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India Femdom and fetishes: Meet the dominatrixes asserting themselves through their sexuality

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, February 15, 2023 22:17:50

By reaffirming their role as goddesses of kink, four women tell us why it’s a powerful driving force in a patriarchal society

Source: Vogue.in.

INDIA – MUMBAI – Rose, a Mumbai-based professional dominatrix, finds femdom and being assertive almost like an alternative form of therapy. While most of us may turn to meditation or exercise to de-stress, she finds solace in exerting domination, allowing her clients—mostly men—to live out their fantasies and fetishes in a safe space, simultaneously exercising the freedom to do it on her terms. 

See larger photo on: Vogue.in.

“I was always the Alpha in most of my relationships. Some men I dated couldn’t keep up, but others enjoyed being dominated,” she says. However, becoming a professional dominatrix (pro-domme) was never on the cards. “I was hanging out with my best friend one day when he told me I’d be great at femdom. I laughed it off, thinking he was kidding. But he told me I could channel my dominant side into something that would make me feel powerful.” That’s all the convincing she needed.

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Is BDSM a Criminal Offence in New South Wales?

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, February 15, 2023 22:06:32

Source: Sydneycriminallawyers.com.au.

AUSTRALIA – New South Wales man James-Robert Davis is facing several fresh criminal charges after having already spent 21 months behind bars on remand over what has been described as an “obedient BDSM relationship” with numerous women.

See larger photo on: Sydneycriminallawyers.com.au.

The alleged leader of ‘House of Cadifor’, and former Australian Defence Force soldier and prison guard was finally released from custody after his third bail application, since being charged with 40 criminal offences including causing sexual servitude and slavery in respect of several women with which he had a polyamorous relationship  at his rural property near Armidale in the Northern Tablelands of New South Wales. The successful bail application was made after the most serious of those charges were withdrawn.

The latest charges relate to four women and include several counts of assault occasioning actual bodily harm, distributing intimate images without consent and intimidation with intent to cause physical or mental harm.

He has pleaded not guilty to all of the charges and is scheduled to face District Court jury trials in April and May of this year.

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Bondage-obsessed Met officer who was sexually aroused by handcuffing and arresting women is jailed for four years for binding his female housemate’s wrists and ankles with duct tape and telling her: ‘Who are you going to tell? I’m the police’

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, February 15, 2023 21:49:08

Source: Dailymail.co.uk.

USA – A bondage-obsessed Met Police officer who was sexually aroused by handcuffing and arresting women was today jailed for four years for binding the ankles and wrists of a female housemate with duct tape. 

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailymail.co.uk.

PC Sam Grigg also bound the woman’s mouth with tape and cut her with a knife when he eventually took the tape off, after taking ‘pleasure’ in watching her try to escape. 

When the woman threatened to report him to the police, he said: ”Who are you going to tell, I am the police”.’

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I’m a dominatrix(Elizabeth Ayoola) who loves to take control in the bedroom. BDSM helped me heal my sexual trauma and made me more confident.

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, February 15, 2023 21:41:04
  • After years of vanilla sex, I decided to explore BDSM and become a dominatrix.
  • BDSM helped me take back control in the bedroom and reinforce consent.
  • Being a domme helped me heal my sexual trauma and became an act of self-care.

Source: Insider.com.

USA – Post-divorce, I wanted to hit the reset button on everything, including my sex life. At 31, I realized I hadn’t yet experienced the type of sex worthy of being included in the pages of my future memoir.

See larger photo on: Insider.com.

After much introspection, I discovered that sexual shame and misogyny were in the way of my tapping into my sexual prowess. Foresight didn’t tell me that using whips, wax, and ropes and becoming a domme would kick-start my journey to sexual liberation and healing.

My life before BDSM was anything but kinky

When I reflect on my 20s, I have flashbacks to lots of passive sex. I was a missionary princess, and once in a blue moon I’d drive the boat. Many times I wasn’t an active participant. I did just enough to satisfy my partner but wasn’t confident enough to ask for what I needed or to surrender to my sexual urges.

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A Couple Women Banned From Schools Due to OnlyFans

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, February 15, 2023 21:22:41

Florida mom, 31, files lawsuit against her sons’ elementary school for banning her from its grounds and helping on trips because she makes a living through ONLYFANS

  • Victoria Triece, 31, is able to support her two children through the adult website 
  • She was banned from school grounds after a board member shared her pics 
  • She’s suing for monetary damages as well as violation of speech and privacy 

Source: Dailymail.co.uk.

USA – A Florida mother has filed a lawsuit against her sons’ school board after they outed her presence on OnlyFans and banned her from school grounds and field trips.

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailymail.co.uk.

Victoria Triece, 31, is able to support her two children through the adult website and claims she did it so that she could have the ability to be in her child’s life without being hampered by a nine- five job. 

Triece – who has nearly 150,000 Instagram followers, 272,000 TikTok followers and 32,000 on Twitter – has sued them for violating her rights of free speech, free assembly and her right of privacy.

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Dominatrix Viktoria Nasyrova’s DNA found on poisoned cheesecake she allegedly planted to kill ‘lookalike’ friend

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, February 15, 2023 15:51:06

Source: Meaww.com.

USA – NEW YORK – On Monday, January 30, prosecutors argued about guilty verdicts in the terrifying case of Russian-born dominatrix Viktoria Nasyrova. She has been suspected of trying to kill her lookalike friend by giving her a slice of poisoned cheesecake as part of a sick identity-theft plan.

