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BDSM mistress sets up business to dominate men with PVC, bondage and role-play (Madame C)

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, June 18, 2022 03:59:01

Source: Dailystar.co.uk.

UK – SURREY – Madame C, from Surrey, England, is a fetish practitioner and BDSM mistress who is on a mission to give people everything they need to fulfil their wildest dreams and fantasies

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A fetish practitioner and BDSM mistress is helping people explore their deepest, darkest desires.

Madame C, from Surrey, England, has decades of experience as a professional mistress and as a cross-dressing studio owner.

The highly-skilled dominatrix shares her skills with others so that they “can have the pleasure you deserve”.

She achieves this through a variety of ways, such as medical examination, heavy bondage and role-play.

“I am on a mission to give you everything you want to fulfil your wildest dreams and live the one life you have been given and deserve,” she has written on her website.

“I am so excited to teach you the skills to reframe outdated and dysfunctional cultural and social beliefs of fantasy, sex, self-exploration and relationships.

“I will teach you to unlock your innate capabilities to let go and travel even deeper within your mind reaching your ultimate pleasure zones, and then, slip even deeper into a place of absolute bliss.

“The world I have created for you is a playground for the physical and a limitless space for your mind to explore.”

Madame C works in playrooms with bondage equipment and accessories, such as penis pumps, male milking machines, strap ons, chastity devices and exploration toys.

There is also a whole range of outfits for Madame C to wear, such as rubber mistress, headmistress, policewoman, judge, governess and nurse.

Clients can choose a variety of her services, such as heavy bondage in the dungeon, a rubber doll experience, the medical clinic and cross-dressing.

If customers want to experience role-play, Mistress C will help them explore a variety of different scenarios.

“What Studio Kink offers is a platform on which to explore and enact these experiences through role-play,” she explained.

“I devise creative, spontaneous and realistic play in a setting with props and outfits that will trigger past experience feelings.

“I take the dominant role and guide you through your fantasy using role-play.”

Some of the role-play scenarios she offers are The boy who has been sent to the therapist for sissy training, the naughty nephew caught peeking at auntie as she changes and the underperforming male employee in the female-run office.

Over the years Madame C has met individuals who are all on a quest for the ultimate experience of alternative kinky play.

She has said that every single one of them has been different and unique and has helped widen her knowledge about the world of sexual fantasies.

“My passion, experience, and personal exploration of kink, psychology and exploring fantasy play over three decades has been the building blocks for creating Studio Kink,” she shared.https://get-latest.convrse.media/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.dailystar.co.uk%2Flove-sex%2Fbdsm-mistress-sets-up-business-27180333&cre=bottom&cip=28&view=web

“I have created a space where you can safely discuss and explore thoughts, feelings and fantasies in a specially designed and equipped environment.

“Your time with me will allow you to close the door on your daily routine and the person you are.

“You will enter a safe space where you can explore and share your deepest fantasies in a non-judgmental empathetic environment.”



Swindon dominatrix reveals the reality of sex work in the town

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, June 18, 2022 03:27:17

Source: Swindonadvertiser.co.uk.

UK – SWINDON – A sex worker based in Swindon has spoken about what it’s like being a dominatrix in the town. 

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The 47-year-old who goes by the stage name ‘Kaz B’ revealed she makes around £35,000 by visiting clients all over the South West as well as through her own Onlyfans page. 

“I’ve done all sorts of things. Some people might have a fetish for spanking or extreme bondage, some have a foot fetish and like to massage the feet.

“There’s corporal punishment, whips, paddles and ties. Some men like to be treated like women and crossdress, some like to be humiliated.”

The dominatrix, who recently moved back in with her mother in Central Swindon, was keen to stress that while a lot of people get uncomfortable when it comes to fetishes and sex work, there’s a “real, beautiful, human element” to it that often gets overlooked.

“When I first got into it most of my clients were quite well-to-do men over 50, but more and more it’s opening up and I’m seeing a lot of younger clients from all different kinds of backgrounds – everyone has their own kinks and fetishes which they might not be able to express,” she said.

“Seeing me is therapy for a lot of people. I’ve started a podcast where myself and other sex workers talked about the stigma of having a fetish, and how men often face a lot of shame in their lives.”

She explained that a lot of her clients lacked confidence and thought less of themselves because of their kinks.

“Years and years ago another dominatrix and I were domming a young man who wanted to be humilated but it was too much for him and he ended up telling us he needed to stop and started bawling his eyes out.

“We ended up just getting a Chinese and watching a movie with him.”

Asked what her friends and family thought about it, Kaz B said they ‘didn’t mind’ and that while they ask her to share stories she keeps shtum about what her clients get up to.

Kaz B added that she has got to know a lot of her clients at a deep level and has seen them grow as people as a result. She said this positivity doesn’t get acknowledged enough in the industry.

But being a sex worker has also helped her overcome a troubled upbringing and mental hangups of her own and improved her confidence as well. 

“I have always been really shy,” she said. “I was bullied at school and I was in an abusive relationship when I was younger. 

“Sex work has really helped because it’s fulfilling and rewarding to help somebody be who they should be. You get this private bond with someone which helps them but it also helps you. 

“It has helped me work through my own issues and anxiety.”

Kaz B is also an aspiring filmmaker, a novelist and is currently in the process of making a documentary to further break down the stigma attached to sex work and what she does.

