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A pro dominatrix and novelist says empathy, curiosity and bravery are key to both jobs

UK – After graduating from Stanford in 2016 and publishing her first novel, Oola, in 2017, writer Brittany Newell was looking for a job that would provide a decent income, while still allowing her time to write. She waited tables and tended bar, but found both mentally and physically exhausting. Then she took a job as a professional dominatrix.

See more larger photo’s and/or listen the podcast on: Thepublicsradio.org

“A professional dominatrix is a person who is hired by submissives to enact a series of fetish or kink related fantasies,” Newell explains. “It’s different than being an escort. It’s much more about role play and the creation of these fantasy worlds and satisfying different fetishes. And of course, the defining quality would be the power dynamic.”

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UConn to hold ‘rope bondage’ workshop led by ‘seasoned kinkster’ for ‘Sex Liberation Week’

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Wed, February 12, 2025 01:24:48

The University of Connecticut Women’s Center is hosting a ‘hands-on’ workshop on ‘rope bondage’ that is led by a ‘seasoned kinkster’ as part of its annual ‘Sex Liberation Week.’

Students will learn ‘they will learn “basic knot techniques, discuss proper rope handling, and how to communicate with rope partners in a safe and supportive space – with focus on safety, consent, and communication.’

Source: Campusreform.org

USA – CONNECTICUT – The University of Connecticut (UConn) Women’s Center is hosting a “hands-on” workshop on “rope bondage” that is led by a “seasoned kinkster” as part of its annual “Sex Liberation Week.”

Just prior to Valentine’s Day, students can RSVP for the Feb. 13 event, where they will learn “basic knot techniques, discuss proper rope handling, and how to communicate with rope partners in a safe and supportive space – with focus on safety, consent, and communication.”

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Sexplain It: Help! My GF Wants to Bring the Bathroom to the Bedroom.

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Wed, February 12, 2025 01:16:26

“I have literally no desire to try a golden shower. What should I do?”

Source: Menshealth.com

USA – Dear Sexplain It,

After a year of dating, my girlfriend just revealed that she has a massive pee kink. She loves being peed on, drinking pee, and even someone peeing inside her vagina. I’m feeling a couple of things. First, I’m surprised and shocked that I’m only now hearing about this, a year into dating. And it makes me question if she’s even enjoyed the vanilla sex we’ve been having. (I really thought she was, before this!) Second, I have literally no desire to do any piss play. The idea of it does not turn me on, and sure, I guess I’d rather pee on her than be peed on, but I’d prefer nothing involving pee. I’m feeling torn because it seems like she really wants this, and it’s important to her. I don’t know what to do.

— Piss Averse Boyfriend

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I studied with Liz Truss but became a dominatrix – my colleagues drive Range Rovers & send their kids to private schools

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Wed, February 12, 2025 00:51:14

The dominatrix also shares some of her most bizarre requests – including a man who wanted her to park on his HANDS

Source: Thesun.co.uk

UK – WHILE her Oxford University classmate Liz Truss went on to become the country’s Prime Minister, life turned out a little different for Melissa Todd.

See more larger photo’s and video’s on: Thesun.co.uk

The 47-year-old, from Hertfordshire, has spent three decades working in the sex industry, first as a stripper and now as a dominatrix – although she describes herself as a ”submissive” one.

In sexual terms, a dominatrix is a woman who has power or control over her partner (who she doesn’t have to be in a committed relationship with).

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We Sat Down With the Wrong Flogging Molly and Now We Owe $600 to an Irish Dominatrix

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Wed, February 12, 2025 00:37:56

Source: Thehardtimes.net

IRELAND – OK, so apparently our new intern Caleb is completely full of shit. We hired him because he said he could make an interview happen with legendary Celtic punkers Flogging Molly, but it quickly became obvious that he didn’t expect to have to fulfill this promise when we brought him on. Is this at least partially on us for having hired him on sight simply because we liked his Samhain shirt when we met him at Jersey Mike’s? Possibly, but he had to have foreseen this whole ordeal ending poorly when he used Craigslist personals to set up the interview.

So there we were, tablets in hand with questions at the ready, nervously awaiting Flogging Molly’s arrival. We’ve been fans since “Swagger,” so this was a really big opportunity for us. Suffice it to say we were taken aback when a red-haired woman dressed exclusively in black leather arrived at our offices in lieu of Dave King, and we immediately knew something had gone awry when we saw that she had brought with her ball gags, posture collars, whips, and something called a “fisting swing.”

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How To Be More Confident: A Crash Course By A Dominatrix

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Wed, February 12, 2025 00:25:55

Kneel at her feet for wisdom

Source: Zikoko.com

USA – When it comes to confidence, who is better to learn from than someone who commands power for a living? Enter the world of dominatrixes, where female confidence isn’t just a trait—it’s a lifestyle.

Zikoko sat down with M.E., a lesbian dominatrix, to unpack how she embodies unshakable self-assurance inside and outside the dungeon. We also discussed how women can embrace their confidence both in and out of the bedroom.

