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Meet an 85-year-old dominatrix

BDSM Media News Posted on Sat, October 24, 2015 03:58:06

Source: Pagesix.com.

Viva la France!

FRANCE – Notorious 85-year-old dominatrix Catherine Robbe-Grillet makes a rare appearance Wednesday night at the French Institute Alliance Française on East 59th Street.

“Get a fascinating glimpse inside the secret ceremonies and sadomasochistic rites of Madame and her companion/submissive Beverly Charpentier,” FIAF’s website suggests.

The two women live in a 17th-century château in Normandy where they “conduct elaborate private ceremonies that demand incredible acts of devotion and submission.”

Robbe-Grillet is the subject of Lina Mannheimer’s documentary “La Cérémonie,” which premiered at the 2015 South by Southwest Film Festival.

Toni Bentley — author of a profile of Robbe-Grillet that ran last year in Vanity Fair, “The Thin End of the Whip” — will moderate the discussion. Ooh la la!



Dominatrix Mistress Dita auctions off ‘stilettos and handbags’ for boy battling brain tumour

BDSM Media News Posted on Sat, October 24, 2015 03:26:28

Source: Hulldailymail.co.uk.

UK – Hull – THEY showered her with gifts including designer handbags and 6in stilettos as she made them obey her every command.

Now, Hull dominatrix Mistress Dita has sold her designer presents in an online auction to help Church of England vicar Phil Lamb raise money for a sick little boy.

Mistress Dita, also known as Julie Preston, was moved by the plight of Brett Scott, nine, after he was diagnosed with a brain tumour and his family was told his best chance of survival was proton therapy in America.

She held a 24-hour auction on Facebook, selling a pair of £700 Christian Louboutin designer shoes, Prada handbags and other presents to raise £2,000.

“In my game, I get a lot of presents like designer shoes and handbags,” said Ms Preston, who appeared in a Channel Four documentary about her work in the sex industry last year.

“But I’m a Hessle Roader at heart and I’m happier in flip-flops so it’s wasted on me.

“I’d heard about the little lad and what he was going through, so I thought I’d try and raise a bit of money for him.”

Brett had only just started walking when his parents, who live in Hornsea, noticed he was leaning to one side. Tests showed an aggressive tumour known as an anaplastic ependymoma.

At just two years old, Brett underwent surgery and 18 months of chemotherapy.

During a routine scan six months ago, a radiographer spotted something suspicious on the image and Brett was asked to return in six months instead of the usual year.

The latest scan showed the tumour had returned and Brett underwent a further operation.

Although he shows no outward sign of illness, Brett is preparing to fly to Oklahoma next month for 11 weeks of proton therapy.

Rev Lamb, the vicar at St Nicholas Church in Hornsea, started the appeal on Facebook – Supporting Young Brett Scott – and within days, people had donated £5,000 to support the family during their stay in America.

Ms Preston’s auction total of £2,000 has boosted the target to more than £7,000 after the Louboutin shoes, with their famous red lacquered soles, sold for £170.

She said: “I couldn’t have done this without the support of people in Hull and everyone has come together for the sake of this little lad. It just shows we can make a difference when we put our mind to it.”

Rev Lamb praised Ms Preston for donating her time and possessions to helping Brett.

He said: “It’s fantastic she has wanted to help.”

‘Response restores faith in humanity’

With little more than two weeks to go until the family leaves for America, Rev Lamb hopes funding can reach £10,000.

Two fundraisers have been organised at the Walton Street Club in west Hull on October 23, and the Pelican pub in James Reckitt Avenue, east Hull on November 7.

Rev Lamb said: “It’s been a brilliant response and it just restores your faith in humanity. This family have sleepless nights anyway, knowing the tumour has come back, but this has maybe eased some of the pressure on them.”

People can post donations through the vicarage door in Hornsea or send them to The Vicarage, 9 Newbegin, Hornsea HU18 1AB.

Visit the campaign’s Facebook page or go to www.paypal.com/uk/webapps/mpp/send-money-online and type in “craigscot@live.co.uk” to make a donation.



The Sexual Challenge This Dominatrix Has For You

BDSM Media News Posted on Sat, October 24, 2015 03:13:23

Source: Huffingtonpost.com. USA

USA – Whenever we hear “sex education,” most people imagine a high school health class teacher outlining the basics: monthly periods, the human development cycle, birth control, and maybe an uncomfortable informational film. However, the topics in these classes barely skim the surface of the depth and breadth of our human sexuality.

For each individual, sexuality is a process of self-discovery, and it can be one of the most invigorating journeys of your life.

Did you know that both male and female genitals come from the same embryonic tissue and are identical in the first stage of fetal development? During the whole first stage, the sex of the fetus remains undetermined. After the first stage, the addition of a Y chromosome produces testosterone, which leads to the external and internal sexual differentiation of a male, or an additional X chromosome will prompt production of estrogen, leading to a female.

Some theories espouse that these hormones actually encode our brains before birth — and that the many external social factors we experience during childhood development do not determine our sexual and gender identity. Some medical researchers even theorize that our sexual orientation — whether we consider ourselves heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual — is something that is hard-wired into our brains.

As I was deciding to become a professional dominatrix and fetishist, I asked myself, ‘Can I handle other people’s judgmental attitudes about my sexuality? Can I accept another person’s sexuality without judgment?’ In the end, I decided I could — or at least that I would try. It was a slow process that required me to first deal with my relationship to my own sexuality, and then to practice my free will enough to choose how I wished to express and explore it in my everyday life.

One conversation that never got old at the dungeon (the BDSM/fetish club I used to work in) was sexual preference. It was actually very empowering and freeing to hear a group of women speak openly about their sexualities. Never before had I heard women express with such confidence their gender preferences, curiosities about sex, and interests.

On my second day of work as a Mistress, we sat around the lounge creating my image. I had no clue how I was going to present myself as a Mistress, but I knew I wanted to operate with class and dignity. Seeing my hesitation, Mistress Deborah chimed in: “I’m going to tell you exactly who you are. You are the sexy cougar, mommy, aunt, school teacher, and so on. You are so sexy, I would fuck you myself, and I don’t even like white girls!”

Well, hot damn! I thought to myself. I’d never heard a woman speak so openly about her sexual preference for the ladies in public! Lesbian, bisexual, straight, formerly lesbian now bisexual, formerly bi now straight — the attitude around the dungeon was “change happens.” In other words, whatever floated my boat six months ago may not be working for me anymore, and that’s okay.

What it boils down to is personal growth, personal progress, and personal choice.

Sex education really doesn’t begin or end in high school. Instead, it’s a lifelong process that begins and ends with you. One of the most important things we can learn is the almost unimaginable variety that can happen in our sexuality and the sexuality of others. Likes, dislikes, turn-ons and offs, wants, needs and desires can be exceedingly different from one person to the next, and our desires usually change and develop as we do.

It’s incredibly freeing and empowering to truly experience, express, develop, and embrace our sexuality without judgment. In fact, it’s healing.
So, I challenge you to ask yourself the same questions I did when I first started exploring new forms of sexuality as a dominatrix — Can you be authentic about what you feel and desire even if others may not understand you right away? Can you let go of assumptions, judgments, and fears about how other people express their sexuality and instead learn from others with an open mind? I can promise from experience that if you decide to answer “yes” to both of these questions, you will experience freedom, personal growth, and healing like you’ve never felt before. Let your curiosity be your sex education teacher, and you will learn more than you ever thought possible.