Links:

Website: UK-fetish.co.uk

Twitter: Twitter.com/kazbxx

Instagram: Instagram.com/fetishdomme



‘I ditched teaching to become a financial dominatrix – men send me money for nothing’

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, June 18, 2022 02:37:58

Source: Mirror.co.uk.

UK – Lana Michaels claims she makes around £100k a year through her Loser Club, which helps men get on track in aspects of their life while fulfilling their sexual fantasies

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A woman who used to discipline students for a living has revealed how she swapped teaching for an unorthodox new career as a financial dominatrix.

Lana Michaels, who calls herself the Loser Life Coach, earns up to £100k every year for “absolutely nothing.”Ads by 

After moving from the UK to Murcia, Spain, three years ago, Lana looked for alternative work due to the pandemic – and discovered adult streaming platform Fansly.

After joining the platform and experimenting with different types of content, she found subscribers started sending her money for no apparent reason.

“I would receive messages saying that they sent it because I am a goddess and they are worthless losers,” she said.

“Some asked me to be mean to them or for certain things in return but it was always simple things like a couple of photos or a voice/video call tipping much more than I would usually charge.”

As these unusual requests grew, Lana realised she had found a niche.

She said: “I began researching the niche and I started to understand it more and more. I joined self help groups for recovering finsubs (what they call the person who is being financially dominated).

“I asked many questions about how it made them feel to keep sending money over and over until they regretted it.

“I found that they often lacked self esteem, were virgins, had humiliation kinks, had controlling parents, gambling, drink or drug addictions and many more things.”

However, after she realised many of the men sending her money were suffering from poor mental health, Lana realised she needed to change her approach to financial domination in order to protect them.

She founded the Loser Club, where she took on clients who needed to make changes in their lives – but who also wanted to pay for her steamy content.

“I could use their sexual urges to help them make some changes and also satisfy their sexual needs and fetishes all in one with my content,” she explained.

She added clients now pay her to take control of certain aspects of their lives – which could include personal training, improving their social skills, being their agony aunt or even training so they can last longer in sex.https://get-latest.convrse.media/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.mirror.co.uk%2Fnews%2Fweird-news%2Fi-ditched-teaching-become-financial-26997207&cre=center&cip=21&view=web

Lana said she gives the coaching in the form of sexual roleplay – so she’ll assume the position of a dominatrix by talking down to her client until he shows progress (at which point she’ll praise him).

She explained: “The subscriber receives new daily tasks and has to send back video evidence for sexual content rewards or attention. The ‘loser’ has to call me Mistress Lana.

“Most of my clients make real improvements over time in many aspects of their lives for example holding down their jobs better, physical appearance, meeting the love of their life, overcoming addictions and some have even claimed to have cut down or given up antidepressants altogether.”

After ditching a career that she claims brought in £21,000 a year, Lana is now raking in the cash and has spent tens of thousands on cosmetic surgery.



A LIKELY TORY 

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Mon, May 09, 2022 01:37:03

MP Neil Parish searched for ‘Dominator combine harvester’ before stumbling across porno filth in Commons, pals say

Source: Thesun.co.uk.

UK – THE MP caught watching porn in the Commons was looking for Dominator combine harvesters, pals said last night.

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Tory Neil Parish claimed to have searched for tractors before stumbling across filth.

Devon councillor Colin Slade said he “could see” how the MP might have mixed up a Dominator with a dominatrix.

Farmer Parish, 65, quit after saying he was looking for ­“tractors” and got “into another website with sort of a very similar name”.

A Claas Dominator 76 combine harvester was spotted yesterday on Parish’s farm in Bridgwater, north Somerset.

Sceptics will point out that it is not a tractor — but Mr Slade insisted: “I believe it to be true.”

Another councillor pal Ray Radford told The Sun: “If he was googling combine harvesters and tractors and so on he might have stumbled across something by mistake, whether he pressed the wrong button or not, who knows?”

He added: “I’ve got no doubt it was a bit unfortunate.”

Parish said he stumbled on the X-rated video — but later watched it again at the side of the chamber waiting to vote.

The Business Secretary said Parish did “the right thing” resigning his seat in Tiverton and Honiton — forcing a by-election for the Government.

But Kwasi Kwarteng rejected claims Parliament is dominated by sleaze, and instead blamed a “few bad apples”.

It comes after a Sunday Times report detailed alleged drunken behaviour, including a senior MP repeatedly licking researchers’ faces in bars.

A minister was also allegedly overheard frequently having “noisy sex” in his office, while a female Tory was reportedly sent a “d**k pic” by a colleague.

Mr Kwarteng accepted the allegations were “extraordinary and unacceptable”.

But he told Sky’s Sophy Ridge on Sunday shutting down Commons bars would be “excessively puritanical”.

He added: “I don’t think there is a culture of misogyny. The problem we have is people are working in a really intense environment. There are long hours and I think generally most people know their limits.”

He also told the BBC’s Sunday Morning show that Parliament is a safe place for women to work.

He said: “We’ve got to distinguish between some bad apples, people who behave badly, and the general environment.”



TOE THE LINE I’m a dominatrix and I get paid for people to suck my toes… I hate it but my clients can’t get enough

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, December 04, 2021 14:09:30

Source: Thesun.co.uk

UK – BRISTOL – A DOMINATRIX says she HATES it when clients suck her toes but they can’t get enough.

