- Dominatrix Lola Jean says being great at trash talk requires emotional vulnerability.
- Before trying trash talk, make sure you partner is interested. Talk about boundaries and safe words or cues.
Source: Businessinsider.in.
USA – In the hit Netflix show “Sex Education,” school teacher Ms. Sands finds herself stumped when her boyfriend and fellow teacher Mr. Hendricks requests she trash talk him during their sexcapades. She has no clue where to begin and appears visibly uncomfortable delivering her first attempts.
Her experience isn’t unique for first-time trash talkers.
Luckily, bedroom trash talk is a skill that can be learned with practice and a few ground rules, according to Lola Jean, a 30-year-old sex educator and dominatrix who specializes in trash-talk and wrestling kinks. Jean has even made a career out of verbally teasing men and feeding into their deepest insecurities at their request.
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