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54 Bizarre Sexual Fetishes You May Or May Not Regret Knowing About

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Mon, February 27, 2023 02:13:48

Source: Mensxp.com.

WORLDWIDE – When your date asks you about your “sexual fantasies”, it barely takes a minute or two for the thoughts of a threesome and doin’ it on a balcony to arouse.

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But “fetishes”? They just send a silent panic attack into your veins.

Honestly, a fetish simply means to feel aroused by a non-sexual object or action. It’s a connection that gets integrated into childhood.

And it can be as uncommon as feeling aroused by insects. Sounds bizarre? Here’s a whole list of them.

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What your favourite kink says about your personality – from bondage to leather

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Sat, December 04, 2021 14:54:43

EXCLUSIVE: Femme Fatale, an ambassador for the sexting platform Arousr, has discussed the most popular kinks and what they really mean about your personality

Source: Dailystar.co.uk

UK – Ever wondered what your favourite kink says about you?

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It turns out our wants in the bedroom can determine a lot about our personalities.

Now in case you’re wondering, we’ve spoken to a sexpert to find out more about desires between the sheets.

Femme Fatale is an ambassador for the prominent sexting platform Arousr so it’s safe to say she knows her stuff.

With the platform promoting a non-judgemental approach to dirty talk, all users are able to experiment in a safe environment.

Here Femme has provided her experienced insight into what their favourite kink might say about them.

So are you ready?

Cuckolding

If you enjoy watching your wife have sex with various partners, this means that you are adventurous and open-minded.

Femme said: “By watching your wife experience pleasure with another, you feel you have also done your part in helping please her.

“So you may have a smaller than average penis. Who cares!

“Instead of taking a trip down the shame spiral, you find a more suitable sexual partner for your wife to enjoy while you watch.”

Sissification/Feminisation

You might be straight, but behind closed doors you enjoy exploring a more feminine side.

Femme claims these people have the most thrill in taking off their work clothes and slipping into a pair of women’s panties.

She added: “The secrecy of your feminine indulgence is part of what arouses you.

“Far from ever wanting to be a drag queen, you prefer to operate as a sissy boy in private.

“You quite enjoy being bossed around by a dominant female and playing dress-up with her.”

Humiliation

People who are into humiliation are more often than not in positions of power.

If you have a certain degree of power, you’re more than likely in need of a way to release some of your personal responsibilities.

The sexpert said: “Your power in your daily life is constantly being validated, by anyone from employees to your significant other.

“You hold all the cards and make all the important decisions; if not for your strict control, everything might fall apart.

“Vanilla sex is simply not enough to satisfy your urge to be slapped in the face and spat on.”

Bondage

Being into bondage means you enjoy being constrained and love an element of servitude.

Femme reckons this means you enjoy being dominated and used for sexual gratification.

She continued: “You find joy in being a subject of external power and control from a more dominant partner in play.”

Leather Play

If slipping into leather is something that turns you on, it may be that you have hyphepillia where you’re aroused by a material.

Leather as a textile can also signify an association to the BDSM community, as leather play is not only restricted to this textile.

It can also serve as your gateway to whips, paddles, chains, and bondage.

Chastity

Those who are into chastity adore restraint and denial.

Getting close to climax but never being able to finish is what keeps lovers of this kink coming back for more.

But according to Femme, guys who are into this like to be withheld from sexual gratification.

She added: “The longer one restrains from climax, the more they yearn to be controlled and make this feeling of control last.

“This is not a standard sex practice, but it shares similarities to an ancient one you may know as Tantra.”



Top 10 sex fetishes popular among couples right now – from bondage to role play

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted on Fri, October 22, 2021 23:54:53

Source: Dailystar.co.uk.

UK – The most popular fetishes have been revealed using Google Trends data, so which one are you into the most? MatressNextDay conducted the study and compiled a list of the top kinks

See video and more photo’s on: Dailystar.co.uk.

During the start of lockdown, couples spent more time exploring in the bedroom.

Whether it’s being adventurous alone or with a partner, people had time to find themselves between the sheets.

Now the most popular fetishes have been revealed using Google Trends data as MatressNextDay looked into the stats.

It found masochism has become one of the favourites in recent years with a 300% search increase compared to 2020.

Meanwhile in second place with a 250% surge in search in the last year is sploshing.

The company also worked with sex educator Kate Sloan who explained what exactly each fetish is.

Here are the top 10 fetishes, starting from the bottom…

10. Role Play

This came in at 10th place with a 5% search increase over the past year.

Role play is to act out or perform the part of a person or character/or pretending to be in a different situation.

Kate said: “Try meeting up with your partner at a bar or restaurant and pretending you’re two strangers on a first date.

“This is a good roleplay scenario for beginners because you can essentially play the character of yourself, just in a different situation.”

9. Sexual Humiliation

With a search increase of 26% over the past year, sexual humiliation came in at 9th place.

Kate said: “Erotic humiliation is the act of embarrassing someone in order to excite them sexually.

“It’s important to negotiate beforehand so you know which topics are and are not okay to use as humiliation fodder.

“For example, many people don’t like to have their appearance insulted, but find it arousing to be lightly teased about their arousal.”

8. Bondage

In 8th place came bondage, with a 31% search increase over the past year.

Kate said: “Bondage is the act of physically restraining someone for the purposes of erotic excitement.

“This can be done with rope and cuffs.

“Always leave at least two fingers’ worth of space between the restraints and the person’s skin so you don’t cut off their circulation.”

7. Cuckolding

Cuckolding is the 7th most trending fetish among Brits over the last 12 months with a search increase of 61%.

The sexpert explained: “To cuckold someone is to have sex with someone else in front of a partner.

“While many find this to be a hot fantasy, you don’t have to actually incorporate another person to experiment with cuckolding.

“Instead, you can talk dirty to each other about the third party that one of you could have sex with.”

6. Dominance

With a 62% search increase over the past year, dominance is the 6th most trending sex fetish.

Kate revealed: “Dominance is the act of controlling a session or ‘being the boss’ while your partner plays a more submissive role.

“It can be a good, healthy outlet for impulses that would be viewed as too controlling ‘in real life’.”

5. Objectification

In 5th place came objectification, with a 70% search increase over the past year.

Kates describes this as “the practice of treating someone like an object, whether that be an object of sexual desire or a literal object”.

She added: “Good aftercare is crucial for objectification play – spend some time with your partner(s) after a session just hanging out.

“This can help you transition more smoothly back into ‘real life’ after such a psychologically intense experience.”

4. Gagging

Gagging has received a search increase of over 70% as it came in 4th place.

According to Kate “to gag someone is to push an object/body part into their mouth”.

She explained: “Have a safe-signal, since the person won’t be able to talk.

“They could, tap their partner’s arm twice to signal that they want the gagging to stop.”

3. Impact Play

With a search increase of just over 140%, impact play came in at 3rd place.

Kate added: “Impact play can include spanking, paddling, flogging and caning.

“You can also use a stoplight safeword system, where green means ‘keep going’, yellow means ‘please pause and check in with me’.

“And red means ‘stop immediately’.”

2. Sploshing

In 2nd place with a 250% search increase is sploshing.

Sploshing is getting wet and messy during sex usually by incorporating food items.

Kate explained: “The most important thing with sploshing is to do it in a location that’s easy to clean, like in a bathtub.

“Don’t get any sugary substances in or near the vagina if possible, because of the risk of a yeast infection; if you do, rinse the area.”

1. Masochism

The fetish with the highest search trend over the past year is masochism with a 300% search increase compared to the year before.

According to Kate, this is a sexual interest in receiving pain, whether it’s through biting, scratching or spanking.



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