Carmen says most of her customers have a foot fetish and pay to suck and play with her toes.

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The professional domme first became involved in the sex industry when she was 18 and has also worked in strip clubs and as a cam girl.

Out of all the services she provides, foot fetishes are her least favourite. 

She said: “I hate foot stuff but I get paid so much for it. 

“I hate someone sucking my toes, but they do not want to get kicked all the time so you just have to suck it up.

“Feet are such a common fetish. I do not touch their feet, they are the ones worshipping me.

“Massaging and sucking them [her feet] are the things you get the most.” 

Her main source of income is working in a Bristol strip club, but she’s also spent time working in the sex industry abroad – and has previously done “full service sex work”, more commonly known as prostitution.

Carmen – a woman in her 20s – said some of her clients for dominatrix work want to be insulted and others want to be beaten up, sometimes to the point where they pass out.

She has a wide range of clients and said there’s a variety of reasons why people request her services. 

“Different people want different things. I just ask them straight what they want and then I can just say if this is something I can provide or not. 

“You have to be direct because otherwise you can put yourself in a dangerous situation, as well as wasting everyone’s time.”

Carmen said she finds most of her clients online, advertising on adult work websites and also via social media platforms such as Twitter. 

They normally go to a hotel the client has booked and she will only go to their house if she has met them a few times. 

Some bookings are just for an hour or two while others can last up to seven hours if the client wants to take her out for dinner or to go to bars, adding that some like to show her off.

Everyone has got a different fetish or kink. Carmen

“I used to see more clients, but it takes a lot of time and energy,” she continued. 

“It is mainly regulars that I do now. I only do it [dominatrix work] a couple of times a month now.

“If you get on with the client, you can have fun and have a lovely evening. It is like any other job.”

Carmen said 90 per cent of her clients for dominatrix work are men, but gets some clients who are non-binary or trans as they feel safe with someone who is also LGBTQ+.

She said her regular clients are the ones that are more well off and that their ages start at late 20s.

“If they are just booking you for a couple of hours, most people already know what they want to explore,” she continued. 

“It is just their kink – everyone has got a different fetish or kink.

“I think it is very important for people to be able to express them [their fetish and kinks] in a consensual and safe manner.”

Carmen said she has never had any problems while working as a dominatrix, but that she takes some safety precautions such as sharing her location before a booking.

If the client is willing to give it, she will ask for ID, she continued, and she also takes a deposit of up to 50 per cent, before adding that these days she does not need to take a booking if she is not comfortable with it.

MAY AS WELL GET PAID

Carmen first became involved in the sex industry when she was 18, working in a strip club in the north of England.

However, she only did it for a few months at that point as she was not prepared for it mentally.

“It was too much,” she said. “I did not have the right tools to navigate it and I also looked very young.

“I started full-time again when I was 22 or 23. In between, I worked in hospitality. For the amount of harassment I got in bars, I thought I may as well get paid for it.”

Carmen said that initially she was just working in strip clubs, adding that she likes the performance side of the job and that getting used to the other dancers and the unwritten rules of each club are the hardest aspects.

When returning to Bristol in her mid 20s, Carmen became involved in more sides of the sex industry. 

It was around this time that she started working as a dominatrix, which does not involve penetrative sex. Instead, she offers services such as ‘Goddess worshipping’, spit play and ‘water sports’. 

Carmen said that the amount of money she makes is really variable so it is wise to try to save as much as she can in the good times.

She said she also performs all over the UK and Europe, with her shows including pole dancing, burlesque and cabaret.

Performing is her creative outlet, she continued, and she enjoys it best when she can do something really different. At the moment, her ‘Magic Mike’ performance is her favourite as she gets to play with gender and have fun.

Her plan is to go travelling again soon who sees herself working in the sex industry until her mid-thirties when she would like to start working as a pole-dancing teacher.



Pub reopens as an upmarket sex club complete with a bondage dungeon, bar and sauna

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Mon, September 13, 2021 02:03:17

Source: Mirror.co.uk.

UK – DEVON – A run-down Devon pub has been converted into an upmarket sex club complete with a bondage dungeon, sauna and dance floor.

Within Temptation opened as a private members’ club that caters for single people and “swinging” couples.

It has a fully-equipped bondage dungeon, a swimming pool, showers, “play rooms” with space for 30 or more people at a time and a pole-dancing area, DevonLive reports.

It also has a bar, a dance floor and a sauna.

The owners say people are travelling hundreds of miles to see what the former Hop and Grapes pub is like as membership is skyrocketing.

Nikki, one of the partners behind the “lifestyle venue” venture, told DevonLive: “It’s all about enjoyment.

Dave, the other owner, added: “It might not be everybody’s cup of tea, but it will be for a lot of people.”

The venue transformed over the lockdown after a £370,000 revamp and opened in July.

Nikki and Dave say they were encouraged to renovate the old pub and invest it by the council.

They also had no problems with licensing.

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Adults Only viewers stunned as dominatrix electrocutes 72-year-old’s penis

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Mon, November 30, 2020 02:58:31

Adults Only star Jenny astonished viewers as she revealed she squashes men with her bottom and electrocutes their penises

Source: Mirror.co.uk.