See larger photo on: Meaww.com.

Assistant District Attorney Konstantinos Litourgis, who testified before the jury in Queens Supreme Court, claimed that Nasyrova reportedly left a trail of evidence, including DNA detected on the cheesecake box and multiple jailhouse conversations in which she allegedly bragged about her alleged crimes. “The DNA that was on that container belongs to Viktoria Nasyrova,” he declared in his opening statements, as reported by the New York Post.

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Let Yung Miami Enjoy Her Golden Showers In Peace

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, February 15, 2023 13:44:04

I FOR ONE AM HAPPY THAT SHE FELT OPEN ENOUGH TO SHARE HER KINKS WITH THE WORLD AND LOOK FORWARD TO THE DAY WHEN ALL BLACK WOMEN CAN DO THE SAME.

Source: Essence.com.

USA – Despite it only being a few weeks into 2023, the trending topic “Pee Diddy” let me know that this won’t be the year we accept sexually liberated Black women as members of society. On a recent episode of her show Caresha Please with guest, rapper Trina, “Yung Miami,” aka Caresha Brownlee, revealed that she enjoys having her partners urinate on her. “Golden showers,” also known as “watersports,” involve urination as part of a kink. A golden shower is when someone urinates directly onto another person; however, it can also involve someone drinking urine or gargling it. 

See more and larger photo’s on: Essence.com.

Whether or not you’re into golden showers, it’s never okay to kink shame someone for their sexual desires, especially if those desires are among consenting adults. Unfortunately, it’s common. Conversations about sexuality are often regarded as taboo or inappropriate in the Black community, but this shouldn’t be! Being able to talk openly about sexual desires and interests without judgment or fear of repercussions is essential when looking at sex holistically as something that can bring joy and pleasure instead of shame or guilt. And furthermore, as Black women, we should be leading the charge to help normalize talking openly about sex instead of playing respectability politics. 

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Dominatrix (Ana Kalistasia) contacts NFL chief Roger Goodell with offer to ‘inspect the chains’

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, February 15, 2023 13:34:14

Source: Dailystar.co.uk.

USA – A chain used to measure the first down marker broke during last weekend’s New York Giants vs Philadelphia Eagles playoff showdown, but it may have just been the best thing to happen to the NFL

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailystar.co.uk

A professional dominatrix has made a saucy officer to the NFL following the chain fiasco that held up the New York Giants 7-38 Philadelphia Eagles playoff game last weekend.

But the chains that Ana Kalistasia is used to working with aren’t really designed to measure first down markers in American Football. Not that that’s stopped her from offering her services to NFL Commissioner Roger Goddell, which while unorthodox – may just boost ratings.

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EXCLUSIVE: Biden’s FCC nominee Gigi Sohn sits on board of nonprofit that wants to uphold online sex work and that honored an OnlyFans dominatrix who boasts about urinating on faces

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, February 15, 2023 13:20:15
  • Gigi Sohn joined the board of the Electronic Frontier Foundation in 2018 
  • In 2020, the EFF honored dominatrix Mistress Blunt with a ‘pioneer award’ 
  • If confirmed, Sohn would tip the FCC’s Democratic majority 3-2  

Source: Dailymail.co.uk.

USA – Gigi Sohn, President Biden’s pick for a vacant seat on the Federal Communications Commission, is a proud member of a nonprofit that wants to uphold sex work online, and which honors sex workers including a dominatrix who boasts about urinating on people’s faces.  

See more and larger photo’s on: Dailymail.co.uk.

The organization is called the Electronic Frontier Foundation and is designed to protect free speech online.

The group protested against SESTA – a legislation introduced under the Trump administration – that cracks down on sex trafficking in 2017, claiming it would ‘censor’ sex work. 

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You’re Watching Fetish Videos on TikTok Without Even Knowing It

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, February 15, 2023 13:04:51

Foot, food, and messy fetishists are having a field day on TikTok.

Source: Lifehacker.com.

WORLDWIDE – We’ve all seen the videos—life hacks, cooking videos, and more that are so ridiculous you think, “no one would ever actually do that.” Sure, many of them are courting the engagement that can come from our confused reactions, that thought of “let me ridicule this by sharing it,” but some of these videos are straight-up fetish videos disguised as life hacks and other types of content. Like, check out this video that purports to show the application of a spray-on tattoo, or this video of a bride cutting the dress of a bridesmaid. It’s clear there is something going on here—maybe it’s not clear what is going on, but you can be sure that someone, somewhere is getting off to it.

See larger photo’s on: Lifehacker.com.

TikTok policy prohibits videos that depict sexual fetishes, but how “sexual fetishes” are defined can be be slippery. These life hack, comedy, or prank style videos might not show people in latex and chains, but they share so many familiar tropes and structures with fetish content and depict things that are so out-of-the-ordinary, it’s hard to not see them as porn. Porn for someone, anyway.

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Trina Opens Up About Her Relationship With Tory Lanez(Golden Showers)

BDSM Media News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, February 15, 2023 12:56:56

Source: Rap-up.com.

USA – Trina has dated some of hip-hop’s most famous men, but Tory Lanez is not one of them.

See larger photo & video on: Rap-up.com.

The Miami rap icon opened up about her relationship with the incarcerated Toronto rapper. During her appearance on REVOLT’s “Caresha Please,” she revealed that Tory had a crush on her, but they never took it any further.

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