How did you get into domination?

I didn’t enjoy being touched during sex, so I had to take charge to avoid physical contact. That naturally led me into domination.

I was curious about the BDSM community and wanted answers from real people, so I sought them out. Their insight helped me get a firm understanding of domination, both in person and online. I also like being soft and helping someone have an enjoyable time — it’s fun seeing their reactions.

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Police Scotland forced to axe domestic violence ad after hiring hardcore porn star for ‘abuse’ vids

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Wed, February 12, 2025 00:17:11

Explicit videos shared show him tied up in bondage ropes with duct tape plastered across his mouth

Source: Thescottishsun.co.uk

SCOTLAND – COPS have been forced to pull a domestic violence warning advert after it emerged one of the men featured also stars in X-rated “abuse” videos.

See more larger photo’s and video’s on: Thescottishsun.co.uk

The Police Scotland ad has been scrapped after it was revealed the force recruited a “kink content” creator, Ross Rankin, to front the ad.

The adult star, who describes himself on X (formerly Twitter) as “a little Scottish boy who can take a lot”, regularly posts hard-core pornographic videos to the platform.

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The Stunning Transformation Of Julia Fox (Julia worked as a dominatrix red BDSMradio.EU)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Tue, February 11, 2025 23:55:07

Source: Thelist.com

USA – When Julia Fox moved from her native Italy to New York City as a child, she couldn’t possibly have known the impact she would eventually have on U.S. pop culture. Fox survived a wild and tragic childhood, and while most 18-year-olds were suffering from senioritis, Fox was working as a dominatrix, a job that gave her financial freedom, not to mention some improv chops. From there, her glow-up was nothing short of dazzling.

See this article with all the links and more larger photo’s: Thelist.com

What you might not know about Julia Fox is that she’s not only a NYC socialite, but she’s also a designer, a multimedia artist, a muse, an actor, and an author. She’s done it all, with a mix of confidence and self-deprecation, humor and pathos, and of course, amazing style. Fox’s It Girl status was cemented during the summer of 2024 when she was name-dropped in Charlie XCX’s hit song “360,” the chorus of which goes, “I’m everywhere/I’m so Julia.” Fox dropped her own single, “Down the Drain,” around the same time, and the lyrics she wrote herself in mere minutes. What’s next for Fox is anyone’s guess, but how she got to where she is today is fascinating. Read on to learn more about the truly stunning transformation of Julia Fox

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How To Be A Good Dom In The Bedroom

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Tue, February 11, 2025 23:33:04

Your role and responsibilities, explained

Source: Elle.com.au

AUSTRALIA – Nicole Kidman’s erotic triumph, Babygirl, has launched a thousand conversations about kink. In particular, it’s tapped into our desire (or equally, for some, a lack thereof) to be dominant or dominated. However, as Nic shows us in the film, picking up a new role in the bedroom is not as easy as it sounds. Many of us could see something we want to try—with little idea of where to go from there.

When it comes to BDSM—that’s: Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/Masochism—there’s usually an imbalance of power. And part of the role of a dominant is to understand and safeguard the rules of play. If you’re looking for beginner’s advice on trying out a dominant or submissive role, we’ve enlisted the guidance of sex and relationships therapist Georgia Grace to shed some light on the practices that make a good dom. But before we get into that, the basics…

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Data Shows That Denver Really Loves Ball Gags. Boulder Has a Different Kink.

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Tue, February 11, 2025 23:24:56

The Front Range really loves butt plugs, according to a global sex toy seller.

Source: Westword.com

USA – Everyone has their kinks, but Colorado’s love of ball gags, erotic books and butt plugs sold by a global sex toy company propelled five different cities to top of the rankings in Lovehoney’s U.S. Sex Map 2025.

The UK-based sexual wellness brand’s map reveals top buyers per capita across more than 1,200 U.S. cities last year. Five Colorado cities were among this year’s top buyers of butt plugs, strap-ons and sex toys in general, pushing Colorado to the top 10 percent of states for total sex toy purchases.

Massachusetts college towns of Somerville and Cambridge ranked first and second, respectively, on the list of top sex toy buyers, while Reston, Virginia in the Washington, D.C., metro area came in at third.

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Spice Responds To Criticism Over ‘Hell NO’ Music Video: ‘I’m Not Kink Shaming’

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Tue, February 11, 2025 23:12:16

Source: Dancehallmag.com

USA – Queen of Dancehall Spice has addressed criticism over her new high school-themed music video for her song, Hell NO, released on January 10. Some viewers have accused the dancehall artist of “kink shaming” due to the song’s lyrics that explicitly reject certain sexual interests and practices.

See more larger photo’s and video’s on: Dancehallmag.com

In Hell NO, Spice critiques behaviors she deems excessive—with lyrics like “Me nah take no golden shower” and “Me nah do no orgy party”—while declaring her boundaries with lines like, “Oh, no, hell no” and “Certain tings I just won’t do.”