UK – Channel 5’s Adults Only viewers were shocked as dominatrix Jenny explained what her clients ask her for in her steamy sessions.

Jenny showed her friend Mistress Sofia her array of sex toys and torture devices including a paddle, whips, and a breath play mask.

“What do you do most of?” asked Mistress Sofia.

Jenny replied: “Whipping, a lot of breath play, sitting on them, some just like to be sat on, they like to feel the weight.

“I had this one guy, 84 years old, bless his heart, he was a real frail old man, must have weighed about eight stone, I’m 19 [stone].

“His fantasy was to struggle under the weight of a big woman, but when he started to really struggle for breath I thought, “Oh I’d better roll off now!’

“A**e worship that is my biggest thing, they like to get on their knees and like me to push their faces against the wall, and squash them with my big a**e.”

She continued: “I get this 72-year-old come in for electrocution on his nipples, on his b****nd, on his b**s and one up his a**e, and I control the voltage.

“I’m usually a bit wicked and I pinch the end of his b****nd at the same time, he screams! That’d make you dance!”

One stunned viewer tweeted: “I honestly don’t know who would pay for that! #AdultsOnly “.

“What 72! dirty old git… Electrocution……” remarked another.

A third wondered: “Watching this #adultsonly programme.. anyone want to pay me to do weird stuff?”

Mistress Sofia recently appeared on This Morning, where she told hosts Holly Willoughby and Phil Schofield: “There are so many different aspects to it, some [clients] could want punishment, some want to be dressed in a beautiful little maid’s outfit, some just want to be submissive, they want to be humiliated.

Some do it because it’s a little quirk, for others it’s a need, they need to be submissive, in their home lives they are not, they have high powered jobs.

“I have got everyone from judges down to dustman, it doesn’t matter what your lifestyle is, if it’s in you it’s in you to be submissive, and not all women want a submissive partner.”

* Adults Only is available to watch now on My5

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World’s oldest dominatrix charges clients £120 an hour to do her cleaning and DIY – and doesn’t have sex with them

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Mon, November 30, 2020 02:24:26

Source: Metro.co.uk.

UK – A woman who declares herself to be ‘the world’s oldest dominatrix’ has baffled This Morning viewers by revealing she doesn’t sleep with clients – just humiliates them.

Sherry from Swindon – who goes by the name Mistress Sophia – has high-rising clients including surgeons and politicians who turn to her to fulfil their desire to be mistreated and relinquish control.

Charging £120 an hour, Mistress Sophia uses them to clean her house, do her DIY, before flogging them, putting them in shackles and dressing them up in embarrassing costumes.

As a result, she is left feeling empowered, and declared: ‘I’m a masochist, darling.’

Speaking to Holly Willoughby and Phillip Schofield, the 67-year-old – who has previously appeared on First Dates – said that she took on the job after a divorce from her husband.

Calling herself ‘a bit of a mouse’ before taking on the role, she was forced to get creative when money became tight and her job as a chef wasn’t paying the bills.

‘I happened to see this documentary about phone chat girls, and so I spoke to my children to make sure they were okay about it and I started doing that,’ she explained. ‘I realised that so many of the calls involved domination.

‘It was actually my daughter Amy that said you’re doing it on the phone for peanuts, why not do it for real?’

While some want punishment, others want to be humiliated and be submissive, and Mistress Sophia has a series of whips, chains, shackles and costumes to put them in – even sometimes taking them out for a walk around her area.

‘It’s great because you get stuff done around the house!’ Phillip admitted. ‘I mean there’s this one guy comes over and does your DIY, then he cane him, and then there’s another one that polishes your kitchen floor while he dances in a pink dress to the Nutcracker.’

‘I just love the adoration. I like the empowerment,’ the dominatrix added.

‘It isn’t sexual for me, it is purely the dominant part. I’m a very dominant person. I didn’t used to be but I am now. It’s kind of come out as I’ve got older, really, and made me a better person for it.’

Viewers found her hilarious – and couldn’t resist thinking she’s found a nifty life hack for those odd jobs needing to be done around the home

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Meet Scots ‘dominatrix’ Lady Voluptua who appeared on Channel 5’s Plus Sized Porn

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, October 24, 2020 04:28:06

Lady Voluptua appeared on the show on Monday to talk about her life as a dominatrix.

Source: Dailyrecord.co.uk.

UK – GLASGOW – Lady Voluptua is a Scottish dominatrix who you might have seen on the new Channel 5 show Plus Sized Porn.

The dominatrix, whose real name is Lisa, caters to a specialised sector of the sex market – for those that like super-sized big women or BBW (Big Beautiful Women) as the sector is widely know as.

Lisa, who is from Glasgow, revealed that she knew quite early on in her life that she was into ‘kink’.

She said: “I discovered my kink very early on. I think I’ve always been kinky, I was eleven and my twelve-year-old friend told me about bondage and I thought ‘Ohhh, what’s this?’ and I kind of knew I was kinky and then when I met my husband we explored it more and we were quite switchy and would take the different roles and that’s how we explored it.

She added: “I never joined the scene at all until my marriage was over – that was when I was like right, that’s it, I’m going to out and I’m going to have great fun and go to the kink clubs.

