with her gay best friend, Gabe (Shannon Brown), and schemes away. Like any good thriller, everyone has secrets. How did Ava get in so deep with a mob boss? Why does Father Markovic have a priceless painting stowed away at the church? Why does he sneak off at night and secretly compete as an MMA fighter? Why are these two just so good looking compared to the rest of the town?

Right from the film’s opening moments, there was this feeling I was in for the long haul. It starts with dominatrix Ava in the middle of a session. Her client has a ball gag in his mouth, and she won’t stop the session until he says his “safeword.” Of course, his mouth is muffled, and yet she understands every word he says. I point this out because, as a comedy, every joke goes for the typical punchlines throughout the film and refuses to search further for something clever or new—one bland joke after the other. Hang in there… it is ultimately a good movie.

Then The Misadventures of Mistress Maneater hits all the standard tropes of a strong woman caught in a world beneath her. Total strangers objectify her as a “sex worker.” She’s a smart dominatrix as she insists that clients read and sign contracts as to what she will and will not do. She could also give a f**k about what the townsfolk think of her and her profession. As an art student, she was destined for greatness but never taken seriously as a woman. And then there’s the mobster.

The story then goes down a very familiar path as Ava begins to uncover Father Markovic’s backstory. He’s not exactly who she thinks he is. Of course, as the two are the best-looking people in town…one thing leads to another, ending in betrayal. But enough of the plot spoilers. My point is it’s all fairly formulaic from start to finish. Still, it’s a good movie.

That said, Lorrisa Julianus is the standout star and manages to elevate the mediocre script, story, and all the actors surrounding her and turn The Misadventures of Mistress Maneater into an entertaining film that’s fun to watch. Yes, Lorrisa Julianus looks sexy-as-hell as Ava, and it’s not lost on me that she and her husband, C.J., may have made the movie to showcase her talents. Hell, it’s good, so showcase away.

As Ava, Lorrisa creates a fully developed character with depth. She knows precisely how to portray Ava like a movie star. She is what you’d expect from a strong lead in an action-thriller, who happens to be a woman. Ava is smart, intelligent, and has flaws…like thinking she’s the smartest person in the room. She’s independent and refuses to allow anyone to control her future, even a mob loan shark. Before you know it, she shows she can be vulnerable. Julianus runs the gamut of emotion, builds a believable character arc, and proves she can be a star in almost any other genre.

Before I gush too much over the film’s star, the story is still not-that-great. It’s not that The Misadventures of Mistress Maneater is horrible, I’ve just seen it before, and I’ve heard these jokes over and over again. Still, hang in there for a fun and exciting ride.

See more and larger photo’s: Filmthreat.com.



Meet Scots ‘dominatrix’ Lady Voluptua who appeared on Channel 5’s Plus Sized Porn

BDSM Media News Posted on Sat, October 24, 2020 04:28:06

Lady Voluptua appeared on the show on Monday to talk about her life as a dominatrix.

Source: Dailyrecord.co.uk.

UK – GLASGOW – Lady Voluptua is a Scottish dominatrix who you might have seen on the new Channel 5 show Plus Sized Porn.

The dominatrix, whose real name is Lisa, caters to a specialised sector of the sex market – for those that like super-sized big women or BBW (Big Beautiful Women) as the sector is widely know as.

Lisa, who is from Glasgow, revealed that she knew quite early on in her life that she was into ‘kink’.

She said: “I discovered my kink very early on. I think I’ve always been kinky, I was eleven and my twelve-year-old friend told me about bondage and I thought ‘Ohhh, what’s this?’ and I kind of knew I was kinky and then when I met my husband we explored it more and we were quite switchy and would take the different roles and that’s how we explored it.

She added: “I never joined the scene at all until my marriage was over – that was when I was like right, that’s it, I’m going to out and I’m going to have great fun and go to the kink clubs.

“I went from being a sub to a slave, and I just thought it wasn’t fulfilling me. I think the submissive in me just disappeared and when I found that I was being more dominant, I actually got more out of it sexually and it’s the sense of power, the power exchange and the energy that you exchange with them.”

As well as enjoying what she was doing, Lisa realised there was a gap in the market for this and decided to turn it into a source of income.

She said: “It’s a really good rush and that’s when I thought, ‘oh, I could really do this and earn money from it’ because there were a lot of submissive guys, but not a lot of dominant women.

On the Channel 5 programme, Lisa can be seen demonstrating a technique of BDSM called ‘Breath play’, where she restricts a clients breathing by placing her stomach over their face.

Breath play is a very dangerous act which should only be attempted by experienced ‘practitioners’.

Lisa decided to rebrand herself as Lady Voluptua in a bid to fully embrace her size and place in the market.

She said: “I really don’t care what other people think. I’m up for a bit of badness. I actually really want to f**k s**t up in terms of how fat people are perceived.”

Lisa said that the BBW market for sex workers is quite crowded so she needs to be extra creative to be able to stand out from the rest.

She also caters for men who are often embarrassed about their desires to be dominated by BBWs.

She said: “At the end of the day all we are really doing is catering to people’s fantasies and fetishes and fulfilling a need where they maybe can’t get it at home or they are worried that perhaps if they are married their wife or family will reject them, they can come to a safe place.

“It can also be a form of therapy, although we would never say that we are therapists because obviously we are not qualified, but f**k it, it’s whatever floats your boat.”

On her website Lisa has included a lengthy description of what clients can expect if they book her.

She writes: “My body is super-sized, which makes me a Big Beautiful Woman, blessed with luscious lips, large bosoms and voluptuous curves. My deep brown eyes can see right down into your soul.

“I possess a calm and warm demeanour, which will help you to feel safe and secure, so that you can drop your guard and submit openly. There is nowhere to hide from Me.

“I will invade your mind and inspire you to your knees. I am the safe space you have always dreamed of – here to set your spirit free in your submission to Me. And you can get your rocks off while you’re at it.”

Lisa has a fee section on her website which say she offers sessions from her ‘brand new two chambered dungeon’ in Pollokshields, which start from £60 and can go up to £560.

Lisa, who is 5 foot 2, said she is happy with her life and what she does and her girlfriend Vixen, who is also a dominatrix, always celebrates her body.

She said: “It’s never really going to be small but in general I’m happy. I love my body and I love the fact that my girlfriend loves my body and she celebrates it and that gives me confidence when after all of these years in my life I’ve been told ‘no your fat body is wrong you would be so much happier if you were thin’.”

“We just have a normal life together but we also just happen to have a dungeon and were both dominatrix’s so yeah it’s really cool dating a sex worker.”

See more and larger photo’s: Dailyrecord.co.uk.


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