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British (BDSM book) author Neil Gaiman accused of sexual assault

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Tue, February 11, 2025 22:52:54

Source: Babel.ua

USA – NEW YORK – Eight women claim to have been sexually assaulted by British writer Neil Gaiman, the author of best-selling novels “Good Omens”, “American Gods”, and “The Sandman”.

The womenʼs stories were published by New York Magazine in the article “Thereʼs No Stop Word. How Bestselling Fantasy Writer Neil Gaiman Hiding His Darkest Sides for Decades” and placed his photo on the cover of the new issue with the caption “Call Me Master”.

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I’m a dominatrix but I couldn’t believe what one man did with his lunch

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Tue, January 14, 2025 00:55:43

Source: Metro.co.uk

UK – There’s not much in my line of work as a dominatrix that leaves me speechless. I’ve seen adult babies and custard-covered naked men, but when a potential client reached out to me and mentioned having a 30 year sandwich fetish, I’ll admit I was flabbergasted.

Samantha – who is appropriately known as Samantha Sandwich online – first got in touch on X a year-and-a-half ago.

When I perused her shadowy profile image, I became bemused at her bread-based tweets which simply include pictures of Warburton’s wholemeal bread, with captions like ‘I’m getting ready’ or ‘I need to freshen up’.

I discovered that Samantha, who is actually heterosexual cis man, would get turned on by her genitals touching sandwiches – it brings her great sexual pleasure – I guess it’s a form of sitophilia, where someone is sexually aroused by food. She enjoys dressing up as a woman, using she/her pronouns, to act out her sexual fantasies.

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Sadistic Dom Doesn’t Let Sub Finish Season Finale (Dominatrix Lucille Bellweather)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Tue, January 14, 2025 00:45:12

Source: Thehardtimes.net

EUGENE, Ore. — Local dominant Lucille Bellweather didn’t allow her submissive Craig Walters to finish the season finale of the show he was watching, confirmed sources who were sexually aroused just thinking about that scenario.

“He said he liked things rough,” said Bellweather while stepping as hard as she could with her eight-inch black heels on the Roku remote. “The usual stuff, like whips and everyday bondage, wasn’t getting him horned up, so I had no choice but to step it up a notch. That’s why I forbade him from watching the season finale of his all-time favorite show ‘Ghosts.’ Sure, he was a little behind on the program, but that just made things all the more sexually pleasing for him. It’s like he was edging primetime CBS television, which is how it’s intended to be consumed.”

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Tolkkinen: Bondage imagery for first-graders? No thanks.

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoeven Tue, January 14, 2025 00:36:33

Rochester superintendent shows courage in pulling “The Rainbow Parade.”

Source: Startribune.com

USA – Picture books are aimed at our youngest readers, using simple, understandable language and concepts. One at a Rochester elementary school library until recently also includes scenes of bondage apparel and public nudity.

They’re a jarring inclusion in author/illustrator Emily Neilson’s otherwise delightful picture book “The Rainbow Parade.” Objections to the illustrations have popped up coast-to-coast since publication in 2022. Was Neilson hoping the notoriety would sell books, perhaps, a la “Maus”? Or maybe her book, written as a memoir of visiting the San Francisco Pride Parade with her two mothers, is simply an honest reflection of what transpires at a Pride parade, or, at least that Pride parade.

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A pro dominatrix and novelist says empathy, curiosity and bravery are key to both jobs

UConn to hold ‘rope bondage’ workshop led by ‘seasoned kinkster’ for ‘Sex Liberation Week’

The University of Connecticut Women’s Center is hosting a ‘hands-on’ workshop on ‘rope bondage’ that is led by a ‘seasoned kinkster’ as part of its annual ‘Sex Liberation Week.’

Students will learn ‘they will learn “basic knot techniques, discuss proper rope handling, and how to communicate with rope partners in a safe and supportive space – with focus on safety, consent, and communication.’

Sexplain It: Help! My GF Wants to Bring the Bathroom to the Bedroom.

I studied with Liz Truss but became a dominatrix – my colleagues drive Range Rovers & send their kids to private schools

We Sat Down With the Wrong Flogging Molly and Now We Owe $600 to an Irish Dominatrix

How To Be More Confident: A Crash Course By A Dominatrix

How did you get into domination?

Police Scotland forced to axe domestic violence ad after hiring hardcore porn star for ‘abuse’ vids

The Stunning Transformation Of Julia Fox (Julia worked as a dominatrix red BDSMradio.EU)

How To Be A Good Dom In The Bedroom

Data Shows That Denver Really Loves Ball Gags. Boulder Has a Different Kink.

Spice Responds To Criticism Over ‘Hell NO’ Music Video: ‘I’m Not Kink Shaming’

British (BDSM book) author Neil Gaiman accused of sexual assault

I’m a dominatrix but I couldn’t believe what one man did with his lunch

Sadistic Dom Doesn’t Let Sub Finish Season Finale (Dominatrix Lucille Bellweather)

Tolkkinen: Bondage imagery for first-graders? No thanks.

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