“I went from being a sub to a slave, and I just thought it wasn’t fulfilling me. I think the submissive in me just disappeared and when I found that I was being more dominant, I actually got more out of it sexually and it’s the sense of power, the power exchange and the energy that you exchange with them.”

As well as enjoying what she was doing, Lisa realised there was a gap in the market for this and decided to turn it into a source of income.

She said: “It’s a really good rush and that’s when I thought, ‘oh, I could really do this and earn money from it’ because there were a lot of submissive guys, but not a lot of dominant women.

On the Channel 5 programme, Lisa can be seen demonstrating a technique of BDSM called ‘Breath play’, where she restricts a clients breathing by placing her stomach over their face.

Breath play is a very dangerous act which should only be attempted by experienced ‘practitioners’.

Lisa decided to rebrand herself as Lady Voluptua in a bid to fully embrace her size and place in the market.

She said: “I really don’t care what other people think. I’m up for a bit of badness. I actually really want to f**k s**t up in terms of how fat people are perceived.”

Lisa said that the BBW market for sex workers is quite crowded so she needs to be extra creative to be able to stand out from the rest.

She also caters for men who are often embarrassed about their desires to be dominated by BBWs.

She said: “At the end of the day all we are really doing is catering to people’s fantasies and fetishes and fulfilling a need where they maybe can’t get it at home or they are worried that perhaps if they are married their wife or family will reject them, they can come to a safe place.

“It can also be a form of therapy, although we would never say that we are therapists because obviously we are not qualified, but f**k it, it’s whatever floats your boat.”

On her website Lisa has included a lengthy description of what clients can expect if they book her.

She writes: “My body is super-sized, which makes me a Big Beautiful Woman, blessed with luscious lips, large bosoms and voluptuous curves. My deep brown eyes can see right down into your soul.

“I possess a calm and warm demeanour, which will help you to feel safe and secure, so that you can drop your guard and submit openly. There is nowhere to hide from Me.

“I will invade your mind and inspire you to your knees. I am the safe space you have always dreamed of – here to set your spirit free in your submission to Me. And you can get your rocks off while you’re at it.”

Lisa has a fee section on her website which say she offers sessions from her ‘brand new two chambered dungeon’ in Pollokshields, which start from £60 and can go up to £560.

Lisa, who is 5 foot 2, said she is happy with her life and what she does and her girlfriend Vixen, who is also a dominatrix, always celebrates her body.

She said: “It’s never really going to be small but in general I’m happy. I love my body and I love the fact that my girlfriend loves my body and she celebrates it and that gives me confidence when after all of these years in my life I’ve been told ‘no your fat body is wrong you would be so much happier if you were thin’.”

“We just have a normal life together but we also just happen to have a dungeon and were both dominatrix’s so yeah it’s really cool dating a sex worker.”

See more and larger photo’s: Dailyrecord.co.uk.


Dominatrix insists ‘we were just giving people a laugh’ after she and her suspenders-clad slave are barred from Lake District gastropub for public spanking session

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Thu, October 01, 2020 02:13:07
  • Lydia Chadwick, 30, insists she was having ‘a laugh’ after she is barred from pub
  • The dominatrix spanked her ‘slave’ publicly at The Mill in Ulverston, Cumbria 
  • Lydia said she did not mean to cause offence and did not think anyone could see 
  • But owner of The Mill slammed the couple for exhibitionist display on Sunday

Source: Dailymail.co.uk.

UK – A dominatrix has insisted that people should ‘accept this sort of behaviour’ after her and her ‘slave’ were barred from a gastropub in Cumbria for public sadomasochistic display.

Dominatrix Lydia Chadwick, 30, had tied her ‘slave’ to a roof beam with a dog lead and spanked the masked person with a paddle on Sunday evening at The Mill in Ulverston – in full view of other diners. 

Customers who witnessed the sadomasochistic session filmed the bizarre episode and shared it online.

But Lydia defended her actions, telling The Sun: ‘People should get out of the dark ages and accept this sort of behaviour.

‘Most people are just treating it as a laugh.’ 

Lydia added that she had taken a friend from Camden, who identifies as a woman, into the pub because she wanted to be publicly humiliated.

She said: ‘She said she wanted to be publicly humiliated so I was going to take her to a local beauty spot where the walkers go. 

‘We thought we would give them something to laugh at. I did that for another customer before the lockdown. 

‘But we were running out of time and decided to go for a drink in The Mill. 

‘I was going to walk her on a dog lead, but she got embarrassed with everyone looking at us. 

‘We signed in and went to the roof terrace, where I chained her to the rafters. 

‘I blindfolded her and pretended to walk away and leave her as part of the humiliation. I was videoing it and we didn’t think anyone else could see.’

In the video, the sound of the spanking could be heard above the soundtrack of Lovely Day by Bill Withers.

The ‘slave’ was dressed in black fishnet stocking and suspenders and red knickers, while the mistress wore a black dress as she beat his bottom with a black paddle.   

Lydia, who said being a dominatrix is ‘just a job’, said she did not mean to upset The Mill and will ‘apologise to them’, adding that her family were upset after the video was shared online.

But the owner of The Mill has slammed the couple for their exhibitionism after the X-rated incident and barred them from the pub.

A picture on social media also shows a message allegedly written by a member of staff after the incident.

