Source: Women.com.
USA – Bondage and discipline. Sadomasochism. Dominance and submission. Even if you’re not really into anything more than vanilla sex (nothing wrong with that), chances are that you’ve heard about BDSM in all its kinky glory. We know about toys, from handcuffs, ropes, whips, and chains, to vibrators. While some might assume that BDSM sessions end up in a lively romp in the sack, there is one type of domme/sub relationship that doesn’t have to end with any physical contact; in some cases, the dominatrix and the submissive don’t plan on meeting each other at all. At the apex of this type of relationship is the financial dominatrix, also known as a findomme, who uses money instead of sex to control a submissive, who is commonly known as a finsub or a pay pig.
Financial dominatrixes and their submissives usually make initial contact online, via social media like Twitter, where pay pigs are invited to “worship” a findomme when she posts a photo. Think of these posts as ads, which call on prospective subs to send a “tribute” which can be in the form of cash or a gift. Prospective doms can also advertise their services on sites like findom.com, where more explicit videos and images are shared. There are no stereotypes for the type of men who choose to submit themselves to humiliation by paying for it. Some may be single, others may be married with families.
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