It read: ‘I sat them upstairs on the terrace, these lads came down that were sat up there ten minutes later telling us to go up and see what’s happening – and she has tied them up with a dog lead on one of the beams, whipping them.’ 

Michelle Wood, general manager of The Mill, told The Sun that it was not ‘behaviour that we wanted to encourage’.

She said: ‘The couple signed in as all customers are asked to do for pandemic regulations and it was obvious that the man was dressed as a woman.

‘But in 2020 if you turn men away because they are dressed as women then it is discrimination. 

‘One of the other customers started filming what was going on and then came to tell the staff. 

‘They just embarrassed us for her financial gain.’

The couple are believed to be part of the BDSM community. BDSM refers to often erotic practices which can involve bondage, dominance or submission.

One witness wrote on Twitter: ‘Unreal scenes coming from The Mill in Ulverston.’

Lydia, a self confessed ‘mistress’, said most of her clients are in the UK but also has some overseas, adding that she does what ‘people ask me to do for them’, including humiliation and cross-dressing.

Phil Simpson, owner of The Mill, believes the couple has ties to the Ulverston area and hit out at them for seeking to ’embarrass small local businesses’.

Mr Simpson added: ‘As soon as we spotted this couple’s activities they were told to leave our premises.

‘They are now barred and having seen their post on social media the police have now contacted us for more information.

‘We believe that the woman involved is Ulverston-based and we find it quite depressing that such people should seek to embarrass small local businesses in this manner for financial gain.’

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Sex dungeon live streaming erotica for fetish fans as pandemic shuts down dominatrix

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Fri, April 24, 2020 06:07:07

Source: Dailystar.co.uk

UK – Coronavirus has forced the world into lockdown and now sex dungeons are having to go ‘above ground’ and online to start streaming their kinky content and keep their businesses afloat amid the global pandemic

Coronavirus has changed everything about the way we live. Social distancing has made it difficult for many self-employed people to stay afloat. And that’s especially true of dominatrixes.

n the US, for example, the massive government Covid-19 bailout bill specifically excludes legal sex workers from protection.

Swarm, a sex worker-led collective, says that it has already used donations to support over 200 sex workers.

But many more dominatrixes are just making the best of a bad situation. Top UK dominatrix Mistress Evilyne explained to Daily Star Online that she has always had a sideline in online video, and the lockdown has just made that side of her business more important.

She uploads a new “socially-isolated” video every couple of days and broadcasts a regular live stream of herself reading erotic stories: “I also interact with my followers via private message and make extra money from them sending me tips to show their gratitude and appreciation,” she says.

But Mistress Evilyne was in a better position to make the switch than most of her peers: “I started camming as soon as I became a dominatrix,” she says. While she has video stores on a few platforms “my online income mostly comes from OnlyFans.”

She says that most of her regular slaves have followed her online now, and more are finding her every day: “I rank very highly on Google,” she explains, “and I have close to 50K followers on Twitter.

It isn’t easy though, she says, there is a lot of hard work involved in establishing an online presence. “It took me years to create not just a persona, but also enough content to earn a decent living from. It doesn’t happen overnight,” she said.

One of the biggest problems is making sure that her content isn’t copied by unscrupulous fans: “Unfortunately, none of us are immune to the laws of the internet.

“Once I finally did have a large following, I started to see my content being pirated left right and centre. It happens on such a scale that it is impossible to keep up. New pirated material appears faster than you can get it taken down.”

Still, Mistress Evilyne has built the following and the expertise to weather the storm: “Thank goodness I had already built up my online presence before this hit.

“It will be a very difficult transition from realtime to online for a lot of sex workers. My business has barely been impacted at all because I already had a strong online presence and established sources of online income which are booking in the current climate.”

Mistress Evilyne also uses social media to share knowledge about monetising content with other dominatrixes: “We all support each other with tips and advice,” she says. “I run a private group chat dedicated to kinky content creators using subscriptions services such as OnlyFans, LoyalFans and AVN stars.”

She’s also one of the organisers of The Femdom Ball – a regular annual event for dominatrixes and their slaves – but she isn’t completely sure whether this year’s will be going ahead yet: “The annual International Femdom Ball is still very much on the cards for October. We shall wait until closer to the date to make a definite decision on whether or not it will take place this year. “

Coronavirus has changed everything about the way we live.

But maybe people who are used to living differently have already made a head start on that.

Mistress Evilyne also uses social media to share knowledge about monetising content with other dominatrixes: “We all support each other with tips and advice,”
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Dominatrix on lockdown life – wage cuts, desperate clients and the sub who drops off her shopping

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Fri, April 24, 2020 05:14:05

Source: Examinerlive.co.uk

UK/BIRMINGHAM – The coronavirus lockdown has been a financial disaster for £150-an-hour dominatrix Mistress Lagertha.

Most of her income is generated from one-on-one sessions which she decided to suspend shortly before the official ‘lockdown’ advice was issued.

And, despite her best efforts, she hasn’t been able to generate much money by doing more online work.

Mistress Lagertha – named after a Viking warrior – was earning up to £400 a month before the lockdown but now her income is down to just a few pounds from video sales and phone line work.

“This has hit me really badly,” she said.

“Clients have cancelled visits but the worst part of it, as someone who lives alone, is being on your own in lockdown. It is no fun at all.”

The 40-year-old dominatrix, who did not want to reveal her real name, had been seeing around four clients a month until the lockdown.

Now, she only sees one client – a ‘sub’ (submissive male) – who buys her food from the supermarket and drops it off on her doorstep.

“I started staying in one week before the lockdown became official because I am in one of the vulnerable categories as I have asthma and my immune system is compromised.

“Because I live alone, it has been very difficult. Normally people visit me but that has been taken away.”

Her income has dropped and she won’t be able to manage financially for much longer.

“I am self-employed and I don’t have any savings. I have previously applied for Universal Credit but did not qualify so I am hesitant to apply for it now,” she said.

“My income was between £200 and £400 per month with phone line work as well. Since the lockdown started I have earned £100 – that was for a video cam. Other nights I have earned nothing.

“Now that everybody has moved to online working, everyone has had their income watered down.”

Mistress Lagertha, who is single and based near Birmingham, with clients in Bradford and Manchester, is very fond of her clients and counts some as her friends.

“Most of my clients see me on a regular basis and are friends. They are missing my company and, on a physical level, they are not getting their kinks indulged,” she said.

But working online and doing chatlines are not as lucrative as some may think, she says.

“I made 17 dollars from two chats,” she added. “I can also sell videos but I recently found someone had stolen my content and was giving it away for free. In February I earned 95 dollars for videos and now I can only do solo videos.”

Mistress Lagertha had just began to make her name for herself as a dominatrix when the coronavirus crisis arrived.

“It has taken me three years to get to this point. When the lockdown started I had just got back from Spain which was the first holiday paid for by a ‘sub’.”

Since then she has been unable to see regular clients including a man who flies in from Germany, a self-employed carpenter and a businessman.

“Financially, I am OK for four weeks. I will have to make a decision soon whether I can afford to isolate or go back to work as a dominatrix. Some sex workers cannot afford to isolate.”

And, she says, clients are feeling desperate too.

“They are getting desperate (to see me). They are getting pushy. A few have asked to see me. Some still need to get their fix of escapism which I provide them with.

“Doing something over a video camera isn’t enough.”

She added: “In the last week I have had three people contact me and I can tell they are desperate. I am getting messages from people saying they can’t cope and they are struggling.

“People who are single can feel as lonely and as isolated as I feel. Personally, I am missing the contact with a lot of them.

“They help to keep me mentally happy. They are loyal, they are a distraction and they provide friendship. And they help pay my bills.

“What I do is part of who I am. It (lockdown) is almost like having an arm chopped off. I do what I do for the love of it.

“But now I am at the point of begging clients for money. Some have paid for sessions in advance but some cannot afford to pay for sessions as they have had their wages cut.”

UK - The coronavirus lockdown has been a financial disaster for £150-an-hour dominatrix Mistress Lagertha.
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How Brexit and a French mother-in-law led a British dominatrix to Paris

BDSMradio.EU News Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, February 08, 2020 03:11:00

Source: Thelocal.fr.

PARIS/UK – ‘British guys tend to be quite reserved – until you get them behind closed doors and then all hell breaks loose – while French guys are much more open about being into fetish and kink.’ The words of a British dominatrix who has set up shop in Paris.

Lady Bellatrix has been operating in central Paris for about 18 months since moving from the UK and has become one of the most high profile international dominatrices operating on the French scene.

And France can thank Brexit and her French mother-in-law for her arrival on these shores.

Lady Bellatrix, who was born in Canada but moved to Britain and has British citizenship, is now something of a star of the fetish scene and charges €450 for a 90 minute appointment.

Her clientele is international – she saw people from 11 different countries last year – but Brits and of course French men are heavily represented.

She said: “Being in Paris is great because of course a lot of people travel here, so I have regular clients who come here from the UK a few times a year on business and come and see me too.

“I have people who have travelled from Kuwait and Dubai to see me after finding my videos online, and of course I have a lot of French clients.”

For French men the requirements include – beside paying the hefty fee and being prepared to worship at the feet of Lady Bellatrix – speaking English.

She said: “I’m learning French and I’m getting more confident so now I do the odd session in French but I find it easier to speak English.

“I have private tutor sessions with a French man who is a male dom, so that’s handy for me learning the vocabulary I need for my work, a well as the basic French grammar.”

Despite her dual nationality, Lady Bellatrix markets herself very much as British “the stern British mistress is very popular”.

She trained in her craft with a British dominatrix and feels her style is very British.

She said: “I’m much more stern and strict than dommes in the USA or Canada and I do a lot more corporal punishment – that’s really popular with British guys, more so than any other nationality and it’s a big part of the scene in the UK.

“I find that British guys tend to be more reserved – on the surface at least – but French men are more open about what they’re in to.

“One of my British friends had her dungeon next to the Bluewater Shopping Centre in Kent and she always had a huge spike in business in December, as men told their wives they were off Christmas shopping but went to visit her instead.

“But December is usually a good month for me as well, people are in a party mood and more likely to treat themselves – we all tend to get a little treat for ourselves as well as buying presents for other people.”

Although she enjoyed her time in Britain, it was Brexit that persuaded her to make the move to France.

She said: “I was married to a French guy so visited my mother-in-law in Paris anyway.

“I used to do tours quite regularly in France – advertising in advance that I was going to be there for a month – and then I would go and visit my mother-in-law afterwards.

“I stayed close with her even after my husband and I split up and she was very accepting.

“I was spending several months of the year in Paris and I knew I wanted to carry on spending time here, so when Brexit happened I decided to make the move permanently.”

And it was a good move, as she is now a star of the fetish scene, with 48,000 followers on Twitter and hundreds of subscribers to her videos.

She divides her time roughly 50/50 between performances on camera – some pre-recorded videos and some live on webcam – and ‘real time’ visits from devoted slaves.

People who want to visit – and it is strictly by advance booking only with a non-refundable deposit – can indulge in a variety of activities including foot fetishism, bondage, humiliation, latex, corporal punishment or cleaning her apartment.

There are also some more extreme activities on offer. She said: “I think the cane is my favourite – it’s so very British.”

And being British seems to offer a distinct advantage in the industry.

“I did a performance on camera about Brexit that was really popular with French guys. And I sometimes incorporate current affairs into my performances – the other day I told a slave ‘Do not disrespect your queen – look what happened to Prince Harry!”

So, Brexit paperwork permitting, she’s here to stay and has plans to expand into a bigger dungeon.

And – in a sign that she’s truly embracing the French way of life – she’s even joined a union.

Brexit Lady Bellatrix
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Three-times divorced dominatrix gran charging bored housewives £120 an hour for BDSM lessons

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Sat, February 08, 2020 03:01:22

Source: Thesun.co.uk.

UK – A THREE-TIMES divorced grandmother who embarked on a career as a dominatrix trains bored housewives in BDSM for £120 an hour.

After publicly sharing how she became a professional dominatrix Sherry Lever, 68, was inundated with over a hundred requests from women keen to “learn the ropes”.

The leather-loving granny from Swindon, Wiltshire, revealed how she “reinvented herself” as a phone-sex worker, before becoming a mistress.

“After giving it some thought, I appeared on television where I told my story,” she told Barcroft TV.

“Afterwards it was a revelation — I got lots of emails from women.

“I think I had easily a hundred emails from women, I answered them all.

“It really touched me and it actually made me feel I was helping somebody who had been in my situation.”

I think I had easily a hundred emails from women, I answered them allSherry Lever

Proudly going by her alter ego Mistress Sophia, the mother-of-three maintained her children are completely understanding of her unconventional career path — with her services costing as much as £120 per hour.

One woman happy to fork out the fee was a 50-year-old officer worker, who now goes by Mistress Chloe.

After witnessing some of the sessions, she is now considering giving up her office job to become a full-time dominatrix.

“Sherry has changed my life for the better,” boasted Mistress Chloe.

“Before I was in just nine-to-five office job, now I have men that come over to hoover and clean my kitchen for me.

“If they don’t do it good, they get a caning, I paddle them and whip them.”

If they don’t do it good, they get a caning, I paddle them and whip themMistress Chloe

Mistress Sofia offers a range of specialist services, from flogging and humiliation to ice play and sissy training to her submissives.

But she wants to dismiss the misconception that what she does is sex work and insists she does not have sex with any of her clients.

She continued: “So we are labelled under sex workers, sex business, sex industry — I want to dispel that fact.

“I want people to understand we are not escorts — I don’t have sex with my subs or slaves.

“They are only allowed to worship my feet, nothing above the ankles.”

The cheeky granny recently converted her conservatory into her ‘playroom’, boasting an impressive array of kinky paraphernalia from rubber masks to French maid outfits.

“I might be elderly, but I have zing in me,” she concluded.

“I think that’s from what I do.”

Sherry Lever Dominatrix Lessons
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Wetherspoons app used by ‘financial dominatrix’ uni students to bag free drinks

Worldwide BDSM News From The Media Posted by tom verhoevenPosted on Wed, November 20, 2019 02:47:26

Source: Dailystar.co.uk

EXCLUSIVE: Students running 18+ accounts urge their followers to let them “rinse you dry”

UK – University students are embarking on lucrative financial dominatrix careers by using the Wetherspoons app to bag themselves free drinks.

Tech savvy social media users are using Twitter to cash in on financially submissive men by using the hashtag #SpoonsPig and #SpoonsSlave.

Women running 18+ accounts urge their followers to let them “rinse you dry” alongside links to cash-app services.

In a bid to make quick and easy cash – or bag themselves free drinks and food – university students have created “Goddess” accounts and are posting which Wetherspoons they’re at alongside their table number.

Wetherspoons app allows anyone with an iPhone or Android to order drinks to their table without leaving their seat.

Anyone with access to the app can send food and drink to a person if they know which Wetherspoons a person is in and where they are sitting.

Financial dominatrix’ – known on Twitter as Goddesses – appear to be using the function to their advantage by sharing location information to bag themselves a free night out.

In a Tweet aimed at thousands of followers, one financial dominatrix said: “Good morning… what little b***h is going to empty their wallets for me at spoons?”

Alongside the hashtag #SpoonsPig the dominatrix – known only to followers by her Goddess name – received over 36 likes and eight responses from men willing to send cash.

“I’m going to Sutton spoons… table number 34… I’m THIRSTY I want drinks NOW,” demanded another.

Others simply put: “Finished Uni for the day… Off to Spoons… who wants to serve me? #SpoonsPig”

Daily Star Online approached Wetherspoons for comment but the pub company declined.

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